Men, do you feel insecure if your woman’s dildo is bigger than you?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Seems like a natural insecurity for men to have, just curious.

[Anonymous]

Lol Well I find it interesting that I was invited to this question seeing as I'm a female...🤔
Anyway, I can't speak from a males perspective but as a woman that has toys and has had toys from the age of 16 I've had guys be cool with it for the most part and a lot think it was hot. I also have had some guys be total assholes about it unfortunately.
The one that was a total dick about it was less bothered by the size of the toy but just the fact that I had a toy that'd I'd use. He was so pissed off about it he actually shoved it in my face. Nice guy.
For the record it was a rabbit style vibrator that was only like 4 or 5 inches as far as what was insertable and he was bigger than it. So he was simply upset that I could have orgasms without him I guess? I don't know.

[VaIiant]

I hope you punched him in the face

[aicarg]

I'm confused why I'm invited to this question as I'm not a male... nor do I identify as one 😐 I personally have never owned a dildo, and to this day I don't have one. I've always found things around tge house when I discovered masturbating and once I housed alone, I was always drawn to more of a smaller discreet toy such as a bullet vibrator or a gspot vibrator. However I tease my boyfriend at times when we go grocery shopping for produce together; I'd point out a zucchini or carrot I care to buy and hint on using in the bedroom 😉 He isn't so much insecure, but more so turned on.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

That honestly sounds so hot Gracia lol. Lucky boyfriend

[CountessSarah]

Well I hope not. My partner would need an absolute monster cock in order to be bigger than my toys.

As someone who loves big toys, I think it's fair to point out that I just like the novelty of large insertions, but sex with a regular human sized dick is it's own form of fun.

[Gyrfalcon]

Yes. Geez, how big are your toys?

[CountessSarah]

@Gyrfalcon

10 and 8 inch, respectively.
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...8-80a3-b56486592c41.jpg
Coke can for scale.

[Gyrfalcon]

Gulp

[jackmaxim]

Actually not bad I thought you were gonna have one of those long 2 way monsters classy nice B)

[CountessSarah]

@jackmaxim Oh you mean the double headed ones that are like, 18 inch or something? Yeah, those are neat. I've seen some girls put the whole damn thing in, which is something I'd like to try working up to some time.

[jackmaxim]

Yeah that's the one hahaha oh man really gotta ask do you practice bj on them

[CountessSarah]

@jackmaxim My toys are actually too girthy for that. I'd have to unhinge my jaw like a fucking snake.

[Gyrfalcon]

You are too much!, lol

[jackmaxim]

What it's like a2-3 circumference but ok I feel it

[jackmaxim]

@Gyrfalcon haha what it's like what you gonna do and I'm like ok fuck it but thanks

[CountessSarah]

@jackmaxim 2 or 3 inch circumference? Tako (The Tentacle) is 4.3 inch on the head alone, and tapers to 10.5 inch at the base.

[jackmaxim]

I didn't mean go to the base on it you're supposed gobble the balls while stroking 4.5 is doable I believe in the you that believes in you

[CountessSarah]

@jackmaxim I guess you didn't actually say deepthroat them. That's just what I immediately started thinking of.

[jackmaxim]

You know what I respect your train of thought you a go getter

[Redrocket69]

Yes. Absolutely... Its such an obvious sign that she truly wants bigger.. now if its just slightly bigger or if its a vibrator that might not matter... cause then again they only come in certain sizes... but dildos don't vibrator the shape amd size and "how she uses it" determines its function. They tend to come in different sizes because women come in different sizes. But if its noticeably big.. that to me is like a clear cut sign that she prefers them bigger than you. Its not like she also factored in its personality lol

[UnknownReflection]

No.

That's what a sex toy is about. Sex toys are created for an extra sexual adventure. Approaching sexual fantasies and experiences that you wouldn't often get in your personal life. They exist to spice up the sex life and at some time; it must be extraordinary or there is nothing particular about them.

[Tdieseler]

Nope. it doesn't move... so no im not insecure...

[DHert]

Usually, no. That said, there was one instance in my earlier years when I was, partly because we just didn't "click" sexually and my young idiot brain was telling me it was cause I was too small to match up to the toy.

Then I grew up.

[Izumiblu]

Lulz. The questions you ask
Sometimes

[Izumiblu]

The deafening silence here says it all.

[Gyrfalcon]

Damn, tough crowd

[PoliceLivesMatter]

The Dragon Lady is right

[ChronicThinker]

I really don’t fuck with dildos tbh.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, got you Chronic. Vibrators I guess?

[ChronicThinker]

I’ve played around with them but honestly I prefer raw play more.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Wow nice lol.

[ChronicThinker]

Yeah there’s just a lack of interest there for me. It feels good but not as good as having your man do it. I find I cum harder with natural sex and foreplay than with toys. Toys do the job faster, not better.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I understand, thanks for your insight Chronic

[ChronicThinker]

No problem

[LuvMeSomeBoys]

You were right the other day, your questions are all over the place.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I’m going to acknowledge that as a good thing lol

[LuvMeSomeBoys]

It is. 😄

[LuvMeSomeBoys]

And since I’m not the target audience I’ll abstain. Lack of dildo experience also, never owned one.

[JimRSmith]

No, not at all. I've never really got my some guys feel threatened by this kind of thing?

At the end of the day, it's just a toy...

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

C'mon, man. That's split her open. She'd die.

[VaIiant]

Bahaha😂😂 MHO right here

[ghostqueen]

I've always wanted to know this.

[CarpetDenim]

If I was a guy I'd probably be insecure over it, because obviously she wants/needs something bigger, and I'd feel like I wouldn't be enough for her. That'd be an oof.

[VaIiant]

Yknow I’ve never wondered this but now I’m dying to know the answer

[JDavid25]

I don't know if my woman's gonna have a dildo.. LOL..

[Stupidshimz]

I don't think Black men have this issue (@ Police lives Matter lmfao!) - funniest screen name I've seen all day. You probably have this issue though assuming you know.

[Redrocket69]

Maybe he should change his name to YungRydertheReal#100#100

[Stupidshimz]

@Redrocket69 Lol hahaha

[Political_dude]

To be honest, Yes. My inner me is saying "pd it's time to brag about your size" but I know I'm just average. At some point It'd make me insecure because it'd make me think I can't satisfy her. Thanks to G@G, now I know women sometimes fake orgasm.

But that's impossible because sex toys are illegal in my country;

[VaIiant]

India has some weird laws.. what the hell?

[Political_dude]

@VaIiant I prefer the term "outdated"
Yup sex toys are illegal in India but they're illegal in Albama as well. Here is the list:

www.lelo.com/.../

But just like Albama, you can carry or buy sex toy in India online and not in stores (because there are none) I don't think anyone will file FIR against you (police complaint) unless you're selling them publicly

[mhunterm]

Well, her dildo can’t move, can it?

[Redrocket69]

She can move it?

[mhunterm]

That’s the point; she herself must move it.

[Moonchild714]

My dildos move all around my vagina. I just have to insert it and he does the rest for me

[Redrocket69]

Yeah... and so its not a matter of "motion of the ocean" just yhe size. So he can come to the conclusion that if its big she likes them big.

[Moonchild714]

For me size is meaningless, it's how you work it.

[Redrocket69]

@Moonchild714 yeah.. thats what they say ha

[Phoenix98]

I don't care.

[savalisk]

Why would she have a dildo while in a relationship?

Then again, with me around, she won't need that dildo anymore. So, the dildo is the one that should feel insecure.

[VaIiant]

What if she’s not comfortable having sex with you yet but still wants to get off?

[JDavid25]

@VaIiant Why would she not be comfortable with him but still wanna get off?

[VaIiant]

@JDavid25 well, what if its a 2 week old relationship. he's 24, could be dating girls 20ish who doesn't want to jump into sex on the third date. It's perfectly fine to not want to spread your legs in a very early relationship.

[JDavid25]

@VaIiant Aw naw that's completely fine.. I prefer that in a girl really.. I'm just sayin what's the point of yankin one off.. Why not just wait til you ready to get it done by the guy? LOL..

[VaIiant]

@JDavid25 well, say she wants to wait 3-4 months (i personally wait longer but that seems to be the average) will the guy masturbate during that time since he’s not having sex?

[JDavid25]

@VaIiant Well, I guess in the end that makes sense in a way if she is used to masturbatin, and don't wanna seem easy.. LOL..

[jackmaxim]

No but a slight challenge low key like I've been called out

[Don_Law]

Nope a dildo doesn't have hands, can't cook, raise kids, pay bills, take a woman out to dinner, or be called big daddy.-.
& I know who to use mine so I don't think my place in her heart (or other places😏) is in any jeopardy. The only way I could be bothered is if it was the size of a horse😂😂💀. At that point I would begin to question my ability to please her in bed as well as how the hell she fit it in here 😵.

[Hungry_Shark]

I won't get insecure but I will be worried that she needs something more than my dick to get satisfied.

[Moonchild714]

But your dick isn't with her 24/7

[Hungry_Shark]

@Moonchild714 if she needs a dick 24x7 , i won't marry her ,

[Moonchild714]

So your woman can't get horny if you're not there?

[Hungry_Shark]

@Moonchild714 I won't chose a woman with high sex drive as my wife. Thats my choice. These types of women are highly unstable and highly promiscuous

[VaIiant]

That’s a naive statement.

[LegateLanius]

Eh. I don't know if I'll have to deal with that situation. If I do, I'm not worried.

[lilmissumshine]

I hate dildos 😂

[TJTurner]

No not at all

[Juxtapose]

Nope, if her heart is in the right place then she'll want me because of the connection we share. I'm not lacking personally and most men are equipped well enough anyway, so concern isn't warranted.

Technique and communication will matter more than anything else.

[Coconut_Man]

I honestly wouldn't care. A dildo can't do the things I can which is more important.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I'd like to see her dildo provide for her. Seriously I'm going broke over here

[Anonymus2017]

Personally if my partner bought one after us being together. I would think she was faking her orgasms. If bought before. Well. I doubt she would use it anymore.

[Freelancer95]

Nope, they're often unrealistically sized on purpose.

[Ramsey99Apeman]

These things are usually bigger than guys' junks. In most cases.

[BronzedAdonis]

I've never felt insecure about my prick

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yes you have

[BronzedAdonis]

Never

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Once

[BronzedAdonis]

All this talk about dick, it's lovely... ohhh, getting hot in here

[PoliceLivesMatter]

How’s India?

[BronzedAdonis]

Meh, bit boring but I go home in a week, what are you up to?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Reading for a class. It’s 4:41 Am here. Are you in India for family?

[BronzedAdonis]

Like a uni reading? Nope, just a holiday, sightseeing, we don't know anyone here. Are you full Filipino?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I was born and raised in the US, but my parents are from the Philippines. Yes, a uni reading. Why didn’t you choose a different destination? Something more “exotic” I guess. I would’ve chosen France

[BronzedAdonis]

My mum paied and organised the entire tour, I'm just tagging along because she needs a companion. we've already been to Europe, I wanted to go to US but like I said she paid

[BronzedAdonis]

France is shit by the way

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Oh yeah man, you should’ve gone to the US lol. Too bad next time though

[BronzedAdonis]

Exactly! I have Stars and Stripes in my heart

[PoliceLivesMatter]

After talking to me, you better

[BronzedAdonis]

You've changed me... forever. It's because if you I'm like this

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I have this effect on people.

[BronzedAdonis]

No shit, with great power cums great responsibility. I hope you use your policing for good

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yes, cums.

[BronzedAdonis]

Were you born and raised in talle?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Nope. I told you I’m only here because of university

[BronzedAdonis]

Where are you from originally?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Broward County, Florida. 6 hrs south of Tally

[BronzedAdonis]

That's now equivelant to the birthplace of Christ

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I prefer to be called “Yahweh.”

[BronzedAdonis]

You're daddy to me

[Nandor]

No but I would like to use that on her lol

[nudeNhorny]

Yes I would

[Wayzach1]

It would make no difference to me as long as she’s happy.

[CT_CD]

I don't think dildos come in that size

[theFantasticJ]

Ahhhhhhh

[Revolver_]

I don't identify as a man or a woman atm so I can't answer this

[VaIiant]

are you serious?

[Revolver_]

Yeah my gender is agender

[VaIiant]

I’m just gonna hope you’re kidding

[rockrewls]

Whats a dildo? I'm just an innocent boy, it sounds like a word that might hurt my ears...

[theFantasticJ]

Totally. Especially when she brings out that 10inch, 15inch width horse dick. It makes mine look slightly smaller :(

[Tohhru]

I'm a toilet so this isn't easy for me to answer...

[Deukalion]

Dildos is fine i guess, if she are single, short relationship or open relationship and i don't have a problem with it. But it will start bothering me if she had any dildo size, while we are in long therm relationship or married. For the record my last 2 gf's told me that i am sex addict and it was the reason that we broke up.

[Anonymous]

I think mine did.
... so he bought me a smaller one

[PoliceLivesMatter]

How do you feel about that? Does it pleasure you?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure yet

[Opinion Owner]

It's a long distance think

[Anonymous]

If she's bending me over I would probably ask her to step down a size or 3, or have about 3 litres of lube handy, otherwise whatever floats her boat.

[Anonymous]

No bc sometimes she likes to have fun with bigger things. Not like she wants another dick that’s begger, mines pretty big anyways. She might fantasize about it tho

[Anonymous]

Maybe a tad. But no machine can replicate ME though so I dont sweat it too much.