Men, do you feel insecure if your woman’s dildo is bigger than you?

Seems like a natural insecurity for men to have, just curious.
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  • Lol Well I find it interesting that I was invited to this question seeing as I'm a female...🤔
    Anyway, I can't speak from a males perspective but as a woman that has toys and has had toys from the age of 16 I've had guys be cool with it for the most part and a lot think it was hot. I also have had some guys be total assholes about it unfortunately.
    The one that was a total dick about it was less bothered by the size of the toy but just the fact that I had a toy that'd I'd use. He was so pissed off about it he actually shoved it in my face. Nice guy.
    For the record it was a rabbit style vibrator that was only like 4 or 5 inches as far as what was insertable and he was bigger than it. So he was simply upset that I could have orgasms without him I guess? I don't know.

    • I hope you punched him in the face

  • I'm confused why I'm invited to this question as I'm not a male... nor do I identify as one 😐 I personally have never owned a dildo, and to this day I don't have one. I've always found things around tge house when I discovered masturbating and once I housed alone, I was always drawn to more of a smaller discreet toy such as a bullet vibrator or a gspot vibrator. However I tease my boyfriend at times when we go grocery shopping for produce together; I'd point out a zucchini or carrot I care to buy and hint on using in the bedroom 😉 He isn't so much insecure, but more so turned on.

    • That honestly sounds so hot Gracia lol. Lucky boyfriend

  • Well I hope not. My partner would need an absolute monster cock in order to be bigger than my toys.

    As someone who loves big toys, I think it's fair to point out that I just like the novelty of large insertions, but sex with a regular human sized dick is it's own form of fun.

    • Yes. Geez, how big are your toys?

    • @Gyrfalcon

      10 and 8 inch, respectively.
      cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...8-80a3-b56486592c41.jpg
      Coke can for scale.

    • Gulp

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  • Yes. Absolutely... Its such an obvious sign that she truly wants bigger.. now if its just slightly bigger or if its a vibrator that might not matter... cause then again they only come in certain sizes... but dildos don't vibrator the shape amd size and "how she uses it" determines its function. They tend to come in different sizes because women come in different sizes. But if its noticeably big.. that to me is like a clear cut sign that she prefers them bigger than you. Its not like she also factored in its personality lol

  • No.

    That's what a sex toy is about. Sex toys are created for an extra sexual adventure. Approaching sexual fantasies and experiences that you wouldn't often get in your personal life. They exist to spice up the sex life and at some time; it must be extraordinary or there is nothing particular about them.

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  • Nope. it doesn't move... so no im not insecure...

  • Usually, no. That said, there was one instance in my earlier years when I was, partly because we just didn't "click" sexually and my young idiot brain was telling me it was cause I was too small to match up to the toy.

    Then I grew up.

  • Lulz. The questions you ask
    Sometimes

    • The deafening silence here says it all.

    • Damn, tough crowd

    • The Dragon Lady is right

  • I really don’t fuck with dildos tbh.

    • Yeah, got you Chronic. Vibrators I guess?

    • I’ve played around with them but honestly I prefer raw play more.

    • Wow nice lol.

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  • You were right the other day, your questions are all over the place.

    • I’m going to acknowledge that as a good thing lol

    • It is. 😄

    • And since I’m not the target audience I’ll abstain. Lack of dildo experience also, never owned one.

  • No, not at all. I've never really got my some guys feel threatened by this kind of thing?

    At the end of the day, it's just a toy...

  • C'mon, man. That's split her open. She'd die.

    • Bahaha😂😂 MHO right here

  • I've always wanted to know this.

  • If I was a guy I'd probably be insecure over it, because obviously she wants/needs something bigger, and I'd feel like I wouldn't be enough for her. That'd be an oof.

  • Yknow I’ve never wondered this but now I’m dying to know the answer

  • I don't know if my woman's gonna have a dildo.. LOL..

  • I don't think Black men have this issue (@ Police lives Matter lmfao!) - funniest screen name I've seen all day. You probably have this issue though assuming you know.

    • Maybe he should change his name to YungRydertheReal#100#100

    • @Redrocket69 Lol hahaha

  • To be honest, Yes. My inner me is saying "pd it's time to brag about your size" but I know I'm just average. At some point It'd make me insecure because it'd make me think I can't satisfy her. Thanks to G@G, now I know women sometimes fake orgasm.

    But that's impossible because sex toys are illegal in my country;

    • India has some weird laws.. what the hell?

    • @VaIiant I prefer the term "outdated"
      Yup sex toys are illegal in India but they're illegal in Albama as well. Here is the list:

      www.lelo.com/.../

      But just like Albama, you can carry or buy sex toy in India online and not in stores (because there are none) I don't think anyone will file FIR against you (police complaint) unless you're selling them publicly

  • Well, her dildo can’t move, can it?

    • She can move it?

    • That’s the point; she herself must move it.

    • My dildos move all around my vagina. I just have to insert it and he does the rest for me

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  • I don't care.

  • Why would she have a dildo while in a relationship?

    Then again, with me around, she won't need that dildo anymore. So, the dildo is the one that should feel insecure.

    • What if she’s not comfortable having sex with you yet but still wants to get off?

    • @VaIiant Why would she not be comfortable with him but still wanna get off?

    • @JDavid25 well, what if its a 2 week old relationship. he's 24, could be dating girls 20ish who doesn't want to jump into sex on the third date. It's perfectly fine to not want to spread your legs in a very early relationship.

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  • No but a slight challenge low key like I've been called out

  • Nope a dildo doesn't have hands, can't cook, raise kids, pay bills, take a woman out to dinner, or be called big daddy.-.
    & I know who to use mine so I don't think my place in her heart (or other places😏) is in any jeopardy. The only way I could be bothered is if it was the size of a horse😂😂💀. At that point I would begin to question my ability to please her in bed as well as how the hell she fit it in here 😵.

  • I won't get insecure but I will be worried that she needs something more than my dick to get satisfied.

    • But your dick isn't with her 24/7

    • @Moonchild714 if she needs a dick 24x7 , i won't marry her ,

    • So your woman can't get horny if you're not there?

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  • Eh. I don't know if I'll have to deal with that situation. If I do, I'm not worried.

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