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Losing Virginity To A Prostitute?

I'm 26 y/o and am still a virgin. I haven't even done anything past make-out with a few girls. I feel inferior, immature, and embarrassed about being in this situation. I am so lost when it comes to girls, I just don't foresee anytime I'll ever lose my virginity unless it's with 'hired help'. I'm interested in what other people's opinions are on this. Is it pathetic? Will I regret it? Or, is it a good idea?
Do it. It's better than being a 26 y/o virgin!
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  • Well read carefully, I'm going to give to a very straightforward opinion. (so many people will dislike it but it's the truth)
    Loosing your virginity in other concept and having sex is another. If you never had sex before marriage, you'll be proud on yourself because you stayed loyal to your future wife.
    But staying virgin (uncomfortably) is not recommended. You have only one life and you should enjoy as much as you can.
    Nobody (except you) can tell you whether you are a virgin or not. If you are not satisfied with your sexual life then go for a prostitute. (Prostitutes are low standards? Oh come on, they are basically girls like others but they are forced to do it because of their poor condition.)
    HIV? Do it with a condom.
    After having sex you can fake yourself as a virgin.
    But if its all about your inner feelings then you should stay virgin. Being a virgin is not bad as the word 'virgin' itself have a very good meaning.
    Hope it helps & sorry if I hurt anybody's feelings.
    Good Luck :)

  • I understand the embarrassing, inferior feelings that come from that, but the question is, will hiring someone really end those feelings? I would think, afterwards, you wouldn't be a virgin anymore but you might still feel shitty about having to resort to paying for it to get it. That's what worries me.

    • It's true. I agree with that.

    • I doubt the virginity is even the real problem. You must be pretty lonely. No I think you want the connection more than you want the sex, which would follow naturally anyway. If that's true, then definitely don't go for the escort. It's gonna make you feel bad.

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  • I am 26 and a virgin as well. I really value my virginity and the guys who i have dated valued it as well. Anything that you save for someone you care about will be really special. One guy I dated (who is 26 and still a virgin) had never even held hands with a girl at age 20. I was the first girl he ever held hands with, kissed or did anything with. Though it wasn't my first kiss, the fact that he saved that for me was really really special and it is one of my favorite memories of all time. I imagine sex is the same way. Don't give it away to someone who you don't care about. Someday when you give your virginity to someone you love you will be glad you waited.

  • Here's my advice, do it with a good friend. Find a friend that you somewhat trust and sleep with them. OR go out with friends and meet a bunch of girls and take one home. I lost my virginity through a friend and it was a good experience.

    Trust me when I say I know personally about 3-4 REALLY GOOD people who are over 25 and still virgins. ITS OKAY.

    • I hardly know any girls and the ones that I do know are in relationships. In the past, I've gone out with friends to bars, etc. but girls totally aren't interested in me - or at least that's how it seems. I get told here and there from people (platonic relationships) that I'm quite good-looking, but I feel invisible to the opposite sex.

    • Then find a really nice prostitute. Sex is a fun experience and you shouldn't keep yourself from it. My suggestion would just be to go out for a month or so and TRY to meet a girl that would like to have sex, and if that is unsuccessful, then plan B :)

  • I agree with Alkan. If you do it just one time, it won't make you experienced. Nothing will change in your life. I think that if it is neccessary wait until marriage and don't do it with a prostitute. It's not pathetic, it's understandable, but it isn't worthy, it won't bring any change.

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  • I think you should do it. Find a really sweet prostitute and you won't regret it. Sex is a human need, don't deny yourself it. Or preferably as @drowningcreek said.

    • If you had a friend in my situation, would you pity-fuck him?

    • Yeah, I probably would. I hate that term though, I don't pity virgins at all.

    • Sweet Prostitute lol. You mean the ones that only charge half price?

  • Nothing wrong with that. In fact, I would recommend it pretty much anyone. If you want to lose it just go for it. A good lady of the night would make you feel super comfortable, it would probably excite her, and it is guaranteed, no strings attached, no need to worry about anything really.

  • Paying for sex is wack, get friends with benefits

    • Where do I "get" one of these friends with benefits? If it were so easy, I would have done it, 'ya know?

    • Easier said then done...

    • *than

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  • just watch this and be proud not embarrassed

    https://youtu.be/WdQY9YiFc3c

  • in the future, you dont want to look back and say that you lost your virginity to a prostitute. i would feel more embarrassed from that than actually being a virgin at 26

  • know that some women will think it's a huge turnoff if you've seen a hooker, but if you feel that's what you need... go for it.

    • Well its not like he has to tell them about the hooker. Girls lie about their history all the time.

  • I slept with someone whom I didn't particularly care about and regretted it. It was only after that moment where I realised how little I cared about that person, which was quite disturbing for me.
    So I'd recommend not doing it for the sake of doing it, unless you find it stressful to be a virgin (o. O), and rather wait for someone with whom it works out well with

  • Why do you feel inferior and immature? Sex is not the most important thing in life. It's ok if your 26 and virgin, it's not a big deal at all. I think you'll regret it

  • It's only pathetic if you value your virginity and think prostitutes are low-lifes.

    • Well put.

  • So your a virgin? You've saved your shit for that one "special someone" so you go for a prostitute whose been fucked left and right and has a high possibility for AIDS? You're full of shit

    • Not if he hires a high class escort. His chances of STDs will actually be much lower than randomly hooking up with a girl in a bar or club.

    • You've got a point there.

    • High class low class still not class. Its a hoe.

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  • Tinder, man.

    • Yeah. I've considered it. I don't use Facebook, however, so it won't work. I really don't want to have a Facebook account.

    • You can easily make an account just for the app. That's what I did. Don't need to actually use Facebook for anything else, really. Or there are plenty of hook up apps that don't require FB.

    • Interesting. I'll take a look! thanks

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  • Don't do it. I'm sure you'll find someone better than that.

  • Nothing wrong with being a vergin.

  • All hiring a prostitute will do is change your number from 0 to 1. You'll still be quite inexperienced, and you won't be able to tell future girlfriends that you aren't a virgin without telling her you lost it to a prostitute. Once is not a big deal, and having it multiple times is costly and not the greatest idea.

    • Good point. I just feel like I need to get over that hump. No pun intended lol

    • I'm a virgin myself, and don't see that going away for a couple years. I don't mind people that go to prostitutes, but I know I won't be able to tell any future girl that I lost it to one, and having sex one time in who knows how long might as well make me still a virgin. If you got to the point of making out with multiple girls, find out what you did right, keep doing it and push farther.

  • get a girl dude dont be stupid

  • don't do it. prostitues are prostitues its not special its just a one time thing (until next time) that costs money and is not very special. If you do find someone and they ask and you tell them you lost your card to a prostitute. Just wow.

  • Fine but don't think that women will respect you afterwards

  • At least you managed to make out with a girl. I'm so ugly girls look at me and run.

    • No one is that unattractive.

    • seriously?

    • Trust me I really am that unattractive.

  • Well go have fun

  • if you feel you have to then fine but if i were you i would not tell any women about this

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