Masturbation: Is it normal for a guy not to masturbate till he's 18 even though he has a very high sexual drive?

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This question is actually about me. I usually have a very high sexual drive. I "try to masturbate" but moving the skin up and down hurts. I tried doing it many times but I just can continue. Do tell me your opinions on what I can do to masturbate and finally "cum" for the first time! : (

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

First I want to tell you that masturbation in moderation is totally healthy and good for your mental health, the only time it becomes damaging is when it becomes an obsession.

It shouldn't be painful or uncomfortable to masturbate, this could indicate a potential health condition. I'm guessing from your description that you are not circumcised, can you pull your foreskin back fully off from the gead of your penis?
Have you tried using lubrication?

If you feel more comfortable discussing this in private DM me and I'll happily advise you further, but ultimately my advice to you is to go and see your doctor.

jabariw18 · Accepted Answer

You say you're using lube right? You literally just put lube in your hand, grab around your penis like a banana and move it up and down. Have you never seen handjobs in porn? If you're uncircumscised just hold the skin down with the other hand so that you're only rubbing the glans and the shaft.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

If it hurts, I think you should really go visit a doctor because that can be something serious.  But then again; I don’t have a penis and have no idea what I’m talking about lol

RobT312 · Answer

It is normal to masturbate, I’d say it would not be normal if you didn’t masturbate. im circumcised so I don’t have this issue, but that’s why they make lube , it should do the trick.

IMuser · Answer

1. Do you get wet dreams? 2. Get a checkup regarding why are you "hurting" when you try to jerk off  3. Try a lubricant or something

josephinelcajon · Answer

It is unusual to start so late. Normally boys start with puberty. You must be cut or circumcised and lube of some kind like hand lotion is extremely helpful! Especially if you have been cut tight which is my suspension. Nothing wrong with lube but never use a soap. And I highly recommend seeing a doctor for the discomfort that is abnormal. Masturbation should be very good feeling!

rahmann · Answer

You should be happy that you haven't experienced masterbation yet. The worst thing you can do in the world is masterbation. İf there's anything alternative of meth or heroine, it's masterbation. İt Kills your soul and makes you a living dead body. You lose your masculine energy, you start feeling like a dork, demotivated, lazy, scronny, zero confidence.

I'd suggest you if you're too horny, just find someone and have sex. But don't Force someone to have sex, because when you have sex you exchange energy and that's very important and forcing will exchange negative energy into you which is bad for you. Best of luck.

Iron_Man · Answer

Never heard of that

In_Trance · Answer

I challenge you on the "high sex drive" mentality. If the drive was high, you'd actually be having sex. But you're not. That's like saying you're hungry and not having anything to eat.

swegster · Answer

Actually masturbation is not a good habit that's the other thing that you are not able to masturbate due to some reasons but it takes your time energy and your everything for a temporary fun so i don't want to masturbate but now it's like a habit i wanna leave this habit and trying to work on this... In my opinion it's great that you do not masturbate but still if you want to do than you should Google about this...

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