That's kind of an odd question in that I don't have sex with any woman who does not interest me.
For the record, I've gotten four women pregnant - one ended in a miscarriage and one, the only one I regret, ended in an abortion that I would have tried to stop had I known about it.
Then I had a one night stand, and the woman in that case only told me two years ago that we have a son - now a teenager - together. My son and I have a strong and growing relationship and my only regret there is that I was not there through his childhood, because I would have been. He's a great kid and I can only say that the woman I had sex with did a magnificent job raising him as a single mom. As I say, I only wish I had been there but at the time we did not know each other well and she felt she should raise him on her own.
Then there is my girlfriend and I of over a decade. We have three children together. She - and they - are the center of my universe. I love them with all my heart. I am the most besotted milksop of a dad you will ever meet and I can't imagine my life without my girlfriend. (When she got pregnant the first time, we decided that we did not want to be married. An expensive ring and a permission slip from the state, we felt in some way cheapens what we share.)
In all of these women I saw something attractive - both physically and in terms of personality. I typically only have unprotected sex unless the woman I am with wants me to wear a condom. Even when I lost my virginity at age 16, though, I cared about the girl I was with. We had unprotected sex - it was, unlike many first times, a great experience as we had the time and privacy we needed, She was 15 and I cared about her and it was special.
Honestly, my first reaction was, "I'm a man!!!" Then of course I went through the "What if I got her pregnant?" phase and started to freak out a bit. While I never doubted that I would be a good father to my child, I was constantly asking her if she had her period yet. Then one day she looked at me and said, "I just want you to know that I would love to have your baby."
Well, it turned out she was not pregnant. (We would have two pregnancy scares later.) However, what that told me was that she was a woman of character. We shared something. Yes, sex was healthy and natural and instinctive for both of us, If that meant having a baby together - even as teenagers - we were both willing to step up to the plate.
That says something and I think - although I admit that it might be a subjective judgment - that I am pretty "fussy" about who I get pregnant. People some times grow apart, and sometimes you do get it wrong. My natural instinct is to have sex and make babies - that is how, in evolutionary terms, men are hardwired, so to speak. To put my sperm inside a woman and leave of piece of myself that will grow inside her and become something miraculous.
At one level, as I say, it is pure instinct. Pure and simple. Yet part of that instinct is knowing who you want to share your naked body with and who not. Even in the heat of the moment, you don't do that frivolously.
Yep. Might sound a bit sappy. However, I think it tells you about the kind of women I have sex with, including those whom I have gotten pregnant.
I got my ex accidentally pregnant. I didn't mind. Me and OH have 2 adorable kids. I don't plan in getting anyone else pregnant, I'll be getting snip when convenient
Did you want kids with her when you did? Why or why not?
With ex, no, not at that time. Her birth control failed. With OH it's complicated. But I was happy when it happened.
I sincerely hope that all men would be extremely fussy, careful and responsible.
Shaking my head at this question, really. The poster must be from a country without alimony laws. 🙄
@DryGermanGuy nope, just not naive to the ridiculousness of life at times! I work in a profession where you learn very quickly and see all sorts!!
Thank you for the MHGirl.
every man should be fussy.
some folks shouldn't be parents ever.
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I only want to have children with one woman, its finding the right partner for me and a potentially good mother to our babies. I have no random desire to get some random girl pregnant with my child.
Let. ms get this right are you asking me am I fussy about the person that is going to be in the rest of my life and to have my baby you have to be a part of the Jerry Springer Show or the Maury show this is one of the most stupidest questions I've ever heard in my life
The stupid part is ignoring the fact that the world takes all sorts. You’re clearly going to have a few surprises yet.
Well let me try to explain it to you another way before I have sex with anybody I'm going to like that person I'm going to want to be with that person so yes I'm very fussy about the person I had sex with cuz if I get her pregnant I already know beforehand and I am compatible with that person be with that person I've been a lot of stupid things in my life and having to pull out system was one of them I think God did I got lucky and I pulled it out every time it's the right time to this day I don't know how that worked I just think I did so yes I'm very fussy even to this day
I have no interest in getting any woman pregnant.
Regarding update, When I was married, initially I wanted children and my wife to be the mother of my children. It didn't happen for us, as she couldn't have children, and over the years I realised this was only a good thing as she would have made a terrible mother. Since then I haven't wanted children and I'm a little too old to be starting out as a father now. Luckily my current partner has children and doesn't want any more, and I am soon to get a vasectomy. At no point in my life would I have just had anyone become the mother of my children, they would have had to be the right person, I have also always been very careful about contraception. I never found that right person to mother my children in time.
That’s helpful, thank you for sharing. ☺️
My pleasure.
I don't want to get anyone pregnant.
We shouldn’t be fussy, rather we should be concerned who is the biological parents going to be, also how is the living entity going to be raised.
Some might say that’s fussy
I reckon being a parent is a choice, I can see why some might call that fussy, the persons need to come to certain terms or better improve on those terms.
Yepp
Yeah, she has to be intelligent, not have any mental illnesses and at least a somewhat similar childrearing philosophy.
I've never gotten anyone pregnant so I don't know
lol wtf. of course i am. i'm not taking the father role lightly... i can't just make a baby and "not be the father". not biologically at least.
Being her husband.
(Whenever that happens…)
I not sure I want to actually impregnate her but if she starts saying things like "put a baby in me", "breed me", or "give me your baby juice" then I kinda want to give her what she wants.
I'll tell you why I would impregnate a woman - to make her stay with me and marry me. I'm neither rich enough or handsome enough, so the only way for me to have a girlfriend or even a wife is to have her drunk enough, so that she doesn't remember much of the impregnation process.
Wtf, I don't want to get anyone pregnant 😤
I can't impregnate anyone
Me either anymore.
I'm very particular because ill be stuck with whoever i do it with. They also need to have qualities that will make them a good mother not just a good girlfriend.
Yes I am.
What make's me want to get her pregnant is what I see in her an about her.
God Bless
If I really love her and want to have a child, I wouldn't worry about getting her pregnant. but if I don't love her I'm worried about getting her pregnant if I have to be with her. what happened in your life? why did you ask this question?
This man I’m dating, we like each other but I know it’s not proper love just yet. But he said he wouldn’t mind if I ended up pregnant at this point.
Then don't have sex with him. only have sex if you get married. If you have unmarried sex and you get pregnant, bad things will happen to you if he leaves you. There is a movie about to be released. Do you want me to suggest?
I don’t just have sex with random girls and cum inside of them to get them pregnant. Sure it may sound hot to some but reality of it is, if she wants sex with me then we’d have to get to know each other better.
Would u let a stranger fuck u bare and cum inside of u?
I wouldn’t no. But I’m sure some men would care less about that. Do they care less about that in general? That’s the question.
If I have kids I'm expecting it to be with the woman I'm married to.
nope not fussy at all. id preffer my childs mothet be a crack whore that is not smart enough to file the paperwork to claim child support
Absolutely I'm a responsible adult
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