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For my 62nd MyTake, I'm just going to re-post, publicly, every single thing I want in a woman and don't want in a woman. Now I *know* women aren't into me and I don't meet their height or looks requirements, and may not even meet their income requirements in men. However, this is just a "What If?", not a real life checklist. This post is mostly just for me, alone. No one is obligated to read any of this, but I do like having a record of it somewhere.
CHAPTER 1: MY DREAM GIRL
These are the traits and qualities that make up my "Dream Girl" partner.
PERSONALITY:
1. (Mandatory) Strictly heterosexual
2. (Mandatory) Strictly monogamous
3. (Mandatory) Politically moderate; not too liberal or conservative
4. (Mandatory) Loyal/faithful
5. (Mandatory) Respectful/classy/ladylike
6. Kind/positive
7. Intelligent
8. Strong sense of humor
9. Strong work ethic
10. Accepting/nonjudgmental
11. Open-minded, to a degree
12. (Optional) Patient; not easily offended or bothered
13. (Optional) Artistic
14. (Optional) Nerdy; into video games or superheroes
First, the mandatory things. She MUST be heterosexual, MUST be monogamous, and MUST be politically sane. Loyalty and respect are also mandatory! These are completely unnegotiable.
Kindness is important to me. I am intelligent, have a sense of humor, and strong work ethic, so I expect the same in a partner, and at least ONE of these three are required. Being accepting and open-minded are kinda important for me, because I am like this as well (to a degree; some things I simply will not be open-minded to, like degeneracy, and when I say I want someone "open-minded," that doesn't mean "open to anything" or "without limits").
Being patient, artistic, or nerdy are not requirements, but are strongly desired and would be very appreciated in a woman.
PHYSICAL:
15. (Mandatory) Strictly female
16. (Mandatory) Feminine style
17. (Mandatory) Good hygiene
18. Curvaceous; big boobs, big booty, thick thighs, etc.
19. Great smile and good teeth
20. (Optional) Tall: 5'9" to 6'5" (6'2" to 6'5" is ideal)
21. (Optional) Redhead (or strawberry blonde, or blonde)
22. (Optional) Young: Between 20 and 34 (23 to 30 is ideal)
Besides the obvious that she MUST be a 100% biological female, she also needs to be feminine and look, dress, and act like a woman. A butch or masculine female is not someone I'm willing to be with. Her having impeccable hygiene is mandatory, too.
As far as her actual body goes, I'd very much like her to be curvy, plus-sized, full-figured, or BBW, as that's my physical type and really the only superficial thing I ask for in a woman; big boobs, nice thick thighs, a fat booty, and so on. A great smile and good teeth is also a turn on, as well.
As for the more flexible things, I VERY much would like a woman who is tall, which in my opinion, would be at least 5'9"/175 cm. Her being a redhead (or even a blonde), regardless of ethnicity, is very much a turn-on, too. Lastly, I'd like her to be between 20 and 34 years old, as I don't like older women as much.
Besides the obvious that she MUST be a 100% biological female, she also needs to be feminine and look, dress, and act like a woman. A butch or masculine female is not someone I'm willing to be with. Her having impeccable hygiene is mandatory, too.
As far as her actual body goes, I'd very much like her to be curvy, plus-sized, full-figured, or BBW, as that's my physical type and really the only superficial thing I ask for in a woman; big boobs, nice thick thighs, a fat booty, and so on. A great smile and good teeth is also a turn on, as well.
As for the more flexible things, I VERY much would like a woman who is tall, which in my opinion, would be at least 5'9"/175 cm. Her being a redhead (or even a blonde), regardless of ethnicity, is very much a turn-on, too. Lastly, I'd like her to be between 20 and 34 years old, as I don't like older women as much.
CHAPTER 2: MY NIGHTMARE WOMAN
Here's all the things I DON'T want in a woman! These are my dealbreakers, in which there is 0% possibility in which I'd consider ever dating them, and the traits I'd really dislike in a partner, but be willing to give a chance if they work on fixing or getting rid of these traits.
DEALBREAKERS:
1. Feminist/far-left/woke
2. Bisexual/queer (lesbian)
3. Polyamorous/isn't single/the "open relationship" type (an adulterer; unfaithful)
4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally
5. Transgender (male)
6. Has an OnlyFans and/or promotes lewd content on the internet
Not wanting a low-intelligence, vitriolic, bigoted, man-hating idiot should be self-explanatory. I also do not want to date anyone in the LGBT community, no offense to them. This includes queer women (lesbians), transwomen (males), and polyamorous women (adulterers). And not wanting someone abusive should be self-explanatory. I also, of course, do not want a promiscuous or foul woman, either.
Why no queer women? Because if a girl is heterosexual, I feel confident that I can give her what she wants. If she is bisexual, I feel it's highly likely she will always want another woman, and will cheat on me or ask for an "open relationship" or a three-way (which I am definitely not open to). Not every "bi" girl is a cheater (statistically, that has to be at least somewhat true, right?) but I'm not taking any chances by being with a woman who's primary attraction is to other women, so bisexuals are a hard dealbreaker for me, just like unfaithful women.
Here are all the other traits I also don't want in anyone. Although these are things that could be worked on and possibly improved in a woman, I definitely don't want her to keep an of these traits long-term, and may not stay with any woman unwilling to improve any of these traits.
HIGHLY UNDESIRABLE TRAITS:
1. Closed-minded/stupid
2. Arrogant/conceited/entitled
3. High maintenance/gold-digger
4. Shallow/superficial
5. Lazy
6. Has kids, or is a bad mother to her kids
7. Smokes/does drugs
8. (Physical) Too skinny
9. (Physical) Looks or dresses too masculine/butch
10. (Physical) Body/face piercings
I do not want a stupid woman. I don't want anyone who has a high ego and a bad attitude. I don't want anyone who is a gold digger, superficial, or shallow. I don't want anyone who is lazy. I don't want to be a father to someone else's kids. I don't want a smoker or a drug-abuser. I don't want a woman who is emaciated. I don't want a woman who barely acts or dresses like a woman and has pretty masculine traits. And lastly, I don't want a woman covered in tattoos or a woman who has any piercings on her that aren't on her earlobes.
CHAPTER 3: WHAT I BRING TO THE TABLE
Here's what I can bring to the table in any romantic relationship with a lady. I bring:
1.My own personal, unique charm.
2. Independence.
3. Daily self-improvement.
4. Awareness.
5. Open-mindedness (to an extent; not to the point of losing my sense of reality).
6. Strong intelligence.
7. Sarcasm.
8. Wit and humor.
9. Abundance in creativity.
10. Artistic skills.
11. Strong work ethic.
12. Patience.
13. Politically moderate views .
14. A straight and monogamous lifestyle.
15. Nerdiness.
16. Resourcefulness.
17. Bravery.
18. Loyalty.
19. Thoughtfulness.
20. Responsibility.
21. Education; a Masters degree (in English, though).
22. Thoughtfulness.
23. No drugs or vices.
24. No diseases.
25. No children.
26. No crazy exes or divorces.
27. No history of abuse or any arrests.
28. Good listening skills.
29. Good at adapting and improving.
30. Good oral sex skills (if that matters to you).
I'm loyal and supportive. I seek to bring out the best in people I care about. I'm open-minded when it comes to *many* things (not *all* things, though). I'm intelligent. I have a good, witty sense of humor. I have a strong work ethic *most* of the time (not 100% of the time). I'm fairly patient. I'm VERY interesting to talk to (I have to be, considering my looks). I'm monogamous. If you're a nerd, you'll like that I'm nerdy and into video games or superheroes. I'm creative and artistic, if that's a thing you like. I'm very much into self-improvement and not being the same person I was before. I'm romantic, when I have the right person who deserves that. I'm appreciative and grateful of good things, the few times in my life I get them. I'm a strong communicator and would like to talk through issues, rather than letting them boil over. I'm good at improving what I need to work on in a relationship and being a better partner to a woman through communication. And lastly, I've been told I'm good at cunnilingus, if that matters at all. I know; it's not very important, but still.
CHAPTER 4: MY FLAWS, FAULTS, AND LIMITATIONS
It's only fair to also point out why some women might not want me, as well.
1. Too short in stature.
2. Unattractive looking face.
3. A little overweight.
4. Lack of enough ego/pride/confidence.
5. Small penis/not having sex.
6. Old (mid thirties).
7. Brutally honest (and unwilling to change this).
8. Unwilling to bribe someone into pretending to like me/be a Sugar Daddy.
9. Unwilling to lie to someone or trick them.
10. Unwilling to "settle" for someone who doesn't love me, nor I her, just to avoid being alone.
My height is a big dealbreaker for many women; I'm only 180 cm waking up (A "F" grade; a little manlet of a male) and there's nothing I can do to correct or fix this flaw. If you can't accept me as being short, then I cannot fix that flaw for you. I'm not attractive looking in the face; dare I say, I'm "ugly." I'm dark skinned and I know that's a dealbreaker for many women out there, like it or not. I'm overweight (and I've tried my whole life to lose it, but Hypothyroidism makes it that much harder). I hate arrogance and conceit as personality traits and will not be displaying any ego around women, much to their displeasure. I have a small penis (6'5" x 5'5") and sex is not a major priority for me. I'm not young anymore, although these same issues were around even before I turned 27. I'm brutally honest and really dislike lying or BS'ing people. I'm unwilling to be a woman's pay-pig or engage in any fin-dom; I want a relationship built on honesty and trust. I'm unwilling to tell a woman what she wants to hear just because she wants to hear it, and a lot of women don't like that. Finally, I'm unwilling to be with a woman who doesn't truly respect me, wants to be with me, or just wants to "settle" because she can't get a guy she truly wants.
CHAPTER 5: WHAT MOST OTHER MEN WOULD WANT AND AVOID IN A WOMAN
Here are most of the things other men say they want in a woman, and things I agree with them on. The "Women Worth Respect." Also known as "Wifey Material."
1. Classy
2. Kind (treats others with respect)
3. Caring and compassionate (treats her man well)
4. Actually likes and respects men (anti-feminist)
5. Intelligent
6. Have a strong sense of humor, or funny
7. Monogamous and faithful
8. Honest and a strong communicator
9. Hard working
10. Hold themselves accountable for their own life and actions (doesn't make excuses or blames others for her failures)
11. Feminine
12. Sexually modest (not slutty, but not a prude either)
And here's the things most other men say they also don't want in a woman. The "Women Not Worth Respect." Also known as the "Red Flags" women.
1. Feminists (hates men, always the "victim," whines and complains all the time)
2. Woke or Progressive (politically far-left)
3. Stupid
4. Shallow (includes minimum height or income requirements)
5. Narcissistic
6. Materialistic/high maintenance
7. Bratty/childish/immature
8. Bisexual
9. Polyamorous/unfaithful
10. Lazy
11. Liars/Manipulator
12. Excuse makers (S.I.G.N language: Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Never being wrong)
13. Abusive
14. Victim complex
15. Sheep-minded
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Passive aggressive
18. Masculine or butch
19. Fake women (trans)
20. Tacky fashion sense (gaudy or tacky clothing)
21. Slutty fashion sense (half naked, loosely dressed)
22. "Woke" fashion sense (neon colored hair, face piercings, ugly tattoos, feminist branded clothing, etc.)
CHAPTER 6: CONCLUSION
So that is my big, long, 13,200 character romance MyTake. I once had the perfect woman for me, before. But she passed away before her 23rd birthday. She was mature beyond her years, and I do still miss her, even almost ten years later. I don't expect to get a woman this ideal again. Nor do I expect to even get any woman in my future. I'm just saying, these are all the things I want. Someone who fits 80% of the criteria would be phenomenal, for me. Hell ,even 70% would do. But since it's unlikely to happen either way, I might as well "go big or go home" with my next dream girl.
What do YOU want in an ideal partner? Let me know below, if you feel like typing it.
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