Men do you hate big boobs?

[lilsezza101]

i have G cup tits and i honestly feel like they they are disgusting Nd make me feel so unsexy

[Phoenix-gb]

Nope, I like boobs of all sizes, but my preference isn't the important one. If it is just for external validation and thinking they will be an issue, then there will be guys who will appreciate how you look along with liking who you are as a whole person.

However, if it's something that's affecting your mental health and the way you perceive yourself, then only you can decide whether you want to do something about it. It was something my step sister did and she felt better about herself as a result of having a reduction, but that's a decision only you can make.

While I hope you get some affirmation from here, if it still bothers you, I'd advise talking to someone in a more professional capacity than a bunch of internet strangers.

[DaveJord]

Yeah honestly there comes piont were big is too big. I hope these G cups are natural... because if they are implants 90% of men will stare at them like a car crash you just can't look away from.

If they are natural G cup, then it depends on how large the rest of you is. If your over weight in general then it probably has nothing to do with your books. But yes huge book throw off you proportions, and it probably attracts all types of undesired attention from undesirable men.

Honest if you have G cups I empathize with you because thats got to be a huge pain in your ass, and heavy weight to carry around.

[softlyautumnal]

'Honest if you have G cups I empathize with you because thats got to be a huge pain in your ass, and heavy weight to carry around' - you are obviously envisioning G cups as being very big. They aren't at all. Natural G cups are actually very common, but most people who need them are wearing incorrectly fitted D/DD's.

[DaveJord]

@softlyautumnal The G cup is known as a pretty large cup size for breasts. Some people consider it one of the biggest bra sizes. It’s even bigger than an E or F cup, which is already quite large. So not sure what your suggesting about G cups not being large. So body portions are relative to and cup sizes so if your 32 G verse 42 G then its all relative... but 42 G means your big women in general with apportionate boobs, and 32 G would mean your a small women with huge boobs... but G cup is G cup... which means regardless of your proportions you have larger than average boobs.

[DaveJord]

www.cakestyle.com/g-cup-breasts-best-g-cup-bras/

[softlyautumnal]

Yes it's 'known' as a large cup size, but everything we know about cup sizes are based on societal misconceptions. I am a bra fitter, and a CORRECTLY FITTED G CUP is nowhere near one of the biggest cup sizes. AND, E and F cups are more in the small-average range. What you are saying about 42G and 32G is somewhat true, they look different because of the different band sizes. But a correctly fitted 32G does not look like HUGE boobs on a SMALL woman. 32 is not that small a band size, and a UK 32G is big yes (A US 32G is not at all) but not huge by any means.

[softlyautumnal]

Also that link you posted is full on misinformation. It says a G cup is one of the biggest sizes out there, not true at all, especially in US sizing. All of the pictures they posted are not G cups either. And the celebrities that they say are G cups, aren't it's complete misinformation. It also says that a 'G cup breast weighs 2000-2100 grams' - which is bullshit because it depends on what band size.

[DaveJord]

@softlyautumnal big boobs are big boobs I so not need any societal misconceptions to tell me that G size is big. Your woefully misinformed you for some reason in some type of denial. But I don't really care that much about it. I have been with A cups, B Cups, C cups and triple D cups. You can honestly tell the difference regardless if they 32, 34, 36, or 44. I have never been with a E, F, or G... but Triple D is big. So your crazy... and not even sure what your point is here.

[softlyautumnal]

'Big boobs are big boobs' yes, but the 'big' ones you see aren't G cups. Might they be WEARING G cups? Yes, it's likely, because 90% of women wear the wrong size. Telling a bra fitter that they're woefully misinformed because you've been fooled by societal misconceptions and can't see that, is kinda pathetic. Also, trust me, you probably haven't been with A or B cups. Those are the smallest possible bra sizes and they are very rare. I'm guessing you think people like Keira Knightley and Natalie Portman are A cups, but they aren't. And trust me, you've been with bigger than triple D. F/FF is roughly the average, which translates to F/G in US sizing. The 'triple D' you've been with was probably in the 90% of women who wear the wrong size. Highly likely.

[DaveJord]

@softlyautumnal a women that wear a G cup without it falling off or being padded or stuffed, be then true Ds or Es are still big boobs regardless if they are fitted properly a man knows... trust me you have no idea who and what I have been with.

[softlyautumnal]

'a women that wear a G cup without it falling off or being padded or stuffed, be then true Ds or Es are still big boobs regardless if they are fitted properly a man knows...' - this sentence makes very little sense. And no, trust me, men do not know if bras are fitted properly, at least, the majority of them definitely don't. And no, I don't know who you've been with but do you really think that the women you've been with are in the rare 10% of women who actually know their correct bra size? HIGHLY unlikely.

[DaveJord]

@softlyautumnal I making light of the fact that big boobs are big boobs and cup size is relative... I honestly don't care or get why you hung up or trying to say women who have G cups don't have big boobs... and honestly I don't care. A man doesn't really give a crap about her bra size we know big when see big, and to say a man doesn't know what big boobs look and feel like is stupid. We spend our whole life studying boobs. If it makes you feel better then yes, I agree with you then... G cups don't mean you have big boobs. And sock sizes have nothing to do with shoe size because you can wear a size 12 sock with a size 8 shoe... I mean you would be retarded to do that, but the size of sock or shoes has nothing to do with accurate size of the foot... so shoe sizes must be 100% arbitrary to begin with. I mean I wear a size 9/42 shoe, but I don't adhered to arbitrary social conventions about shoes, I associate myself to a being a size 15. and I have 16 inch dong to... I mean seriously women your bonkers.

[softlyautumnal]

I didn't say women who 'have' G cups don't have big boobs. Cup sizes aren't static. They look different on different band sizes. SOME G cups are big. Most, especially if we're talking about US sizing, are small to medium. The point is, the assumption that having G cups = huge weight to carry around, back pain, etc, is completely wrong. I'm sure you know what big boobs look and 'feel' like - I don't care. My point is you, and many other men, AND women, don't know bra sizes, which you basically said yourself. That is a completely different thing.

[DaveJord]

@softlyautumnal Your making a very fine point so sure I agree. So I in good faith decided to read more on the subject and yeah in the end G cup is G cup but all deeps on the proportions of the women wearing it.

Direct quote from article below:

"Two women with these alternate shapes could be perceived as being different cup sizes altogether when, in fact, they're exactly the same."

So you are correct in saying some people look a women and may thing she is a G Cup when in reality she is not, she may just have C or D Cups but wieghts 100 LBS so they would look bigger, and D Cups on 200 LBS plus women would look a lot smaller. B

My rub here is that I basically been saying that from the start so I don't get where the we disagree?

But your right direct quote from the article:

"There's an unimaginative old joke about bra measurements: B = Barely There, E = Enormous, G = Get a reduction, etc. Pretty lame, isn't it?

The idea that a women can't be naturally blessed with a 12GG bra size and get by without a reduction is ill-informed. There are billion of women on the planet and we all come in different shapes and sizes!"

So you got me on this one. But in the end from man perspective so don't really care about the cup size if they look good they look good.

www.curvybras.com/.../lets-talk-g-cup-there-are-more-of-us-than-you-think

[wingattebaby16]

nope

the key is how you carry yourself and present yourself.

most my life i had A cup boobs, barely a B.

i got prego and started breastfeeding and now after breastfeeding 3 girls, i have DD/E boobs.

my selfesteem is so much better.

My man used to tell me how much he loved my small boobs. Now that i am huge, he admitted he prefers me big.

so honey, be happy with yourself.

Look at Sofia Vergara, Christina Hendricks, and others with big boobs.. Even Coco... they look awesome.

You just need to find a guy that likes big boobs... they are out there...

[Sirenboobzilla]

Hun, I'm not too far behind you with F's. Let me tell you that for every loud mouth that doesn't like them there's 5 more that do. I felt like mine were too big when I was growing up. Former friends would tell me boys don't like them big and I was dumb enough to believe. I love mine now. They make me feel more feminine. And yeah, I still come across people who will tell me mine are too big and saggy, that my veins are visible, and so on... but as I said, for every 1 that doesn't like them there's more that do

[caring__1]

For every type of person, there are people who are drawn to that type of person. Let people appreciate you as you are rather than always putting yourself down. I've been frustrated too many times by women who refuse to see themselves as feminine because they don't match society's ideal of femininity. We will always be our own worst critic, but what do we accomplish by letting that keep others at a distance?

[MrOracle]

I'm a breast man myself, so I like just about all natural boobs. I'd say my "ideal" range would be a B-D cup (if we're talking about common band sizes in the 30-38 range), but I'd be fine with G cups, and I've dated girls with that size before and enjoyed them a lot.

There IS such a thing as "too big", but you're not in that range for most guys (a few, yes, but not most), even if you're a bit bigger than many men's ideal. Most men just aren't that picky about size.

[softlyautumnal]

How big are G cups?

[MrOracle]

@softlyautumnal You know damn well that I know how bra sizes work.

[softlyautumnal]

Were you talking about a US G cup?


Or a UK G cup?

[SnakeBoop]

I got F's and my partner says he adores them.

[MCheetah]

No. Quite the opposite, in fact. The love of my life was a 42J cup, which basically looked like this.

Her breast size were pretty much the same size as hers, here.

I WISH I could find another kind-hearted woman with huge boobs! I'm sure your breasts are absolutely beautiful.

[Berethor]

Most men prefer big boobs.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BuxomIsBetter

[EmmaMary]

Before my BR almost four years ago I was a 34KK, believe you me I feel your pain and you have my very deepest sympathy. x

[DonkeyDan]

They really aren't for me.

[TadCurious]

Not at all. I appreciate them just like I appreciate smaller size breasts. All breasts are wonderful.

[Citizenkirk]

You shouldn't feel that way, because I'm sure you don't look disgusting too other people. You probably look fine. I'd like to say you definitely do but I've never seen your image, but it's hard for me too imagine you looking unsexy because of large breast.

[AviatorTom]

Big boobs on a guy is gross. On a woman, anything more than a mouthful is a waste.

[Dargil]

Reduction is available to you.

[Fireguy17]

Yes, especially the fake ones.

[imjustadude]

No, i might find them annoying if she had to haul them around in a wheelbarrow or something.

[Scoliosis-Smith]

I, personally, love bigger boobs. Try not to be too hard on yourself, im sure that they're beautiful and someone will love them.

[bowenw]

No, all boobs are unique and beautiful. If yours bother you consider reduction surgery.

[exitseven]

I would not say I hate them but I do not think they are really that hot.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't hate them but, there IS a limit as to how big is too big. At least to me.

[Nagahime]

Most guys (from what I've heard and seen), prefer smaller breasts, but not all of them hate bigger ones. Mine are a C cup and I don't know, they're okay. That must be a pain on your back though, so I'm sorry.

[CasaNorba]

fuck no!

anything above D is paradise for me. now I do kinda hate anything below C and flatchested; this to me is like birth defect

[softlyautumnal]

So this is paradise?

[CasaNorba]

@softlyautumnal no this is….

https://images.app.goo.gl/fAjapdw7q59XhLK28

[softlyautumnal]

And what size is that?

[CasaNorba]

@softlyautumnal she's 34G

https://www.boobpedia.com/boobs/Bea_Flora

[softlyautumnal]

No she isn't. You really believe everything you read on the internet? She is nowhere near a 34G. I am a bra fitter and 34G is WAYYYY smaller. She looks like a 30LL or more.

[CasaNorba]

Yeah @softlyautumnal I guess I agree with you now that I remember I once had a crush on a girl who was 38G and I don’t quite remember her being as big

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I don't hate them, I don't always love them. I depends on other factors. The shape, the way they hang and so on.