Men: can you stop yourself getting an erection when you see your partner wearing something sexy?
I only ask because my partner just says it’s my fault as though he can’t help it.
"Boner, go away! Boner, go away, I command thee!"
No, when we get aroused, the bone goes up without asking our permission. If I looked away and thought about something horribly serious, like Richard Nixon, then it wll go away a LITTLE bit quicker, but not much.
It is difficult but it can be done
Try to focus on breathing and looking at (i was watching porn) the screen like it's only an object. It can lead to controlling how hard you can get
Though since your boyfriend has an emotional attachment to you, i hope that you don't mind him getting hard 😂
You need to know, that once the process of this blood flow starts, they can't just revert it on a thought. If every man could have controlled that, cases of ED (erectile dysfunction) would have been barely 1% of the male population.
Spot on !!
You should be flattered!
Lol, no, it’s unintentional. Men can’t control their erections, at least that I know is.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!An erection is an autonomic response, so it's not something we are able to control.
Once we're aroused by something, then that's it; our body takes over, and it's completely out of our control. The only option, at that point, is to distract ourselves, and wait for it to go back down.
yes... and it's not a struggle either
Once the lauch sequence is initiated, you can't stop it 🤣
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No, I could not. Nor can I will myself to have one.
For the most part no I can't control getting hard
Almost impossible to stop from getting hard once I see my partner wearing something sexy. I can usually tell if she's not in the mood, though, and not do anything... the erection eventually goes down on its own, but it might take awhile.
It’s not intentional. It’s not your fault either. It’s just nature taking its course.
Imma do double side tape between balls n dick n tell her u dont look good see its still down 😂
But jokes aside.. tbh id get hard... n for me its super easy to get hard so in that kinda situation ill be hard
Many younger guys can't get stop from getting erections
It takes more than her wearing something sexy, she needs to do more than just stand there.
its a reflex reaction to seeing shapes or feeling touch, its not emotion or thought based, so to not get an erection, we have to not look at what causes it and not have it be moved or pressed on.
Typically it takes more than that for me, but sometimes it happens and there is no stopping it when it does.
If I can stay in "Therapist mode", it's no problem. I can always go into "guy mode" from there - - - - - - - but there is no going back to therapist mode once I'm in Guy mode. :- )
I’m not able to stop my erections unfortunately
With some mental dicipline you can keep it down. But if we're at home or in private I wouldn't even bother.
Not your fault at all. It is your boyfriend fault.
I control myself also I allowed her to wear revealing outfits publicly.
Sorry but NOPE... he has a mind of his own
No. It’s instinctual. The best we can do is try to get rid of it by strongly focusing our attention on something else.
Yeah I can if my girl is wearing a sexy nightie or lingerie maybe a skirt with no panties I can hold of the erection but not thinking about it sexually I just think she is wearing it to be comfortable. Also if we just had sex it might be a little easier to not get a erection.
most of the time but if she want me hard I can't stop her
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