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Me and my boyfriend were dry humping, and while I was on the top of him, he got his penis out of his jeans without my consent. What to do?

So me and my boyfriend were dry humping, and while I was on the top of him, he got his penis out of his jeans without my consent. Only when I stopped kissing him I noticed what he had done and I just got off from him and went to get something from the kitchen to change the subject. I felt he was hard and my down-parts really hurted ( something that rarely happens) while I was rubbing against his penis but I didn't knew that he would do something like that. I felt that something just wasn't right but I was shocked. He made me feel extremely uncomfortable by doing that. He didn't even had a condom on. I was lucky that he didn't get to finish and that I was wearing some thick jeans and a period pad to try protect myself. What should I do in this situation or how should I react? Forget to mention that we're both virgins.
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I'm kind of afraid to ask him about what he had done and to tell him that he really made me feel uncomfortable
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  • Demanding to ask for consent when you're already dry humping is a bit exaggerated to me. Unless that you explicitly told him recently you didn't want to have sex.

    The only thing he did was to not know the limits you wanted of what you were already doing. Beside... You were wearing jeans, it's not like he took them out from you without your consent. Maybe he just wanted to touch himself or ask you to touch him (which you're be right to say no to if you don't want)

    The only thing I think you should do is tell him you're not ready yet for whatever he was trying to do and you will let you know when you are.

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  • It's time to forget the Virginity and just do the Hook UP, but tell him he will have to use a Condom from now on.
    If you're already dry humping, that tells me you both want it, and you just need to take the final step. It's gonna happen one day soon, anyway. You know you really want it.
    We know he wants it,(all guys do) or he wouldn't have pulled out his penis.

    You wouldn't be humping on top of him if you "really" didn't want to go for the next step. So just do it.


    Don't forget to keep us posted.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Maybe you should skip dry humping. Guys aren't very bright. If you dry hump him he thinks you want to f*ck him.

  • You should break up with him so he can find a real girlfriend.

  • slap his face get rid of him. No more of that

  • Do not ask these stupid questions again. You consented when you started dry humping a guy! I highly doubt you were "dry".

    • I agree

    • @innerman Bet that pad was just to absorb the juices she was releasing. I know how wet girls panties get in a make out session.

    • She’s still a Virgin. am sure she’ll figure things out Let’s give her time

  • Don’t dry hump someone if you don’t want their penis out. Or communicate you don’t want it out. If you’re dry humping me I’m probably pulling it out too. I’d respect if you said don’t though.

  • without your consent? you should report him to police , he attempt to rape you FFS!

  • Suck it

  • Since when do you have to consent?

  • wtf is this

    • Dry humping is peachy-keen but wet humping is rape? 🧐 You must be difficult

  • why did not you wear iron panties?

  • Are you even having regular sex?

    If you're not, how do you know you're boyfriend girlfriend?

  • You need to get rid of this guy immediately. That constitutes Rape right there.

  • Stop with the “consent” bullshit!
    You were riding him dry and he took it out, how the fuck does any male/female relationship ever move forward if you assholes constantly push this “consent” garbage!!
    You want guys to take initiative but will all expect to be the only person who can make any calls when shit moves forward?

    He needs to run, now!
    Before you falsely accuse him of some fucking sex crime over basic sexual interactions.

    Fucking fuck, spit out the victim narrative kool-aid!

  • You were wearing thick jeans and a period pad. No way would you have got pregnant if he had ejaculated. He probably just wanted the extra sensation. Somehow I don't see this as being a big deal.

  • Dump him and find someone better.

  • You sound like young teenagers though, who dry humps in their 20s? He probably took it out because it needed room and hurt under his jeans but it doesn’t matter because he couldn’t enter you with your jeans on and underwear, he wouldn’t need permission for that if you guys are doing that already

  • You should never be with anyone. You are too stupid to have sex

    • 😂...

  • Cut it off of course

  • Tell him what you don’t and do like

  • I'm not sure that's a "requires pre clearance of consent". You were dry jumping through fabric and that didn't change. You can tell him you're not comfortable with it but I don't think he did anything wrong.

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