Girls, Male Chatity?

Anonymous

Girls do you think it's weird that I'm a 20 year old virgin male who wears a cb-6000s?

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btbc92 Master
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No. What he does is his business. He does not need to share that to the world. Virginity is a part of you, it is not weird. Only immature and superficial people think that it is, even if you were a virgin till death. It is still your choice. As long as you are content, satisfied and happy with your decision, who cares what others think. The only people you should be concerned about is the one who you want to date/marry and as I say God himself. That's it. Other than that, your fine. And I believe you meant 'male chastity'? Again, not an issue. Glad to know you are still a virgin.
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- Asker
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  What about wearing a chastity device like the cb-6000s and wanting a girl to hold the keys?
- btbc92
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  @Asker pretty weird to me, but why does he need to do something like that and give her the keys?
- Asker
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  It's a sexual fantasy of his for her to hold the keys and keep him a virgin until they have known she decided that she's ready to let him out and have sex with her. Because the time she's ready they will likely get married or they will at the very least be together for a very long time,
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- btbc92
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  @Asker Well one things for sure is I wouldn't agree to sexual fantasy's such as that or any kind of fantasy, because if your looking to wait for marriage its going to ruin your perception of what marriage is sex is all about. I myself is a virgin and Celibate, but if the choice to marry, it is to wait as well. But I would not marry a guy who believes in that. That is a clear sign that the marriage and sex life is not going to be good, because he already made his terms clear that he wants that. So unless you find a person who would agree with those terms, your not going to get married anytime soon. Just being honest here.
- btbc92
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- Asker
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  Well I appreciate the honesty to be truthful I've never told anyone in person about that fantasy because I was always afraid of how people would react. I honestly always figured that when I do get married and I lose my virginity that I would have to forget about it. So in all truthfulness whenever I befriend a girl or am about to meet a girl I never reveal my fantasy.
- btbc92
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  @Asker But you don't need a chastity belt for that. You just need to have self control and self discipline, make that vow and keep it in your heart. I made that vow and promise to God before I was even 8 years old after reading that sex is for marriage only. No promise ring or certificate needed. It is my vow and promise to him and myself, and staying away and being aware of sexually enticing situations. That is equally your responsibility. A chastity belt is not going to help you. Virginity isn't just about not having sexual intercourse wither its vaginal-penile sex, oral or anal sex. It is both your mind body and spirit. If your mind isn't clean, then your compromising your virginity as well. You have to be pure in all things, not some. That is what I want you to know. That also means no masturbating and watching porn, because that's fornication of the mind as well.
- Asker
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  I think I understand now what you're telling me I thank you for making me see your ideas more clearly.