Men have you ever craved sexual variety in long term relationships?

[That1tallguy]

I feel like we're biologically hard wired to want variety or at least have the thought of variety. Especially living in modern times doesn't help when having technology and sex appeal every where you look from ads, tv, media even cartoons. They made Misses incredible thick for a reason.

[mike5150]

I don't even see it as sexual as I only ever picture my wife in that way. It's just for the most part the feeling of being desired or needed. Been with the same woman for 6 years now and we have a lot of great times together but there are ocassions from time to time that we can be distant. It might just be for about a day or two but it does make me wonder sometimes if she still feels the same about me as when we meet. I don't go around looking for anything but I usually find myself wondering what my life would be like if something happend. If I would be able to find someone or be like a lot of these guys struggling to get women to speak to them. Anyways I am just rambling on at like 3 in the morning and tired but I do love my wife very much.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, I have wanted some variety at times in a long term relationship. That's why I want a partner who is relatively uninhibited and willing to do different things instead of just following the same old formula every night.

[Miley19new]

If you’re “biologically wired” that way then us women are also “biologically wired” to seek for the strongest, most attractive, smartest men.
We are not living in caves anymore therefore we should act with our brains rather then our instincts.

[That1tallguy]

But women in a way do. Girls don't want a simp. Most girl's want a confident, emotionally and physically strong man. You don't have to be the strongest but they still like the feeling of being protect *hint tall guys. Also women weren't biologically wired to seek the most attractive and smartest man but we're for the strongest man the alpha. Cave times being the most attractive has no value in survival.

[Miley19new]

So what? If we are happy with one guy, y’all can be happy with one girl as well.

[That1tallguy]

I was just pointing as a response to your opinion.

[Dargil]

Occasional fantasies. Not craving.

[Browneye57]

So, you've never really had an LTR, have you? Poor kid.

[That1tallguy]

Why would I want that? To fuck around?

[Browneye57]

That's what I thought. Clueless, but here you are spouting off. Dear lord.

[That1tallguy]

🤷‍♂️ fuck off if your going to be a condescending cunt

[Browneye57]

You really are dim.

[That1tallguy]

And your a bitter old man bye 👋

[Browneye57]

And you're a cunt. LOL God you're dumb.

[That1tallguy]

Wow your still here i guess a bitter old man really doesn't have anything better to do then argue with a "kid" LOL sad

[Browneye57]

Your drivel comes up in my feed. Now fuck of and quit bothering me you little cunt. What's really sad is that you act just like a young girl. I'm here to tell you that you will be a complete failure with the ladies, cuz you act just like one of them. All the arguing and fussing - I'd swear you're a 12yo girl. You ask a reasonable question, but the fact of the matter is you've never HAD a long term relationship, so you've never experienced the fantastic sex that brings. You get WAY WAY more variety when the girl is connected to you - she lets here hair down and goes wild. But you're too young and dumb to even get it. And instead of coming here to learn something, you spout off like a 12yo. FUCK OFF YOU IDIOT.

[That1tallguy]

Lol ouch I'm hurt 😆 how old are you dude to get your panties in a bunch by a kid. If i never had a long term relationship why would I be asking this question you dumb fuck. You say leave me alone yet you still keep coming back like a child throwing a temper tantrum. Aren't you a little old to still be arguing with kids online. BLOCk me and go back to living the few years of your bitter life you have left in this world.

[Browneye57]

As you wish. Turd.

[DreamCatchcer]

I don't think it is unusual. Even when a man is in a committed relationship, there are still plenty of attractive women out there.

What a man need to do Is decide if fucking any female he sees takes precedence over a solid relationship.

[FlashMetal]

Only after she's cheated on me, seems only fair that if she got to say outside the box, I should too, and worst part is, if I dont get to play outside the box as she did. It keeps the dagger in the back, and slowly bleeds out my resolve to stay...
Sad but true... maybee that makes me a bad person

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Almost every day

[That1tallguy]

The name gives it away

[Mossberg500]

Nope not really. If she is satisfying I have no interest in looking out. I suppose 'crave' is a vague term. Did I think about other women sexually once in awhile? Yes. Did I think about acting on it? No.

[That1tallguy]

Crave like wanting to fuck other women but don't cus you love your girlfriend

[Mossberg500]

Well in that case I guess so. But not just cause I love her cause I'm not a cheater. If I want to fuck someone else for real ill do the honorable thing and leave the relationship first.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but what I mean by that is I crave sexual variety with my partner, not with other women. It's not hard to have variety and keep things interesting in a relationship with a woman who is open minded and willing to be adventurous.

[Anonymous]

I also wonder about this.