Maybe I’m just not listening but imma ask anyway?

SOOO I asked a guy if I could come over, he said he was about to go to bed I said I could make it worth his while. Disclaimer we’ve hooked up before. Moving on, he said if I could make it worth his while that I could come over. So I’m driving and decide to FaceTime because I wanna know what condoms to buy and which ones he likes he said it didn’t matter up to you I’m about to go to bed, if you bring condoms you do if you don’t you don’t. So I bought the condoms made my way over there and when I got there he just wanted to go to bed which I don’t mind. I still stayed the night even though we didn’t have sex and he stayed he didn’t care that we didn’t have sex and he didn’t think it was weird that we didn’t have sex and I still stayed the night. So I guess my question would be, does he like me if I stay over and we don’t have sex or is he just being nice?
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  • It sounds like he was genuinely tired, but that he also enjoys having a woman in his bed, even if you don't have sex (I'm the same way). My thing is: how did he not bang you in the morning? I would have!

    But if he was the kind of guy who wants to sleep alone, he'd never have invited you over or implied that you could stay the night - he'd have told you to hit the road. So, I'm going to say he almost certainly liked having you sharing his bed.

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  • It sounds like he had a hard day & didn't want to argue he just wanted to rest & go to bed.
    Allow me to ask this tho'?
    Did he ask you to get comfortable?
    Like take your clothes off & get into bed & most importantly did he hold you tightly? If yes then he likes you a lot.😘

    • No but I did ask why did I come over? And he said to sleep

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  • My man was too sleepy to maintain an erection so he decided not to embarrass himself

    • 😂😂

  • He doesn't care about sex, he must have been tired. He doesn't mind being with you even without sex.

  • If a girl said I'll make it worth your while and I said ok then yes I like her

    • But we ended up doing nothing lol

    • There is a chance he was too tired, next time try grabbing him and getting him hard this always works for me

  • he must have been tired

  • I think he would probably like you more if you listened, i dont know how many times he told you that he is tired and wants to goto bed ;)

    I can imagine it now, he is just playing a looping tape all night that says 'uh huh, tell me more' and other non commital phrases with pictures of his open eyes drawn onto his eyelids.

    • Here’s the thing I stopped messaging him and was gonna just go to bed but he then messaged me that if I was gonna make it worth his while then I could come over so I did but he then said well I’m going to bed soooo

    • Oh right, i think i misunderstood that part. I was only trying to be funny anyway :)

    • Its hard to know how he feels it could be anything. He may well have enjoyed you being there anyway or he may have considered it a chore or a 'cost of doing business' something endured for a pay off another time in the form of sex or whatever. I think that all of you women would do way better if you just drop this whole thing about is he just using me for sex. Ok so that might be a thing but it gets so blown out of all proportion that it seems to interfere with your natural abilities to read people, it honestly shouldn't be that difficult. Its not like its binary anyway, its a whole spectrum of grey.

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  • Hmm hard to say. He may like u