Men, do you prefer a submissive or dominant woman in the bedroom?

Sometimes im really confused on what my boyfriend wants. I freeze up and he tells me what to do. I can't tell if he likes that or is bored. Guys, what do you like in a woman in the bedroom? What makes a woman good?

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  • I enjoy when a girl is comfortable being herself in bed.

    I know that's not a direct answer, but it's an honest answer. I tend to take the lead, in the bedroom, and be more dominant, naturally. However, if/when the girl feels like taking the lead, then I don't mind temporarily letting her take over.

    It's all about how the mood strikes her. I enjoy teasing my partner, and I can get really into it. Some of the best, hottest sex I've ever had is when I teased a girl so much that she just lost control, and took over.

    I just enjoy when she isn't afraid to react to how she feels, in the moment.

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  • You gotta trust your instincts and read him. If he's being aggressive, let him take the lead and act dominant. If he's just laying back relaxing, then you be the aggressor and rip his clothes off, breathe heavy, dirty talk him and ride him.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I prefer a submissive woman.

  • Dominant. I like women to know what they like.

  • i think both is the best answer lol

  • You will hear both as an answer. But not sure if that’s helpful. We want you to be raw and honest and communicate. Why do you freeze up?

  • Men prefer whatever the hell they want.

  • I like her dominant. 😊

  • dominant

  • Each guy is different. Just ask him to tell you what he likes best, really, and do the things you are comfortable with

  • Sub switch

  • Both

  • Submissive

  • I love a switch so we both get the best of both worlds

  • Maybe u need to have simple sex first? If i have no idea, 8 can freezup too XD for example you doing sport, nobody told you how to play, whats legal whats not u didn't read on goodle either XD and u in

  • Submissive. I found a submissive woman in the bedroom can dominate me.

  • Submissive.

  • I like sexually dominant woman

  • I like playing both role, so I prefer a woman who's a switch.

  • When I get married. I think I want a wife who can change things up. You know what I mean