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1. IMPACT PLAY
Definition: Impact play is when one partner consensually hits the other for sexual gratification, such as spanking.
This is often the entry level into BDSM and, if enjoyed by both partners, may lead to a deeper exploration into the myriad of pleasures this form of sexual fetish can provide.
Be sure to discuss all limitations prior to beginning this type of kink, and negotiate all boundaries up 'front', so you don't take it by surprise in the 'end' ...lol
Be sure to discuss the level of play you would both enjoy and pick a "safe-word" that indicates when you are seriously ready to stop the play.
2. ROLE-PLAYING
Definition: A bedroom practice, in which partners dress up and pretend to be someone else for sexual satisfaction.
Is role-playing just for kids? ...not at all, adults do it too! :) This is a favorite play-time event for many kinky adults who aren't bashful and have a little thespian nature still in them. What are some of the more common roll play characters? ...how about "The School Girl and the Professor" or "The Pirate and the Helpless Maiden"? How about the sexy maid in mini-dress costume who climbs up the step ladder to dust the top of the china cabinet and "accidently" forgot to put her panties on this morning? ...Oh My!
What about the ultimate taboo role-play kink - "Daddy and the Brat Princess" ...well, you can take that one from there ...lol
Remember, these are just fantasies, so have fun and make yours come true.
3. FOOT FETISH
Definition: The pure admiration or sexual attraction of barefeet. Usually pertaining to men, but not always, who can become sexually aroused from the sight of any part of women's feet (including, toes, arches and soles.
This is involves a desire to massage, kiss and smell a female's feet, many times to the point of worship. A foot fetish involves a desire to worship feet through acts such as massage, kissing, and smelling. Many girls are startled by a guys, or girl's, desires for this fetish but quickly fall into it's trances with the many massages, and other sensations, they soon become addicted to and even start to demand of their worshiper.
4. ANAL SEX
Definition: Sexual activity involving penetration of the anus.
The anal opening has sensitive nerve endings that can provide great pleasure to many who get off on butt play or would like to try it.
Anal sex can be as simple as the insertion of a finger or propel to the full penetration of a penis. Toys are also commonly used. My all time favorite is the insertion of anal beads while masturbating or having vaginal sex and then pulling them out as I am climaxing. The dual sensation is an OVER-THE-TOP EXPERIENCE, I promise!
Cleanliness is of utmost importance. Consider getting colon hydrotherapy, like the porn stars do, prior to any serious anal play. You can have this service preformed at most good holistic health centers. I purchased my own hydrotherapy device to use at home. If you want something cheap and easy, at minimum buy an enema bulb at the local drug store and get clean prior to any play. Also lube is required. If there is going to be penetration with a condom, be sure to use a "water based" lube otherwise the condom will be quickly compromised. Oil based lube, like olive oil or avocado oil is great if your partner will be penetrating "bare-back" (without a condom). If rimming will be a part of your anal play, there are some great flavored lubricants made especially for that. Anal sex can be great if done slowly at first to allow your partner a chance to get use to anal penetration. Start by just teasing the anal opening with very slight penetration with quick withdrawal. If you do it right, soon they will be begging for it! :)
5. LINGERIE FETISH
Definition: A sexual fetishism relating to undergarments, and refers to preoccupation with the sexual excitement of certain types of lingerie, including panties, stockings, pantyhose, bras, or other items.
A panty fetish refers to a sexual arousal by, or sexual interest in, women's panties. It is most commonly a fetish seen in men although some women have a panty, or lingerie, fetish as well.
Just like a boob fetish, it's hard to figure out just what it is about lingerie that turns guys on that love it so much ...is it the visual thing, or something else? Well, whatever it is, it works and this most common, mainly male fetish, has lingerie lovers everywhere drooling over this sensual delight. Some guys love nylons or thigh highs. Other guys like bras and panties. Even others love corsets or sexy nighties. What is your hot button lingerie type?
6. GROUP SEX
Definition: Group sex is a form of sexual behavior that involves more than two partners
What is the difference between a gang bang and an orgy? ...I am so glad you asked! An orgy is group sex with any mixture of sexual genders where a gang bang is considered to be one gender being taken advantage of consensually by many of the same but opposite gender as in a girl being penetrated by multiple penises. A guy or a girl can also be gang banged by multiple girls with the use of strap-on penis dildos.
7. SENSATION PLAY
Definition: Erotic sensation play is a class of activities meant to impart physical sensations upon a partner, as opposed to mental forms of erotic play such as power exchange or sexual role playing. Sensation play is sensual, where the sensations are generally pleasing and light.
Sexually erotic play that takes the sexual energy of the tingling and sensual desire between your legs to the next level as in the soft touches from your partner while you are having sex. It's the burn of desire between your legs that cries for more. Good sexual energy creates sensations.
Sensation play can refer to a huge range of activities based on the receiving or withholding of different stimuli. For instance, one partner may blindfold the other to deprive them of their sense of sight, a form of sensory deprivation, or they may drag an ice cube along their skin, a form of sensation play known as temperature play. When it comes to giving sensation, think of everything from tickling a partner with your hands or a feather to biting them. Impact play is sometimes placed under the category of sensation play.
8. ORGASM CONTROL
Definition: Orgasm control can mean any of several sexual activities involving forcing, denying, or postponing orgasm;
Edging, postponing orgasm to achieve an ecstatic state
Orgasm Denial, preventing the recipient from having orgasms
Forced Orgasm, the forcing of an orgasm that is outside the recipient's voluntary control
Orgasm control is part of BDSM, as it involves an element of dominance and submission. Edging, in which the submissive partner is brought to the brink of climax and then forced to stop — often done repeatedly — is an example of orgasm control. The idea here is that for as long as you like, you let your partner take the reins and determine when and how you come. As with all of the activities here, anyone can engage in orgasm control regardless of their genitalia.
9. BONDAGE
Definition: The practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. A partner may be physically restrained in a variety of ways, including the use of rope, cuffs, bondage tape, or self-adhering bandage.
Bondage is when one partner restrains the other. It’s usually a form of dominance and submission and falls under the BDSM umbrella. You can bind your partner using objects you already have around, such as a belt, or purchase specialty kink items like handcuffs. To engage in restraint play safely, establish boundaries and a safe word, emphasize consent and communication at every step, and start slow. (And take care not to cut off anyone's circulation!) Books such as sex educator Tristan Taormino's - The Ultimate Guide to Kink, can help you get started.
10. PSYCHOLOGICAL PLAY
Definition: A sexual power exchange. Mind control, a type of BDSM.
While physical actions, such as spanking, are often the most discussed kinks and fetishes, some of the most intense sexual play takes place in the mind. Psychological power play, AKA “mind control,” is a type of BDSM. Psychological play involves implementing such a sexual power play exchange. Humiliation play, for example, might involve a submissive partner getting off on being called names. Consensual threats are an example of psychological play as well; one example is a domme warning a male submissive with a foot fetish that he’ll have to lick her feet if he doesn’t fall in line and do exactly as she says.
11. VOYEURISM
Definition: A person who derives sexual gratification from observing the naked bodies or sexual acts of others, especially from a secret vantage point.
A study on fetishes published in the Journal of Sex Research found voyeurism — or obtaining sexual pleasure from watching others who are naked or having sex — to be one of the most common fetishes. Of course, as with every other fetish, engage in voyeurism consensually, for example at a sex party where a couple has given you permission to watch; watching someone without their permission is never acceptable. The flip side of voyeurism is exhibitionism, which means achieving sexual pleasure by allowing others to watch you. (A sex party is a great setting in which to do this, too.) What do you say, let's get this party started? ...lol
I hope you liked my list. Maybe you have another one to add. Feel free to share with us.
What Girls & Guys Said
26 72I've never had a girlfriend, at 36, just talking with a cute girl my age is good enough for me
Thanks for the thumbs up ladies. 😭🙂
I Love when a girl wears lingerie for me and sexy shoes , thats all all it takes lol
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Nice!
I recently had a friend introduce me to pegging and prostate play. She saw it in a porn and she like the switch in power and control. She ask my thoughts on it over text and I said I was clueless on what pegging even was. She came over and she showed me about 4 videos. I told her if that what she wants to try I would be ok with it but at no point would a actually suck on the strapon. That is something I don't get. But whatever. All this was about 3 months ago and believe it or not, I am huge fan still. She just came over this morning and we did it. I cannot ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone yet but the orgasm I do have is unlike anything I've ever experienced. Sometimes I will use a dildo when I'm solo now. It's changed my life.
I like feet
I also have a wet vagina fetish
Is there a degree of moisture , percentage wise before a vagina can be legally referred to as wet?
@hafinjun ... lol
Bondage and CNC.
Nice :)
You forgot rape, that's number one for women.
Someone having a fantasy doesn't mean that they actually want to do something in real life. Haven't you ever gotten so angry at someone that you fantasized about killing or seriously injuring them? That doesn't mean that you actually wanted to kill or injury them.
@OlderAndWiser Um, false comparison. If I did get angry and have a fantasy like that, it would have been a one-off thing where I was just acting out of frustration. That's it. When girls fantasize about getting raped, they MASTURBATE and derive pleasure from it, AND they do it regularly, AND they ask their boyfriends to become pretend rapists so they can live it out. So clearly, they're not one in the same.
Oh and not to mention how so many girls craze over rape novels. Approximately half the top 100 best-selling books on Amazon have rape in them, and we all know these are almost exclusively bought and read by women.
How's your track record with women? You sound like you're an expert!
@OlderAndWiser Why would I even want to date women anymore after finding out what they secretly desire?
That's what I thought!
I enjoy the role play. The nurse, cheerleader, schoolgirl, teacher etc
Groupsex and voyerism
Okay I'll share, but I don't want shit for it. We are adults, so here I go.
1) Lingerie Fetish. I like to wear it
2) Bondage. Give and Receive
3) Role-playing. I played the school girl, nasty nurse, even played as her lesbian girlfriend
4) Anal Play. Giving and Receiving. I like strap-on play
5) Spankings
6) Group Sex
I think thats it
Nothing wrong with it. Thank you for sharing! :)
Sensation Play
Orgasm Control
Role Play
Might be too extreme for you.
I love role play and BDSM
My fiancée is my naughty submissive bitch 😉😛
Do u love licking her?
Do you have any interest in life other than sex?
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Just a small sample, but there's lots more! ... should I continue, or does that answer your question? :)
No it doesn't. People who are into casual sex are gross to me.
Yes, but that wasn't your question. So it is your "fetish" to be reading and providing nasty replies to people and topics that you find gross. From the perspective of many, it would be hard to distinguish between the grossness of your fetish and of that which you find in any of those that are sexually natured.
Someone who licks other women's feet, has group sex, etc is gross.
I understand Ms Милашка. Thank you for taking the time to read my post anyway. Maybe you will like some of the other non-sexual ones I attached :)
Ok. I'll check them out.
4, 6, 8, 9 and 11. 😍
Great list! I love role play and often dress as a woman. My girlfriend and I enjoy our little "lesbian playtime" it has become a big part of our sex lives and often starts with a shopping trip to get us each something new to wear
Yes, definitely.
Top few would have to be:
1. sissification
2. Humiliation
3. orgasm control
my list would be
2. ROLE-PLAYING
6. GROUP SEX
8. ORGASM CONTROL
Edging, postponing orgasm to achieve an ecstatic state
Orgasm Denial, preventing the recipient from having orgasms
12. exhibition
I added this last one :)
My favorite role play is when we simulate porn movie making with friends, it mixes it all, group sex, exhibition, role play and orgasms control
but no need of role play to enjoy the others :)
A guy tied up, taking on edge is really something, pleasure becomes a torture, i love doing that to guys. only when they are tied up you really can do it
That is so hot!!! I love it when a woman does that to me. I also love it when she demands I do something naughty, kinky or taboo just for permission to cum. If I don't agree, or comply, she won't let me cum.