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Male sex drive?

Is it a normal sex drive for a man to get it 3/4 times in the morning ( let's not even talk about the cheating part) then get head that night from another girl and setting up plans to pick up a hooker later that night? This guy is 40, gets it any way he wants it from me, and then goes off doing this on the sly, thinking he won't get cought.. let's not mention the fake Facebook account and numerous (15) in one morning invites to come over and get drunk. This guy has a sex addiction or what?
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I realize 2 wrongs don't make a right, but I wanted to give him a so called taste of his own medicine, I slept with another guy and he said it hurts him badly and he doesn't want to have an open relationship, I threw it out there as an option because I honestly don't think he's capable of being faithful, he said no and he swears he won't cheat again and wants to marry me. Is he capable of being faithful to one person?
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  • That guy is typically in his mid life crisis and according to your description, I would say that he has a very strong sexual addiction that should be addressed by a professional.

    With that type of activity and age, he is a potential danger for younger girls because his libido is dictating his life and he has no control over it.

    He is likely to just want to mess around with every girl that has any breasts and that is potentially dangerous.

    At age 40, he has reached this stage of life where he needs to prove himself that he is still attractive to younger girls.

    This type of behavior is a big red flag in any relation.

    • Whoa? Sex addict to Sexual deviant, is a huge leap and not at all connected. High libido does not mean he will become a pedo or child molester or rapist. He is controlling it, just not responsibly. She said he finds hooker and sets up alternate fb accounts all of that is him finding who he feels is suitable. I'm not saying he doesn't have a problem and I'm not saying he shouldn't seek help, I'm just saying that let's not lump this guy with sexual deviants if he isn't one.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It may not be a case of a high sex drive or his sex drive at all he just simply may not be a monogamous person there are people like myself who aren't monogamous I personally run my own poly amorous pack and have multiple relationships it would be difficult for me to have a monogamous relationship with my type of sexuality

    • Understandably I mentioned having an open relationship, he was not ok with that idea of me being with anyone else. And he's seen how it has affected me, I cry a lot and get so angry, and he swears he won't cheat again, but I've had nothing but this sneaky behavior since we've first gotten together. I don't know if I really can trust him

    • If that's the case it may be a better option to separate, unfortunately. However maybe discuss the different types of relationships, an open relationship may be a no but if you're willing a polyamorous relationship may fit better

  • I wouldn't be able to keep that up, he has a really high sex drive. If i'd do it every day i will get completely desentensized let alobe multiple times per day.

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  • He certainly sounds like a sex addict to me.

  • No, completely off the scale. This surely impacts his daily life and falls into addict territory for me.

    • Update. I'd guess he's not capable. And you cheating is unhelpful. You lose the moral high ground. He needs a therapist.

    • I agree. As a Behavioural and Sensual Therapist, he does need help if he wishes to change his behaviour. However my previous options were from the perspective of working around the situation.

  • I have an insanely high sex drive too, but it's not an excuse to just cheat like that.

    • Agreed. He should be honest not hide it and perhaps ha e a discussion about adding more partners to your relationship

    • Yeah, I'm in an open relationship myself and it's amazing.

  • Yes he most likely has some issues. I suffer from a sex addiction, it’s challenging

    • If you read replies then I’d say no he won’t be faithful

  • no that is not n0rmal

    • i like to masturbate by edging for hours but once I cum once or two times i need to trecharge. I've been stroking all night for 4-5 hours so far tonight though

  • Yeah that's crazy to me

    • Lol the shit heads you girls choose to stay with

  • Its possible. A man can do 8 to 10 shots in a span of 6 to 7 hours.

  • Why the fuck would you want to be with somebody like that and run the risk of catching some std. Use your head

    • I don't want to be with anyone like that!! That's my point, I am wondering if someone like him is capable of change, but no, I have left him, and he begs me, and it's hard, but yes I love myself enough to walk away from it

    • Then you already have your answer move on find somebody worthy of your time and energy not that walking std

  • It sounds like it to me. Maybe a few other issues also? lol

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