Men 40+ how often do you have sex each night in a new relationship?

[Anonymous]

Is it just like it was when you were younger?

[TurboKid]

Been married for over 10 years so I don't know. Yet I suspect if I was single and really into a new girl, I'd still want to sleep together every night. It's not like my primal libido is as strong as in my teens or 20s, but I think my "psychological libido" is just as strong or stronger. I can crave a woman just as much as before.

[Asker]

Would you still be up for sex multiple times in the night?

[TurboKid]

Many times in one night might be more challenging. Once every day seems doable but 3 times in one night is going to be a bit challenging for me at my age. On the flip side though, sometimes you crave the girl so much and are just so into her that it's easy to keep going even though no fluids come out at that point. That's sort of where the mind takes over the body.

[TurboKid]

Multiple times in one night on a special occasion is still doable. I do that sometimes with my wife like when we're on a vacation. But multiple times every night might be tough for me. When I was in my 20s, I could do that.. like 3-5 times every night back to back and having sex like 20+ times in one week. Now I might be reduced to 7-10 on a good season.

[TurboKid]

Think I could bring the woman to climax multiple times in one night if she's up for it. I might not be able to have orgasms as many times in a week as I could when I was half my age, but I've gotten better at paying attention to the woman and communicating with her and learning how to get her to climax.

[Leavesbound]

Sex drive usually diminishes with age though each guy is different. I'm 61 and I think I've been fairly typical in this regard. At 40, 3-4 times a day would be an upper limit of ability though twice a night might be more common. At that point a guy's got to learn more creative ways to make a girl feel good. I have found that the time between each cum is best spent licking and sucking or massaging.

[loves2learn]

My husband is 39. Once a night usually. How many times are you wanting.

[Rudon00]

Well I'm not 40 as yet but I need sex every day as much as I can

[loves2learn]

So does my husband. Once, sometimes twice a day is perfect rn

[Rudon00]

Yeah ! You can't give him wrong. I can relate to him. Even if its just once a day. I got to have sex at least everyday unless my partner is not feeling well. What can I say. I just love sex lo!

[loves2learn]

My hubs gets a release one way or another everyday. He’s always been respectful of me.

[Rudon00]

Nice! You are an amazing partner loves2learn. I can see why you have such an amazing sex life Together

[OlderAndWiser]

Usually once is enough for me, but I want it almost every night.

[ChrisMaster69]

A lot depends on the partner, but I’ve been fairly much the same since 30.

definitely multiple times.

I’m sure if I can have multiple masturbation sessions that it’s just not an issue.

[Iron_Man]

I am single right now but I still have the same sex drive as when I was in my 20s

[dudeinohio]

Well, I have E. D. and it takes me much longer to reload after sex. Things don't work as good as they did 10 years ago. but that's just my experiences.

[Asker]

It’s pretty common for men your age. Even younger guys get it.

[dudeinohio]

Yeah

[moviedude714]

I would hope it's a lot

[OnTheLevel]

I'm married so haven't had a new relationship in a while but have less sex now than when I was younger.

[JustMe62]

I fly solo these days, I never since I don't do relationships anymore.

[copiecat]

Never

[Anonymous]

It's not like when younger, but sex is always more frequent when first in a relationship. Often twice a night.