Here's what you need to do.
You have to properly spend time on her body.
Teasing her with kisses up and down the entire body. Make sure you don't touch her genitals or nipples.
Kiss close to them and even blow on then gently but don't touch them.
Eventually when she starts to wiggle in anticipation you can release her from her torture.
When she is not expecting it, put your mouth over her clitoris and suck gently while reaching up and squeezing her nipples gently.
I find girls usually go mental when I do this.
You can then make her cum a few times via oral play.
Eventually when you do put it in her, you may feel the need to cum quickly.
If you feel it might happen, before you orgasm... take it out and DO NOT TOUCH IT.
Maybe go back to licking her and let your gun fire off without any stimulation.
This allows you to cum but you don't orgasm. Yes it sucks but doing and giving yourself a minute to recover will allow you to stay hard and you will go forever after that.
I find I can make my girl cum over and over again, switching between oral and penile stimulation.
Then my girl usually has to give me oral for me to actually cum afterward.
^^^^^ THIS ^^^^^ (You sir need to teach a class to men everywhere!)
It's always been my norm. I didn't get laid until I was 21 and I don't as a rule respond to questions from Under 18s. I have found that if I make sure she gets what she needs first, she'll do just about ANYTHING so it's in part motivated by chivalry and in part by vested self interest.
I wish it was more of the norm to do this, I've only had one guy do this to me and it was by far the best sexual experience I've ever had. It's true, it is harder for women to climax from vaginal stimulation alone. The average time for a woman to climax is like 15+ minutes while for the man, it's about 3 minutes. So you see the issue here. When you give a girl head first, and have her climax before you actually have sex with her, she'll already be really sensitive and the chance is that she'll climax again through vaginal stimulation is much higher. Basically, once you've come once, it's easier to come over and over again. You don't have to do this every single time, but it's definitely a nice little present.
sorry but a small correction some only need 1 min :p
No, they did a survey of like 1000 men, some took longer, some didn't last as long, but the average of all men was 3 minutes.
yeah. my boyfriend always makes sure i finish/cum first. i feel like it's the polite thing to do, because guys usually finish before girls. and they need time to warm up for a round 2. girls can orgasm many times in a short time period.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!let me tell u what u need to know for guys its easy to come coz its all about the dick but for a girl it takes sometime.. i mean it wouldn't kill u to make her come first then u can come as much as u want..
so the best way to do that first kisses and licking all over her body then her vagina finally use your fingers and i guarantee you after that night u will always be superman to her ( before sticking your dick in u need not less than 40 min of foreplay )
I'd be surprised if they actually do. Either way...
usually that means to make sure she climaxes at least once during foreplay, most oftenly through clitoris stimulation with fingers and/or tongue.
but some (more often than not, this take some experience) also make her climax during penetration, then oftenly combined with stimulation of the clitoris (seriously, it's hard to impossible for most girls to climax from penetration alone).
Depending on your sircle of friends this may or may not be the norm.
I normally spend some time giving her oral, or just teasing her a bit. I know what position my GF can easily orgasm in so we usually finish off in that cos i really can't last very long when she's on the edge of orgasm and tightens up.
90% of the time we finish together, but If I feel im going to finish first, I pull out and play with her for a bit until i know I can carry on.
You'll get to know your mrs better and things come naturally. (no pun intended)
I just bang them until they've run out of orgasms or are about to have the last one (usually 2 to 4).
If the timing is good, I'll finish with them on the last one.
It's not my experience that girls have a hard time cumming by penetration alone, but it does take time, she won't cum in like 2 min flat.
Besides women are more complex and requires more emotional stimulation along with the physical. She need to feel comfortable and desired, or she may not be able to cum at all.
I had sex and I chummed like made and it felt good
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