There are lots of ways a guy can tell when women reach a momentous orgasm. He may not realize when she has a small one.
About your question of feeling the vagina tighten, he will usually be thrusting and the tightening may go unnoticed. If a girl has been exercising her vaginal muscles then it becomes more noticeable. Really strong muscles make it much more noticeable AND much more pleasurable for the guy. Google "tighten vaginal muscles". One specific way can be found at link
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It depends on the girl. I've been able to feel her contractions with about 2/3 of the girls I've been with, and not with the others (or only rarely). There's a normal variation on how women's bodies react, so that's not surprising.
But that's not the only way you can tell either. Orgasms have many potential signs, and while not all girls will show all signs, most show at least a few, so if you pay attention, you can tell.
Good to know my ex is just THAT oblivious...
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!yeah sometimes we can, sometimes not so much. I could tell all the time with my first serious girlfriend, the others, not so much. I just relied on the other signs that she was having an orgam.
No, I can hear them OK, but feel them? Not for sure, not without hearing her.
Most often by leg small "moving". Yes, I can fell it.
yes I can tell. Actually my girlfriends vagina doesn't tighten it loosens when she squirts.
unless your an idiot or spaced out you should be able to tell.
yep my exes would always grip tightly around me, and everything becomes very slippery and wet.
You should be able to tell.
Body spasms? Yes. Vaginal contractions from intercourse? Not really.
Vaginal contractions during deep tonguing, of the timing is right? Absolutely.
Can we feel it? Yes.
My boyfriend could definitely tell, he said there's a gush of warmness, pretty sure you can't miss that, but if a girl is trying to fake it she can just flex her muscles and he can't tell the difference.
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