Men do you secretly lose respect for your woman when she sends you sexy pictures?

I refrain from sending the boyfriend sexy pics. At the start I did, but then eventually I quit doing that. I feel better about myself and that’s me knowing I made the right decision. He respects it and will still ask me, but understands when I don’t. I want to do it for my husband who has committed himself to me for life.

Do you secretly judge your woman for doing it?
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  • When your with some one your with them for s reason I would hope it's because there your best friend and u love like them , so in saying that and I don't even care if it just a friend same thing ,, if a girl even a stranger send me a nude picture it makes me like them more
    1 because they must like me
    2 because there flirting
    3 they like themselves and there confident with in
    4if the pic is done right like a tease picture I love it and would never judge them or think any less or more of them
    Far as I'm concerned if you seen 1 naked body you have seen them all.

    • You wouldn’t think “more” of them is my point

    • Why even do it then

    • I don't judge any one for anything because one way or another I've been there ,,, and I like to look at the positive in like because there's alwsys going to be that hater that thinks your business is there's it takes a pretty bold or confdent person to send nudes and I can't tell you it right or wrong. ,, if you dont feel right about it then you shouldn't do it and do think you have to your boy friend will except that like I said when someone sends me a nude it's followed by something she might want to do with me or for me. I don't think of a name she should be called because I don't see her thst way I honestly like her even tho I might know know her because she is her own person she know who she is she knows who's she not a calling her a name would just be stupid And why even do it some people just get off on sending and your right for me I have to have a reason to share that part of me with someone most of the time its because I'm horny,,, that's so lame lmao,, but it's true and people can call me what ever they want it goes in 1 ear and out the other if negitive. Because they don't know me In your case the only reason I could think of for you is because you want to say. Hi to ur boyfriend and remind him who at home waiting for him It really is a choice. And probably not a good one but for me I'm just me and I'm going to do it if I want to for what ever the reason

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  • No not really.
    But if they stopped doing something they used to, and gave me odd explanations like "it feels better not to do that" or that they "want to do it for their husband", then I would definitely be a bit confused and start thinking that there is a problem.

    • Why should there be a problem because she respects herself?

    • Because it sounds like an excuse. You haven't started "respecting yourself", you've simply become uncomfortable with doing something you were comfortable doing in the past. You've become insecure and started questioning matters that do not reflect the reality, and you've thrown in that odd "I want to do it for my husband" line which immediately triggers the assumption that you have perhaps stopped perceiving your current partner as someone who you see your future with. And, of course, if you really made you feel better, you wouldn't be asking this question on here. You are asking this question because you are seeking the assurance that you have made the right choice. It probably doesn't feel like the right choice because it isn't, it's more telling about your discomfort than anything else, really. That's just the impression I get.

    • It’s doing wonders for our bond though

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  • I don't think they do if they Ask for it themselves

    • While I do agree that sending sexy pictures doesn't lower a woman's value to me (unless they're sending nudes before we're even official, in which case the same goes for having sex too early, which means she's probably used to doing this), I think men asking for it isn't a sign that they'll respect you once you do it. A lot of men, most men indeed, will try to hook up with women early on. If women do give in easily, though, they lose value, and the same men that enjoyed sex with them will say they're not serious relationship material. It's hypocritical of them, and I'm not one of them, but it's how it is anyway. So yes, just because someone asks, doesn't mean they'll respect you after you do it. This goes for other things besides sex too. Don't think doing someone a favor is going to earn you their respect. In a lot of cases, it doesn't, and you end up just being used

    • @RemoErdosain And while the boyfriend really hopes I’d send him sexy pictures, I’ve noticed that me not obliging has had somewhat of a positive effect.

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  • No - that doesn't make any sense to me. If I'm in a relationship with a girl, we're going to be sexual with each other, so why would some sexy pictures change my opinion of her?

  • No. In a relationship where sex is involved, sexy photos are just part of the mating game.

  • God no. I love it.

  • No not really, i think it means its a privilege that she trusts me that much

  • Not at all. That would be very silly.

  • I don't know how would you feel if your boyfriend stopped doing something he knew you liked because he suddenly decided he had too much respect to do it anymore unless married?

  • Frankly, I'd appreciate that she's not sexually timid, and that she's sharing something intimate with me.

  • Depends. If she's just a girl I sext or fuck irl with, i would enjoy her pics. If I think more serious about her, I really love her, her eagerness to send nudes may bother me. However I think after some time into a cozy realtionship, trading nudes can become a fun activity if done at a certain level

    • Why would it bother you that she wants to send them to you?

  • It needs to make sense.

  • No. Certainly not.

  • Depends on who is sending it, if I dont know the woman well, I would most certainly not respect her.
    I think its indecent all the time. I am guilty of receiving, asking for and sending sexy/nude pictures in the past. It never helped any of my relationships. I dont think men think of it as a respect thing, but thats certainly a result.

    The naked body should only be shared with a lover, in person and in private. Thats what ought to be.

    • That’s what I mean

  • No, why would I?

  • Uh no, I judge her for NOT doing it. I'm sure you'll enjoy your impending breakup since you don't keep your man happy.

    • He has the real thing and he loves it

    • Lol sure hon

    • Don’t be jealous.

  • Not really

  • No i go beat off too them

    • It’s degrading

  • Absolutely not it goes up, it makes me think she’s confident in her body and our relationship to share them

  • I like it when she does it.

  • I think women who post sexy pics on here, don't have my respect

  • Nope

  • No not at all.

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