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  • Yes when I was 14-15 I went to a party with some people from class I was still small back then. I fell asleep on a sofa. The morning after I realized what had happened because I heard people talking and stuff but I was already traumatized from bullying in class when I was 12-14. When I got to the new class and I felt a bit better there I felt more safe and accepted and then this happened.

    I wasn't ready to deal with it at the time because I already had so much suppressed pain from before that was trying to come to the surface so I thought it's best to just ignore it. I was asleep so it's like it never happened. But I started having flashbacks but the images were just random images because I was asleep I had no memories but I got a really bad feeling and I felt like I needed to puke. Because I had kind of forgotten about it I didn't understand that this was because of the trauma. It took me a long time to make the connection and take this back into my conscious mind and accept it.

    I've thought about going to the police now but I'm not sure I'm ready and it has been so long. I think there were witnesses but I only remember the name of 1 person who was there the other people I forgot. It's difficult but I think I've overcome the trauma of it at least. I don't get those flashbacks anymore.

    There is a chance there's still some unresolved trauma in my subconscious. I've dealt with all the trauma on the surface that was accessible but I feel like there's still some things that I don't know what they are but they're just floating around and I feel weird once in a while but I don't know why.

    This was the worst time of my life I'm autistic I was unprepared for high school and the shit that goes on there. The bullying My parents started fighting and my home went from warm to cold and empty feeling and then also this incident. And I wasn't able to communicate what was happening in that time and ask for help because it was just too much for my mind I was just in survival mode trying to get through the day I couldn't actually assess my situation and make decisions.

    This time has affected my whole life. I've been able to process it and overcome most of it but it will never fully go away it will always have happened to me. Even with all the time I spend on my mental health and I'm generally a happy content person it's still different. But I think I'm making the best of my life and of this situation so I'm alright :).

    • i’m sorry that it happened to u! and i would definitely advise u to reort the situation to the police. however u know the best for yourself and i’m happy to hear that you are better know and that trauma is not very present anymore!☀️

    • @lynx122 I’m so sorry that happened to you but I would advice you to go to police ask someone to go with you

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  • Yes, a few times. Twice when I was about 14. The guy living on the 2nd floor, next door, Norbert Carr, told me he had something to show me up in his room. I went up with him and he pulled out this silicone plastic protective cup that baseball catchers wear to keep their balls from getting bashed in by a speeding baseball. I had no use for it! I hardly ever play baseball and I'm NEVER the catcher! He made me try it on in front of him. I did, begrudgingly, in hopes that I could then get the fuck out of there but then, he made me lie back on his bed beside him with my pants down and his, too and he told me to play with his dick while he played with mine. After a couple minutes of that, nothing more happened and I pulled `em up and got out of there!
    I remember that he got me twice but, I'm not sure how. Why would I go up there a second time? Maybe the first time was just the routine with the cup and the second time was him fondling my fudgies.
    Not long after this, I was sleeping on the porch swing, as I did every hot night in the summer because there's no AC in my room on the third floor and it gets REALLY hot up there, even with the windows open! Around 3:00 a. m., I'm sound asleep, dead to the world when I felt something bump one of the chains above where my head was! I was VERY sleepy and couldn't even open my eyes!! But, I managed to wake up and see that there was some big guy standing directly over me at the head of the swing beating his meat in my direction!! I'm guessing he was planning on either spewing all over my face or maybe shove his dick in my mouth at the last moment! Apparently, when I sat up and said something, he was already at the point of no return and turned to his left and blasted his cum all over the front wall of the house behind the swing, pulled up his pants, jumped over the railing and took off towards the back yard! I never got a look at who it was but, he didn't have the same haircut as Norbert but, I guess it could've been him with a wig of some kind. He DID have, roughly, the same build.
    And, at some point in the late `80's, no one in my band would ever give me a ride home after a gig so, after stashing my drums in the basement where we rehearsed, I just had to walk home! I just didn't feel like sitting around Bob's house for 3 or 4 hours waiting for the buses to start running, again, which meant, I'd get home about 6:30 a. m., spend about an hour getting some Purina Drummer Chow, another hour getting a shower and getting to bed about 9 a. m.!! So, as it only took me about 90:00 or so to walk the 8 or 10 miles, and it was a nice night out, usually, I'd just take a walk home, get in about 4:30 or so, eat, get a shower and into bed by about 6:30 a. m.. Well, one of those nights, I was about 3 miles from my house when a car pulls up beside me around 4:00 a. m. and a voice inside sounded familiar and seemed to know me so, they offered a ride and I got in. I have quite a few local fans and run into them in the wild from time to time and thought this was one of them. Sadly, I never get the chance to meet very many of them so, I never get to know who they are. We got about half way to my house when he starts putting his hand on my left thigh and slowly rubbing it! I told him, "I'm NOT that kinda girl!". He didn't stop so, I just figured, he's not hurting anything and I'll be at my place in about :45 so, rather than start something and risk getting hurt, I'll just let him have his jollies. I had him drop me off 2 blocks from my house and he took off up the road (east) while I walked the rest of the way home (north).

    • I just remembered another one. I was on my way home about 10:00 p. m. from my best friend's house. There was a lunar eclipse that night and, while I was in town waiting for my second bus home, I was watching it happen over the Gulf building. There was a black couple in the street to my right, just past the curb, making out in front of everybody. He was about normal height and she was no more than 5' tall. They were both at least in their late 20's. Other than that, I paid no attention to them. After a few minutes, they broke apart and I noticed her step up onto the sidewalk to my right and, seconds later, I felt something hit my balls!! It was her!! She walked up behind me, slapped her hand up between my legs to feel my dick!! I guess she was both, checking to see how big Sir Richard Longfellow was and hoping it'd get me horny enough to wanna fuck her!! Apparently, she's a whore and he's her pimp!

    • sorry to hear all that horrible things! hopefully u reported them

    • At that age, I never thought to! There was the risk of other kids finding out and tormenting the hell out of you with it. He got my brother and oldest sister, too and even I never found out `til we were all in our 40's and 50's. It just wasn't the thing to do, back then (`70's). I guess I was also afraid my parents would've seen it as ME being perverse and then I'D get punished for it rather than them going after him. I DID tell them about the guy on the front porch, though but, as I had no idea who he was, there was nothing we could've done about it. Nobody knew about DNA and what have you, that could come from his sperm and, a few years later, we got siding on the entire house. Besides, every spring, we'd always hose off the porch and that wall before putting the swing and summer porch furniture out so, I'm PRETTY SURE that all of his jiz got washed away after a year or three.

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  • I've had my ass grabbed multiple times, boobs shoved in my face, etc.

    Some older women just assume that if you're a man you want the sexual attention regardless of whether you're into them or not and it can be subtle or quite aggressive. I once took a group photo with some friends and an older woman who stood right by me, when the photo was about to be taken, instead of putting her arm around me like a normal person, she put her hand in my back pocket on my ass. This was a woman I had JUST met. It was a very uncomfortable smile for me in that photo.

    • sorry to hear that! and yeah i agree that society things mem want sexual attention and all that. that’s why i asked the question because we hear talking about sexual harrasment to men less

    • EEEWWW!!! TITS shoved in your face? That sounds HORRIBLE!! What size were they?

  • I've been whistled and hollered at while on runs when I was younger and have been whistled at while doing manual labor and at one of my previous jobs.

    Though I just consider that flattery and not really sexual assault.

    • i’m sorry for that!

    • That's all it is.

    • Why are you sorry lol? It didn't bother me none if anything it was flattering.

  • yeah technically, i was. but it wasn't ever so bad that i had to get authorities involved or that i got traumatized.

    • i’m sorry for that.

    • it's ok. it was at a level where i can just dismiss it as a awkwardly communicated compliment tbh.

  • Yes for several months when I ran away and in the detention facility they sent me to by a staff member

    • sorry to hear that!

  • Not assaulted, but groped, yeah.

    • i’m sorry for that:(

    • I appreciate that, thank you.

    • u’re very welcome!

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  • Yes and no. I wanted to continue our kind of heated conversation and she wanted to distract me with sex and was kind of aggressive about it.

    • sorry for that!

    • I wouldn't call it assault but it was an uncomfortable situation. Don't be sorry! Mistakes are the only way we truly learn!

  • Yeah, several times. I prefer not to think about that much

  • Me no never

  • Yes I have

    • i’m sorry for that

    • It’s been a long time ago

  • Yes. When I was 12

    • i’m sorry to hear that.

    • Thanks How about you?

    • not really

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  • Nope, no one dares!

    • happy to hear that!

    • No one deserves to be assaulted sexually!

    • agreed 100%

  • Molested by a coworker 5 times in Pizza Hut. I walked out after the fifth time

    I guess it might count as sexual assault by women but I enjoyed it

    • so sorry to hear that!!

  • Thankfully no. And I hope you never have been.

    • yeap true! that’s such an awful thing to do to an innocent human.

    • Or women.

    • yeap that’s what i meant. such an awful thing shouldn’t happen to anyone (men, women, children)

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  • Yeah... once when I was just 10 years old... some of senior girls did harassed and bite my penis and other areas

  • Yes, I have

    • sorry to hear that

    • Yep. That’s life though

  • Yup n i enjoy she was my teacher math teacher 🙃

    • i’m sorry

    • Sorry for what? I enjoyed a lot

  • Sexually harassed? You may count mine as that.

    • sorry to hear that!

    • Have you been assulted?

    • i don’t know how i would name it but yeah kinda. but i don’t want to call it an assult amd i don’t what to be remeinded of that

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  • Actually not.

    • that’s cool!

    • @overthinkergirl are you?

    • not really

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  • Technically, yes, but it didn't traumatize me or anything. It isn't a pleasant memory, though.

    • i’m sorry to hear that:(

  • I was when I was a child, by a family friend.

    • im sorry to hear that:(

    • It's okay. It was a girl which I feel doesn't make it as bad What about YOU?

    • i wouldn’t say i’ve been harrased maybe sth simillar I don't know i dont wanna think about it

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