Men: do you really prefer a woman who looks so sweet & innocent but is really dirty once turned on?

If so, why is that?
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  • It's because we want her to be that way for US - and ONLY for us; we don't want her advertising those things to other guys.

    Imagine you were dating a good-looking guy with a really cut body and abs, and you were out in public with lots of pretty women around. Would you want him to take off his shirt and start doing something that showed off his arms and torso - drawing in hot women to hit on him and flirt with him (and some who outright intend to steal him from you), or would you rather he keep his shirt on and not advertise? I'm guessing the latter.

    It's the same thing for us. Her being dirty and naughty in the bedroom is something we desire and enjoy - but we don't want OTHER guys enjoying that with her. That's just for US (i. e., her husband/boyfriend) alone.

    • That makes sense. Although just because she’s advertising it doesn’t mean she wants it from anyone else, I don’t think women seek out sex like that as much as men, but I get your point.

    • The thing is: it doesn't matter what she wants - the men are still going to be ALL OVER HER because that's just how men are. Any "advertising" on her part is going to encourage this from the men, which is exactly why your guy doesn't want you doing it.

    • Yeah I get it, but that’s also assuming she’ll take them up on it, why not trust her and be okay? I guess most people struggle with trust now though so that’s fair enough.

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  • That's a lot of fun, esp the kinky guy in me. I'd love for her to get all tarted up, go out, and very discreetly do really nasty things to her in public, hopefully embarrassing her mightilyl

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  • I guess it comes as a surprise. You look at her and think she'll be a little shy and maybe a sub, but then once in bed she turns into the dom. I don't know it's just the unexpected change leaves her slightly mysterious

  • Yes, and for explanation I want you to try imagining the opposite to be sexy at all.

  • That’s me 💁🏻‍♀️

    • Sweet & innocent? Really? Lol I’d say you have more of a sexy vibe going on. In a complimentary way of course.

    • Aww thank you 😍🙈

  • Of course they do.

  • yes. best of both worlds.

  • I would definitely prefer such a woman who seems to be innocent but dirty, wild and open in bed.

  • Cause there's a time and a place for everything.

  • Yeah I think seeing them change and especially discovering that side of her is a very thrilling and exciting process

  • Hmm yes I like slutty women for sex

  • God yes, be a nasty as me, we can fulfill each othrrs fantascies

  • The contrast!

  • Yes because that's a erotic surprise.

  • Yes, we do.

  • That is not my preference. I prefer a girl to be consistent. She doesn't have to be sweet and innocent all the time but if she isn't she shouldn't put up that front. At least that's what I think.

    • Consistent how? They’re opposites, you want just one or the other?

    • It’s natural for someone to be sweet and innocent until they meet someone who brings out that other side of them when they’re with them.

    • Yeah I guess I prefer someone to be one or the other. But of course you can have multiple sides to you as a person that makes sense. It's just if you're two completely different people sometimes I find that hard to deal with personally. Also sounds unhealthy too haah

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  • Lady in the streets and freak in the sheets. I think its because you get the best of both worlds. You get the good modest girlfriend when out and about but then the bedroom she will rock your world.