Losing my virginity to a fuck buddy?

I plan on losing my virginity to a classmate of mine. he knows I'm a virgin and he's cool with it. we're friends I guess but we don't talk much out of class. I'm ready for the big step I'm gonna take but I'm also terribly terrified. I'm insecure about my body but I really wanna do this. I know hell he understanding and careful with me so I'm not worried about that. but I just need advice please & thank you
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't do it. Sex is a big deal for a relationship and the last thing you want to do is think back to how your first time was with some one you didn't care about and they didn't care about you. I mean why are you doing this? Because your insecure? Because you want to loose your virginity? Why would you want to what is the motivation behind your decision. I think you need to ask yourself that question first. I'm not saying virginity is the end all be all of existence but many times people regret whom they lost it to. If sex means anything to you, if you want some one who will love you and to give that part of yourself to some one who will appreciate that, who will care about how that impacts you then I would highly recommend not doing this and waiting to find the right person to do it with. So what is your motivation for doing this?

  • In general what you said sounds good. But why are you in such a hurry? the problems that might come out of this is that you may not get any affection out of it. You may fall for him and he may not want to get into a relationship with you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think it's a great idea. He's your friend, and that's a good thing.

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  • Do it if you want to, not because of peer pressure, okay? :)

    Me being a guy it might be weird for you to hear this but, I've refused sex twice cuz I didn't feel ready even though I really wanted to experience it

  • Please be responsible about it. There's no rush to have sex and "get it over with". Plus, if you're scared it probably won't be any fun tbh

  • how the hell is he your fuckbuddy if you haven't even fucked him 😂😂😂. anyways, the description said that he was your classmate and your friend so it's okay.

  • That's a good idea... I have also done the same.. believe me, this will definitely improve your friendship... I know this by my experience.

  • you shouldn't do it, you are just 16 years old. at least wait till you are 18 years old

  • Do it
    Just don't regret it like most girls

  • what advice you need? you wanna go for this or not?

  • If it's about losing your virginity it may be a good thing that you're not trying to find the love of your life in a big hurry. That said, sex can make you feel pretty intensely for somebody even after one time - even if you've had several partners in your life.

    Just be prepared. He may distance himself suddenly if he decides you've become emotionally attached to him. There may also be some social consequences as well, ie making class awkward, rumors etc.

  • It is not a good idea

  • You want advice? Don't do it. Plain and simple. You do it, you'll remember these words

  • If he's a friend that you know and trust, then go for it.