Long-term boyfriend told me tonight that he feels like he’s doing all the work in bed, when I feel like I contribute too. ?

I work from 5 AM to 9 AM and I’m really tired sometimes, I want to please him so bad but I don’t have the stamina like I used to do this job. Can someone give me some tips on making our sex life hotter thank you
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  • Well, it's really all about headspace in my opinion. You need to be in the moment with him, use your hands to pull him in, or ride on top and feel his chest.. don't just lay there and do nothing (fucking a dead fish)

    Good sex requires both parties to participate equally in satisfying eachothers needs. If only one side is winning, it's not really fun is it.

    For me personally, if I wanted to fuck a lifeless hole, I'd buy a fleshlight.

  • Definitely don’t attempt anything after a 10+ hour shift unless you feel like you can run a marathon. I did that once and still to this day my ex insists it was the worst lay she’s ever had.

    Just be attentive and active. Be in the moment and do your best to make sure it ends well for both of you.

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  • I don't watch porn but I've heard that it can spice up a couple's sex life.

  • You only work 4 hours?

    • Yeah I work part time and go to college

  • Sound like you need to have a conversation to understand each others needs and feelings

  • You work 4 hours. That's nothing unless you're breaking bricks or some serious manual labor.

    • Merchandising is not easy labor that’s for sure

    • Dude. I work 4am up 230. Then 5-8. Money- Friday. No excuses. Just being lazy.

    • This isn’t a piercing competition you troll no one asked you for your life story

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  • Besides work, do you go to school? What are your days off from work?

    • I go to school four days out of the week

    • What are your days off from school and from work?

    • For school Friday and for work Saturday Sunday

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  • Maybe you just need rest?

  • He should be happy you’re even just fucking him, give me a break

    • Yawn

    • It's true

    • No it isn't.

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  • You can always give him a blowjob. Secretly slip him a Viagra. Or Foreplay your favorite character, teacher, student, you get where im going.