Masochists, what is your preferred method of pain infliction?

Truthfully I love just being hurt with bare hands. It feels more personal and energetic that way. Choking, spanking, slapping.

Don't get me wrong, I love a good whipping. Tight ropes, cattle prods, hairbrushes, paddles. It's all good for me. But hands are just my favorite! :)

How about you?

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Superb Opinion

  • Not sure I am a masochist. I personally would say no, but it depends whom you ask. I am not turned on by pain, but punishments (in a bdsm setting) can be a turn on even when they are painful (within limits).

    My personal favorite is wax play, its so sensational and not like impact play or other methods.

    We did do estim which is great but its like both, it actually is stimulation but it can be painful. So its hard to say if its actually a method of pain infliction in the first place.

    Third would be the soft-kind of impact play but on sensitive zones. Areas where small taps are enough.

Most Helpful Girl

  • When I was younger yy dad stopped spanking me after he found out it turned me on, i kept getting into to trouble just to get spanked then I'd go to my room and masturbate.
    My husband spanks me a lot because I like to be a bad girl.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sadist, but more vanilla times call for light choking. More foreplay would be smacking, rope, leather cuffs, spreader bars, gag, humiliation, hmm, now that I think about it I have a tendency to take it as far as I can within my partner's comfort zone. The list just isn't stopping lol
    If I can make it hurt and get them into subspace safely, then it is a sweet experience.

  • I thoroughly enjoy it when a woman asks her boyfriend to take a cane to my bare bottom and beat me so hard that I can't sit down for a week or two.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I’m more into romantic love making, body exploration, relaxation, and focusing on soothing touch, euphoric sensations, and her climax

  • Only hands for me. I'm obsessed with being choked and spanked

  • I'm sit this one out and just spectate cause this is my first time seeing this question on here

    Masochists, what is your preferred method of pain infliction?
  • Does biting count?

    • Yes!

  • Y’all are scaring the crap out of me…

    • I’m in pain all day every day. The only thing pleasurable about that is when I get to sit down at the end of the day.

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  • 2 things that I LOVE- chastity and CBT- regardless of implement, hands or toy- it’s super satisfying!

  • Faceslapping and hand spanking is my favorite, but there are so many choices!

  • I don't like inflicting pain on women and I don't like it done to me

  • Hands or a belt

  • I haven't tried the cattle prods yet. How does it feel?

  • A heavy flogger and/or cane when it comes to tools. I don't love a kick to the balls but at the same time I wouldn't feel a session is complete without it.

  • interesting

  • Everything with hands seems fine to me never encountered a women wanting to do with extra props.

  • Tbh- I'm not into pain where it hurts a lot, but choking is definitely it for me

  • I'm more into the verbal humiliations, can't help but get turned on by it.

  • Humiliation. Being tied up and talked down to.