Loose vagina, tight vagina?!

Do women get loose over time? Due to a big penis, having sex with multiple people, the amount of times you have had sex, child birth? Does a loose vagina take longer to make a guy cum? My boyfriend says he doesn't like doing it in the butt because it's too messy and my vagina is just as tight. He also said loose vagina's take long to make a guy cum. I can make him come in 10 minutes if I wanted to. I'm so scared of becoming loose.
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  • Two issues here. The Vag opening where the hymen is/was and the Vag "sleeve".

    The opening will stretch and tear, adjusting to the largest object passing through, which is a baby's head. It will tighten back somewhat but it will become permanently looser.

    Your sleeve will "learn" to relax and fit whoever is inside after the first few visits. If a larger guy stops visiting and a smaller guy replaces him, you may seem loose at first but will snug up after a few visits. If you stop having sex or masturbating with multiple fingers or a wide object, your sleeve will unlearn and a new, smaller guy will not find you loose.

    Multiple (if they're small) no. Multiple times, no. A big penis once once, no. A big penis continually over time, yes. Looseness delaying orgasm, yes.

    Childbirth stretches and tears the vag opening but the baby does not pass through the full length of your Vag sleeve, but rather directly out from your cervix through the Vag opening and is very close to it during child birth. The short pocket above (to your G-spot) won't be affected, nor will the long pocket below it.

    You have nothing to worry about here. Stay away from anal. 10 minutes is ideal in the real world.

    Hope this helps.

    • Thank you mister.

    • He's right about getting looser with a big penis, and yes about how the vagina most always gets less stretchy and "average " again once it's not stretched by a very big penis or dildo. After a couple of weeks of not toying it gets hard to fit that same large dildo in as easily. I don't agree with him about anal though. It can be done in safer ways and the chance of mess showing up can be reduced with preparing for anal and getting experienced with knowing your ass and when it's empty. Brown rarely sticks to the penis or toy if an ounce extra lube is injected up the butt too.

  • You won't and can't become looser over time from sex (urban legend). No mans penis will make your vagina bigger. Yes from what I understand child birth can change that area especially if there are multiple births. If you don't use the muscles down there from either sex or from whatever else you can lose muscle down there which can make you feel looser even though the vagina is still the same size. I don't know credible sources to show you but I've heard this from doctors and have experienced it from long term relationships. There's no need to be scared.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds like a typical prick. The only things that would make a vagina 'loose' is age and child birth, lots of sex and big dicks are not the culprits! The vagina is a muscle and can constrict and stretch as needed. Child birth can have an adverse effect especially when there are complications. He is a shit for making you worry about it

  • if you have sex you will loosen up, its fate. can't change that. dosnt matter if its 50 pple or having sex with your boyfriend 50 times.

    no tight or loose dosnt make a guy come more so or not. I had a friend who didn't like a girl to be tight so it depends on the guy, really. but it is true for the typical guy

  • Yes women loss there tightness overtime just like a man's balls hangs lower with age and a women's boobs also giving birth can make it losser and having relations with a pretty big penis over and over again can stretch the muscle especially if it's bigger then normal.

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  • Some women are more loose than others. Some women can accommodate a much large penis than others. It's a fact of life. Each women is different just like each man is different. The trick is finding the right match in size.

  • Tight vagina causes rapid ejaculation for most guys. There are ways to guy delay ejaculation. Tantric techniques are best for this.

  • Yeah most woman get very loose

  • Who cares if I love her that's all that matters

  • Like many men, I have had multiple sex partners and no vagina is the same. Some are tighter some are looser. Thats just the way it is. I personally prefer a slightly looser vagina because I do last a lot longer before orgasm and the experience is more pleasurable for the woman and for me too

  • Well... sadly but yes. Child birth and sex with bigger penis well break the walls down. My girlfriend has 2 kids and her last x boyfriends they were over 9 10 inches. She's very loose but I still love her. Takes me a lot of focus to cum but I get her off and squirting every time.

  • after giving birth, my wife's vagina actually got tighter.

    PC muscle excercises.

  • Yes to all your questions above.

  • the whole loose / tight thing is a myth. all girls feel about the same. I've slept with 2 girls who had kids and they didn't feel any different.

    • Even though a vagina is a bit bigger or looser, they do still feel really similar to a penis. There certainly is a range in the sizes of the vagina though. Some are just bigger but not actually loose. They're all so flexible that they feel similar though.

  • Child birth is the only way to really stretches out. Some girls don't think so, but its not something you ever admit to your girl. Most girls will get looser from regular sex, but not above and beyond their current guy. Kegels do help, but most girls don't do them consistently enough to make a difference.