Little space/age regression question, Can a little have a mommy and daddy as a caregiver?

[Anonymous]

I regress (am a little but also a caregiver) as of late I have found myself wanting a mommy. You see I already have a "Daddy" but I can't tell if it is because he doesn't really take on the "caring", "loving", "adoring" "daddy" role all that much like i need/want when I regress and maybe that is why I want a mommy or perhaps me being pan-sexual/open to poly has something to do with it. I just kind of feel a mommy would give me that caring, loving and adoring nature I want when little. Now hear me out i'm NOT saying my current caregiver/daddy isn't any of those things or he only cares about sexual things but it is more so me getting the urge to say "Mommy!" while I don't have one. What should I do? Can I have both? I don't want to leave my current caregiver. Please be nice and thank you!

[PenkWing]

I’ve never been in a situation similar to yours, but I’m a dom and I’m poly. For both these things it’s very important to understand what you need and keep communication open at all times. I’ve been a dom to someone while they also had other dominants, and it can work. But everyone needs to understand that they’re in a relationship with each other. Age regression brings out powerful emotions, and you need a real space of care. You don’t want mommy and daddy to be fighting or to distrust each other. I believe it can be done with the right people but it needs some commitment to make it work.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah you can have both, however that’s a discussion for you and your DD.

Its about Consent, Respect

You also need to agree limits, boundaries etc.

There is a lot of emotional head space going on for everyone involved and everyone needs to be aware of that.

If you do it, I suggest ‘parents’ that are separated.

[Asker]

So my current caregiver has a very hard time showing his emotions and yes I do too but I really love the emotional connection and actually need it. It is hard while I regress because i basically have to ask for his affection but I know that isn't how it is supposed to be. We did talk last night but it was hard very hard and it didn't go as I had planed it to. I felt bad trying to open up to him while he had some very personal matters going on and I felt like I was hurting him more. We didn't talk about me thinking about having another caregiver or well a mommy but more so the emotional connection I long for. Do you @chrismaster69 have any advice for how I should go about talking to him about it?

[ChrisMaster69]

Who attracted who? Did he want a lg or you a DD? With what you are in to, it’s very much an emotional bonding more than anything else. Both need to be very open to each other, the only way is to talk and listen to each other and take baby steps (no pun intended), just take it slow with each other, Talk about sessions, what you both want from them, talk afterwards if you both got what you wanted, if not talk about why. Before you move on to thinking about a MD, you really need to sort the issues with your current relationship. Is this online only or in real?

[Asker]

In real

[ChrisMaster69]

Thanks for MHG

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I’m not too educated on this topic, but I would assume your “daddy” or current “caregiver” is your boyfriend?
I think you should talk to him about giving you more care and love… And if he doesn’t, you could talk to him about adding another “caregiver.”


@chrismaster69 You’re the only one I know who might have more information on this, could ya help?

[Gwenhwyfar]

I think that’s a great idea

[joeldalton]

You need Jesus.

[Anonymous]

Sure……,

[Anonymous]

What?

[Asker]

it is ok if you don't understand