Married woman wants to sleep with me what should I do?

Question

So my neighbor who is married asked me to have sex with her. She is a bit older than me, with her kids being just a few years younger than me. I know her husband a bit but more so her. She brought it up after one night while she was out in the backyard and we started talking. She was drinking and being real flirty and touching me. She said I was cute and she liked me and then insisted on my number. Since then we talked a bit by text. I learned her husband and kids can't find out if we do.

I feel like it probably isn't right but she is a very attractive woman; fit, curvy, looks way younger than she is. I also haven't gotten laid in a very long time. On top of that the things she said she wants to do with me include things I haven't done but want to experience such as anal.

So what should I do? Should I go for it or pass on her offer? I would love some advice from people who were in this situation as well and how the experience went for them.

BrittBratt2416 · Accepted Answer

Um obviously pass.. that's tucked considering you know her husband. She is married, there are plenty of single women looking for a man so why go after a married woman.. don't be a homewrecker.. and the last thing you want is an angry husband coming after you... husbands have literally killed men and their wives once finding out they were cheating.. do you want that sort of drama in your life? She is not a very good woman or wife, she doesn't respect herself, her husband, or her marriage. So no, leave her the hell alone. Stop all contact, don't visit when she's only at home, nothing.

XOXOME16 · Accepted Answer

Dont. She lives right near you. Her and her husband. AND children. Are you really going to fuck up a family for an affair of some cougar? Not only bc its wrong, its probably not worth it. She has children that was most likely pushed out of her vagina. Just think about that. And hypothetically what if her husband finds out and he gets a divorce, kicks her out and keeps her kids? Then you're left with a sad cougar who has nowhere to go. I mean you can do it if you want to ruin lives and be stuck in shitty situations

SvetlanaSavachenko · Accepted Answer

Fuck her! She wants it! I know if I come on to a guy and he doesn't respond I will pursue him till I get him up in me. For the brief time I was married I'd tell the guys don't let the fact I'm married stop you! I'm married not dead!

WalterRadio · Accepted Answer

I have had sex with a few married women.

Lay out the ground rules explicitly. If she were under the influence at the time, then discuss in a more sober time. What are you going to do? Is she going to keep it a secret? How do you know she will keep it a secret? Is she only interested in sex, o does she want to become emotionally involved? Think about all of the "what if"s and discuss it before you have sex. Make sure she is ok with you getting a girlfriend someday and doesn't go on some jealous fit.

I_am_me2 · Accepted Answer

Watch the movie "the graduate" If that hasn't dissuaded you, then I'd say you're going to do it regardless.

AustinMan · Answer

Fuck her.

SarahsSummer · Answer

Pass. Karma will get you in the end.

SongBird3 · Answer

I mean, if this bitch wants to ruin her own family thats on her. Go for it. But just remember, eventually they will find out. And your gonna have to deal with that said husband and kids rage.

GrapeJuice · Answer

Record a conversation, and show her husband. Don't let that bitch get away with that trifling behavior.

pooper89 · Answer

Um there is ALWAYS a chance they could find out.

AynonOMouse · Answer

Don't do that. You would be a homewrecker. And they always find out, ALWAYS! You'll ruin the marriage and mess up the kids' life too. That is messed up man.

Titanic1912 · Answer

Refuse her offer. She's got a husband!

TheButterfly · Answer

Hiss at her and crawl back to your house. But seriously dont do that, horrible idea

Aqualung · Answer

You shouldn't even be considering it

BluntlyHonest · Answer

It will only give you headache later so i won't recommend it

Pilulu · Answer

Don't sleep with her.

RequieMs · Answer

Imagine that you are her husband and your wife cheats on u... this will solve the problem

Anonymous · Answer

Dude go fuck her hard ! Dont give a shit if she is married or has kids. She wants you inside her so bad, you gotta do this.

Anonymous · Answer

No one in life can make your decisions for you but you have to make sure your prepared for the consequences. One of my oldest friends have been in the same situation, however she was the daughter, her mother was the married woman in your scenario. In ended disastrously and ripped their family apart. In my opinion you shouldn't advanced towards her just because you have the opportunity to do so, however some people may say otherwise, they'd tell you to be down because of the hot lady and certain exciting new experiences. But who says you couldn't find your SO Tmr and try these new experiences together?

Anonymous · Answer

If you dont want to ruin a marriage then dont do it. Not only will you mess up her life, yours will be messed up too. Dont mess with married people. If you want to go get laid, then do it with someone who isn't married or dating.