Lost sexual attraction to significant other?

I think about sex all the time. Like I’ve always had an insanely high sex drive. I’ve been the same guy for almost 5 years and I’m starting (already have really) lost sexual attraction to him. I don’t want to have sex with him. How do I fix this?
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Well, I guess problem solved... he dumped me tonight. ✌🏻
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  • Try to not do anything sexual for a few days. Do what you can to keep your mind off of the topic completely. After a few days see of you're feeling towards him have changed... Perhaps, express your feelings to him and let him know it worries you (if it does worry you). It may be time for you to try something new in the bedroom, or it may be time for a new relationship. If you are not attracted sexually, that usually means you're not connecting on an even deeper level. Try to find the disconnect, but at the end of the day it may be time for a new relationship. You know the situation best, go with your what you think is right.

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  • could break up but maybe he just needs to become better-looking and go to the gym and lift and pound u to oblivion until other girls get flirty with him

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  • It can be difficult to recover that sexual spark once its lost, but you could try to work out something with him. There might be proven methods online.

  • BREAK UP and go bang others

  • Dump him and find a new guy.

    • You're just an online thot looking for orbiters to give you free money.

  • Do you want to have sex with someone else or it is monotony which is going to distract you from sex? Think it over seriously. You can have many openings, like, threesome, sex with another guy, group sex, etc.

  • Just tell him it’s not working, and you want to end it.

  • try using toys or see if he has kinks

  • That's too bad. You need to find something that is fun that rekindles the fire and passion.

    What do you both enjoy doing together?

    • Very sorry to hear about him dumping you. Hope you are okay.

  • You need to receive hard fuck, that's all you need..

  • It honestly sounds like your pussy just needs a new hard dick inside of it. Sometimes your pussy just craves a new feeling. Have you seen other guys you want to fuck?

  • Loss of libido is commen, especially among women. Happens when with the same partner. Read Esther Perel's "Breeding in Captivity". Or watch her video on YouTube.

  • Find new significant other?