Girls, men do not understand why hard it is to be a woman when it comes to dating?

Women are always criticized for their sexuality and called a slut if they have sex with a guy and he isn't there for them or their child. Men can get away for not taking care of their children out of wedlock.
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  • The problem has to do with women not following God's will for their lives and accepting poor behaviors from men. More women if not all should be refraining from sexual relations with men outside of marriage and even from husbands until they are able to have a talk with them about how they wish to be treated. When women choose to have children out of wedlock, it is a double whammy on them. That's the problem. Men only get away with it because we keep making excuses for their toxic behavior when they do. And we support other women's toxic behavior when we shouldn't have done so at all. In order for women to avoid being called a slut with a man is 3 things:

    1. Don't have premarital sex outside of marriage.
    2. Don't disrespect yourself sexually.
    3. Don't be with a man who doesn't respect women and our sexuality as one.

    The best way to deal with men who don't respect your sexuality as BEING a woman:

    1. Remember who you are as a woman.
    2. Love yourself as a woman.
    3. Remember that not all men don't disrespect you.
    4. If you want their respect, respect yourself in and out of the home.

    When dealing with relationships and possible relationships:

    1. Remember that relationships are about the other person, not you. So don't be with a person who you can't love. Love is a CHOICE. So if you break rules regarding sex, you pretty much asked to be in that hellhole. The only way out is to simply remove the relationship by renouncing what is unhealthy for you.
    2. Do not be afraid of what others have to say when they don't understand what you are going through. You need to heal, gather help whenever you can professionally [physically and psychologically].
    3. Be with your support group of friends, family, and those who are healthy-minded. Those who care about your life. And your life's purpose.

    Whatever you do. Have your morals especially sexually where it needs to be. That's where God comes in. He knows what his purpose is for people sexually and living life morally. And the only way people understand that is by fully understanding that you are you and they are them. If they ever want to really be in your life, they have to work for it. If not, don't worry about them. And build yourself up. They can have legitimate reasons as most do. But the behavior cannot continue if there is a lack of empathy and wisdom.

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