Losing virginity with a friend?

Is it okay if I have my first time with my best friend? I'm super comfortable with him but I just want to know if it's fine
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  • If you find it okay, it's okay. We all view virginity differently, some make it super special, others couldn't care less

    • It's special to me in a way that I feel it should be done with someone dear to u and he is but i really want to to make sure that I don't fall for him and ruin the friendship

    • Good luck with the latter. Sex is intimacy after all

  • Is it really worth ruing the friendship for? Because you have sex with him it can never go back to the way it was beforehand.

  • You can, but are you doing it just to lose it?

    • Not at all! I am not in a rush I just felt so comfortable with someone for the first time so I was thinking about it that maybe I should but I'll be careful and not jump into it

  • Totally okay..
    Go for it..
    You are opening a legendary treasure chest to a lifetime of happiness..

  • Stop caring what others think! As long as you are someone u can live happily with then that's all that matters.

  • Be friends with benefits. Have (protected) sex all you want until you both go your own ways. It is healthy and super good. Experiment with your bodies while you can. When you find a person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you will have the experience in bed and will be fantastic.

  • Not unless you’re comfortable getting into a relationship with him. (Assuming he’ll say yes.)

  • As long as you both are consenting adults I don’t think that should matter to anyone other then the two of you.

  • He'll appreciate it.

  • Wait till you're married. I promise you will be happiest that way.

  • Why do you need to ask us?
    The only people that matters is you and your best friend!
    There have been friendships lost when things turned sexual. Beware!!!

  • i see nothing wrong with that

  • I think it's ok

  • Yeah but you can run the risk of getting attached and if you're just friends now then it will get messy

  • Perfectly fine.

  • If he's good with it

  • That's up to you two

  • It's upto you, if you want go ahead

  • Be friends with benefits

  • That's up to you. doesn't matter what other people think. You have to want it and decide that's the decision you're going to make.

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