Ladies, would you rather have a husband who makes $90k/year, or a sugar daddy who pays you $20k/month?

[KrakenAttackin]

[meetkitty123]

Disgusting! I don't want a sugar daddy. I honestly don't care to sell myself. I don't want to be with a man who cannot commit to me nor do I want to be seen as a toy an object or a servant (and worst a whore)

However I don't need a husband who makes 90k. And of course I wouldn't reject a man (who meets my emotional/physical needs) because he made 90k either.

ANYHOW

A husband (WHO MEETS MY EMOTIONAL/PHYSICAL NEEDS) who makes the average American salary ($31,000) is perfect enough for me. His 31k and My 38k a year would give us a 69k a year and this is plenty to live comfortably together as a family.

[KrakenAttackin]

Well said @meetkitty123.

[meetkitty123]

@krakenattackin thank you 😉

[Likes2drive]

It’s nice to see some women rather the husband. I do make the 90K and still have no one

[ManOnFire]

@meetkitty123 Like I literally just said on another question that Latinas don't care about that stuff nearly as much as other women. I was right😂

[meetkitty123]

@Likes2drive making a connection is difficult. It's sad when people want to make a love match and can't find it. I too had hoped I had found my forever love partner but these past 3 years has proven I was very mistaken and perhaps a little too optimistic in thinking my partner could change and improve if I was supportive but after 9 years together 8 married and the last 3 sleeping apart and living as roommates and as separated couple I am now taking steps with a lawyer to finalize the termination of our marriage... Though I scold myself for not leaving after the first 6mos to a yr of marriage after he showed his addiction (gambling) habits.

[meetkitty123]

@ManOnFire yes we latinas are tough cookies and prefer a Hard working man! I personally have a thing for men who are Mechanical in carpentry or engineering or educators.

[ManOnFire]

@meetkitty123 Educators. Nice one. I work in IT so I don't make the cut🤣

[Likes2drive]

Wow sounds similar to how my marriage was and to the end except I’m divorced 7 years now, she got married two weeks after the divorce was finalized so obviously she was cheating. I managed to keep my job longer, 20 years so far

[meetkitty123]

@ManOnFire well depending on the type of engineering you are comparing it too. IT and Engineering border in similarities it and Engineering nowadays all require computer use the bottom line is I either like a man who is extremely skillful with his hands (in a career sense is what I am referring to lol) showing a level of intelligence and creativity by problem solving fixing building or creating. I also love a Techy or educated/having a brilliant mind type of man I am extremely turned on by intelligence, technology, mechanical or building skills or a man with an adept vocabulary

[meetkitty123]

@Likes2drive my man attempted to cheat but I caught him before it could take off now these past 3 years we agreed to be "open" or better said I made it clear We were done and no longer a couple so therefore free to date. I never swayed while we were one unit. But there is such a thing as financial infidelity and that was certainly he... He cheated by his gambling his lies by causing great financial deficit to our family

[ManOnFire]

@meetkitty123 Financial infidelity. Interesting.

[Likes2drive]

Sorry to hear that, my ex cheated for awhile , I stayed for awhile because of the kids

[meetkitty123]

@Likes2drive yes it is always our love for the children which makes us tolerates such deceit

[Likes2drive]

Yeah I was sleeping on the couch for years

[KrakenAttackin]

@Likes2drive Two weeks after the divorce? Wow, fuck her. You are better off without her. Also, the poor bastard who married her will lose her the same way.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah that’s what I’m wondering and still waiting for him to get cheated on because this is her third marriage

[KrakenAttackin]

@Likes2drive This guy is an idiot.

[Likes2drive]

He took on a lot because now she’s not even working anymore since Covid, I feel like he took for me lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@Likes2drive Well, she is collecting wedding rings and alimony. You suffered your experience, now let her go in wreaking havoc with others.

[Likes2drive]

Not sure she’ll go for a fourth since she’s in her 50s already and luckily I didn’t have to pay alimony because she got married right after divorce but I’m not really worried about it anymore since it’s been seven years anyway

[VIVANT]

I’d rather have a husband who makes 20,000/year than a sugar daddy. Well, I don’t want a sugar daddy so there’s really no number. 🫠

[VIVANT]

Money would not come up naturally for me, I only mention it bc of the framing but characteristics are the things I think of. A persons ethics outlook heart compassion —when these things align, it’s priceless.

[KrakenAttackin]

@vivant. Well said Vivant. Once again you can always be counted upon to be the classy lady. Your type is all but extinct.

[Likes2drive]

They asked this on instagram and most said sugar daddy, no surprise there

[msc545]

Women who post in response to this will do what they always do - LIE.

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545. Yeah, but it makes them confront what they actually think vs what they know to be the moral answer.

[msc545]

Let us hope so!

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545. How's that Porsche treating you?

[msc545]

Thanks for asking. The Porsche is quite happy, although it complains that I don't take it out enough.

[KrakenAttackin]

Glad to hear it.

[katiesmuff]

I'll take the husband because I have learned nothing beats a family!

[midnightmoon05]

When I met my second husband he was making about $30k a yr.
so there you ago.
I am also the woman who takes no alimony or child support from ex hubby. even when the court said I can since he makes double than me.
I believe financial responsibilities come with both working together for a better future.
with my first husband, I made him a millionaire because I showed him how to invest.
my second husband same. We are now living very comfortably with only my salary. Hahaha that makes me the sugar mommy?
I do see the down fall of the US with men trusting 💯 on women who are not good financially.
my daughter turning 16…our daily dinner table discussions are financial talks.
her teacher asked how many families talk about finances …she was the only who raised her hand.

anyone interested…listen to Dave Ramsey. I just started a yr ago…
america is a rich country. With 2 salary … no one should be in debt. Stop buying garage and stop listening to sales people.

[rachel776]

$90,000 is not a lot in this day and age

[KrakenAttackin]

@rachel776. So, you are choosing the SD.

[KrakenAttackin]

Do you realize the average income for a man in 2023 $54,132?

[elizamichale1]

20k a month wowww i m up for tht lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@elizamichale1. Hoes gonna hoe.

[elizamichale1]

What's wrong in being a hoe?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Damn, 😂

[Fuentes]

I'm sure most said sugar daddy lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah cuz women be disgusting af hoes

[Fuentes]

@WhiteBoyChill it makes sense lol

[Anonymous]

Sugar

[Anonymous]

Love is dead for me so I said sugar daddy. I doubt I will ever get married now that I've lost the love of my life.

[KrakenAttackin]

Anon... Giga Chad Thundercock slipped away, eh?

[magiusX26]

@kraken would suspect she saying he passed away on her.

[Opinion Owner]

No he dumped me 😔