Lol, did I subliminally just tell him I want to get fucked?

I've been performing nothing but oral to my friends with benefits , and in return I get no oral or penetration. I just get make out session and caresses. I don't even know why because I'm like a 8/9 out of 10. Constantly get hit on by guy, nice face abs amazing figure. I've seen him a total of 4x. 2x he was excuse, the other two time he wasn't. He contacted me and I told me he wanted to see me. I said "period week." Then text "no satisfaction until i get mines. " would you guys interpret that as fucking? I hope. I didn't want to be blunt like "i am not pleasuring u until i get fucked. "
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  • No, I think that was perfect. Too me I would assume you want oral. If it was me in your situation, I would prefer oral first between us before sex anyway just to eliminate pregnancy risks. I also know most women like oral better anyway. From the sounds of it, he needed to be told anyway. Not fair the pleasure is mostly one sided.

    So are you saying after you blew him, he just kinda like got up, said "thanks" and left? He never offered oral to you?

    • Yea, exactlt. He was like "thanks" abd left

    • And*

    • Hmm, I am sorry to hear that. That is too bad. I can just imagine how easy a friends with benefits situation could be and everyone gets to have the sexual fun. Too bad something so easy has to be so complicated!

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  • I think you need to get out with him over an intimate drink and just tell him it's time to sing or get away from the piano, that you need to get laid and if wants the job, he needs to get busy. I suspect you'll find him balls deep shortly thereafter.

    It also seems to me that you have some kinks, be they dominant or submissive. If that's true they need to get in the mix sooner rather than later. Is my intuition correct?

    • I love a mix of both. But I've been dominant all this time. The first was really the time he took initiative.

    • So talk to him about that, too. Set up safe words for pause and stop and then, when you want him to dominate, say code phrase like, "Please! Don't hurt me, Master!!"

    • Lmao, i can't when he isn't performing oral or penetrative sex

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  • Just jump on him and start riding

    • Lol maybe i should just do that

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  • Yeah I would just tell them eat my pussy and fuck me hard then I will please you that's more than fair and why wouldn't they I would u would have never had to ask I would have pleased you first then got mine

  • First decide which way you want sex , then communicate clearly.

    • What do man which way? Whether oral or penetrative sex?

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    • Just decide and ask what you want to get and what you want to give.

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  • You came out blunt but necessary. He was obviously trying to get off without doing any of the work, selfish and lazy. Find a new fuck buddy that will do more than just make you suck him off.

    • He has one more chance from me once he contacts me. If i see he doesn't come at me before O give him oral or midway through oral, I'm leaving

    • Good idea

  • yup.. u clearly gave that message.. its not harsh or blunt. to me its a turn on. and i would think whether u mean oral licking on u, kos its what i am getting/

    • Lol.. he prob dislike oral. If he does he can tell me, but penetration? What guy wouldn't? I'm not sure whether is because he lives with mom still he is 21, understandable

    • i would not do penetration if girl is not ready. Oral is ok if we do all stuff and she make me cum. i had a relationship like that for many months

    • I am ready that's the thing. For penetration I've only spoken about oral though...

  • Why is he your friends with benefits again, I think I missed it. You have other options, go after those.

    • Yeah, he has ONE more chance with me. First friends with benefits . I thought sex is in every guy mind sheesh

    • If you're an 8/9, why give him another chance? Honestly, it's a total win for him. He makes out with you and gets head.

    • This guy contacts me daily, he wants more from me and I'm always declining. Even so he continues to text me. Lol. I think leaving him will give him the L. He has just ONE more chance.

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