Let's Talk About Your Penis and How Big it is...

Let's Talk About Your Penis and How Big it is...

I see so many questions related to penis size, and I have just got to put some truth out there. I apologize in advance for any offense and for maybe being too open about myself.

YES SIZE MATTERS, just not nearly as much as you may think.

I understand why it is important to you. You want to know that you are the best. Maybe you just love the look of awe on a woman's face when she sees it. Maybe you are terrified that you are not good enough, or that she is secretly laughing or dissapointed.

For my average and below average guys.

She has had bigger, but she has not had better. Now I know bigger is better right? Yes, a bigger cock is somewhat better than a small cock. But it does not mean the sex, the connection, or the relationship is better. How do I know this? Because who is she with now? You are obviously best at something.

We care about size. We want to know that you have a normal sized functioning cock. But average is around 5 inches hard and we don't know your inches just by looking. I have had guys that I thought were average tell me they were 4 inches. I got used to it and so did my vagina. And the sex was still good.

This is how I judge the quality of sex in order from most important to least.

1. Are we in love or do we have a strong connection?

2. Am I feeling sexy?

2. Are we sexually compatible? Do we have similar likes, communicate well and catch a good rhythm?

3. Is he skilled? Can he turn me on?

4. Is he a gentleman...ladies first. :)

5. How does he look naked and how big is his penis?

See where I put the D?

Now for my big guys. I know what you want.

Let's Talk About Your Penis and How Big it is...

We really don't want to have conversations about how amazing your penis is. In fact, if you get cocky...see what I did there...then it is a BIG turn off. And I am liable to go back to the little guy. The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches. He was also very thick and great in bed. But what I loved most is that he was very shy about his penis and did not want to talk about it. He also wasn't the best I've had.

Last note is this. I find maturity very sexy. A guy who is jealous and worried that he is inadequate does not come off as mature. The guy who can't get enough of himself and thinks he is God can take a hike. But the guy who can be straight forward about himself and doesn't care about my past. I won't be able to keep my hands off him.

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  • ... Eh.

  • thanks for the post. i am 33 and am the below average guy at 4.9 inches. i am ok with what i have and i have also learned to please as best as possible. work it hard and very good at foreplay and oral as my main going would be to make sure she is happy in order for me to feel that i succeded.

  • Can't make anyone feel better about something they have internalized about themselves. It's the reason women get boob jobs and lips like largemouth bass. It's why guys do steroids. And it's why somewhere, right now, a pharma bro is working on a cure for small penis.

  • I appreciate you. Thank you so much!

  • Generally there is a correlation between penis size and overall size. The average NFL lineman is likely a lot better endowed than the average jockey.

  • I am very well endowed 9"+ inches and thicker than average as well. i appreciate the honesty of this post because size does matter but for the bigger men like me if you are not a confident gentleman or you are an asshole then no girl or person would ever want to be with you its really simple. From my experience girls and women do prefer a larger size just don't be a dick about it yourself lol

    • Is 7 with a girth of 5 to 5.5 good?

    • @mr_mxy i am not a girl to ask man lmfao but 5.5 girth is the same as mine

    • Your mouth has a 9" girth.

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  • I'd still rather have a huge cock over my average one

  • Thank you , thank you, thank you, I enjoyed every word I could not agree more. I find it quite funny the extreme lengths guys go to just to add a little meat to his home and it is stupid. Thank you again !!!

  • OMG I about died laughing at the wiener pic. Actually I always thought I was small until someone said anything otherwise. As for partners I am not ashamed I can count them on one hand

  • Lets talk about your gut/butt and how big it is

  • Roughly 6.25 inches in length 4-5 inches in girth

  • Lol bitch went anoynmous 😂 we can sooooo trust you now

  • An honest woman's take on the issue.
    I appreciate that and im glad to know that there's another woman that says size doesn't matter much

  • Lmao at this take

    • same girll

  • My BBC melts In your mouth, not in your hands

  • Some women don't care for bigger sizes. Some of us are content with smaller sizes. It depends on the guy and the relationship and the women lol. There is somebody for everybody.

    • well l have no girl l would love to have a nice hot girl me on my own and it is very cold in scotland l love girls l only want one girl in my life to love and respect at all times and to please xx

    • one size does not fit all girls l keep mine in my tool box lol

  • I am 8”, but very, very thick. My thickness makes my cock look much bigger than it is. Have never had a problem getting it into a woma. The biggest advantage is its thickness tends to rub against a woman’s clit when fucking, make her cum super hard.

  • "between 11 and 13 inches" If only that were possible...

  • This is just the diaries of a slut. If you don't care of my slutasious past , I won't care of your penis insecurities..

    • Less scummy

    • @Harleyonfire. Lmao... Im not alone and I'm not bitter nor do I believe in witchcraft. ... nice try tho... Truth hurts don't it...

    • damn bro I was gunna comment giving you support but it looks like you handle ad hominems better than I! Good on you for not letting this slut's personal attacks get you down, see you are commenting on shit she actually said and telling her the truth as you see it, she is insulting you based on literally nothing other than the fact that you told her something she doesn't wanna hear 10/10 buddy keep it up

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  • Boys should also start visualising the inches like many girl here do to feel good

    I mean in wrong calculation ofcrs 😂

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