Masturbation!! Fun to watch or keep it to yourself?

Youe married, dating, in puppy love or a friends with benefits relationship.. do you masturbate together? watch each other? or keep it behind closed door to yourself? OK We all do it or have done it, now do you share with your partner or just do it when no one is looking? Let us know.. I believe sharing is caring. Thank you
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I love when my boyfriend is fingering me and suddenly guides my hand to insert my own finger in my vag and start to masturbate myself and touch my clit until I finish while he is caressing and kissing my nipples and French kissing me. And helps me to masturbate moving my hand with his. I also love to guide his hand to his d***k when I'm giving him a HJ so he starts to masturbate himself and when he's almost done he always guides my head to him and finishes in my mouth. It's very wild and sometimes after that I like to snowball him. He gets an immediate hard on and we can continue with our wild sex.

    • you enjoy the snowball? how did that first come about? I want to try with my lady.. how can I approach her about it?

    • Of she doesn't ask you to do it, just simply after she gives you a BJ, as soon as you finish in her mouth guide her head and French kiss her. You won't give her any time to think about it and as you both are kissing she'll understand and will gladly do it for you. A lot of girls have always said why if our guys love to be BJ they don't snowball. O it'd be fair for us to snowball you guys and you will also love it. Other way is to talk about it first, but is better intake the initiative.

  • Just by myself, unless rubbing oneself during sex counts (once during spoons position lol). I'm not even sure if he noticed since it was dark. I never orgasm from sex/oral/etc., so I think masturbating in front of him would help out with this, but I'm just really shy about it for some reason. I feel like its a really private thing to do. Anyway, we've never seen each other masturbate before so it could be something new and exited...or just really awkward lol.

  • Every once in a while I like to watch my boyfriend stroke himself, I maybe help him and rub his balls or something. He LOVES to watch me, which is good because I love him to death, but every once in a while I would rather just do it myself!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Masturbating by yourself is boring as hell. If my lady told me she masturbates w/out me I might feel some type of way. To hell with that shy and bashful shyt, if you're my lady what are you shy about. I want to watch or even join in if she wants me to. I love to hear her moan and see her shaking with pleasure. I understand she wants to get her own rocks off sometimes, but damn at least let me watch. Mutual masrturbation sessions are awesome Masturbating each other is awesome. Ladies stop being self and start inviting your fellas to watch. A little voyeurism won't kill you.

  • I think it's HOT to watch her masturbate as well as do it together. So my answers are:

    1. Do you masturbate together - YES

    2. Watch each other - YES

    3. Keep it behind ... - not always

    4. Share with ... - YES

    1 & 2 took some convincing here but it worked out :D

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  • Often alone lol but have in front of too of course=)

  • Always behind closed doors. ha ha oh and alone.

  • Married and together, separate ,and watch each other ... Its hot.

  • I love being watched. Does not even need to be someone I know.

  • Together! And sometimes to each other. One of the benefits of girlie sex: we're both expert bean flippers.

  • With her, or without her. Her watching me, or me watching her. Cumming on her while she watches, or cumming on her while I "finish." By myself or in public, just Not openly exposed. Having "phone sex" together is great too. So we can listen to each other and let our imaginations take over.

  • I masturbate by myself because I don't think there's anything fun or exciting about a girl watching a guy masturbate. It's too... the same. Not that many ways to do it.

    My girlfriend masturbates in front of me sometimes. I love it, and she loves it too. She says that me watching her gives her more excitement which helps her orgasm.

    We do masturbate each other. It's the best when I lick/suck and finger her all at once. Makes her shake like crazy when she explodes.

  • I watch my wife masturbate all the time - It HOT to Watch

  • I have, both in front of a guy, and watched a guy. I wouldn't say I "watched" per se, as much I just so happened to see, lol. It's not really visually appealing to watch a guy masturbate, to me anyway.

  • I would never masturbate with a dude

  • My roommate got mad at me because I was masturbating loudly and I explained to him that I like it rough.

    • thats funny he probably got a kick out of it

    • My hand is wild, that's for sure.

    • use the lube luke! or you will chaffe your light saber

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  • I like to do it by myself but I don't lock my door and I live at home so that makes me even hornier because I could get caught lol