Men: how do you just have hook up sex with no strings attached? Don’t you have to get to know someone first to feel comfortable etc?

What is it that’s so appealing to you about sex with someone you don’t know or like romantically?

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  • I have 3 FWBs.

    1st : She is a married woman. I like her because she is quite decent looking, allows me to do her raw, I like how she reacts when I insert around 7" of my D into her and between the sounds she makes and her 38F boobs moving about. She likes it that I want to do it with her, does foreplay on her and likes the feel of being brought to orgasm.

    2nd : She is also a married woman. Same like the first though she doesn't have as big a boob but she has a big ass and thick thighs, I just like the feel of her body.

    3rd : This one isn't a married woman, she is not that good looking, kind of fuller figured but I like spending time with her as she is quite witty. She likes the sex I give her and that's just it.

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  • I don't do that because I'm admittedly very possessive. Not in an abusive, creepy way, but I only sleep with women I really like and I get very attached. Fucking a beautiful woman on vacation or a andone night stand, then never seeing her again is kind of like a worst nightmare for me. I want that person, lol.

    • Yeah I’m the same, plus I need to feel safe with them first too. There has to be something I like about them in the first place too to let them anywhere near that close to (well inside) me.

    • Exactly. After being married I need a closeness and love basically. I'm not the type who's just desperate to stick my dick in something.

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  • It’s Easy. Males do not need or get emotional connection through sex or for sex. It is biological.

    We are programmed to spread our seed, we aren’t meant to mate for protection or to be provided for, therefore having sex is just a pleasurable mechanical activity.

    Women get oxytocin through foreplay, sex, and orgasm. Therefore they bond, and this is so that in the wild they would become attached and be cared for and provided for.

    Yes a lot of these evolutionary items have been modified through human evolution but the core remains intact. Women can bypass these items by getting inebriated or being mentally fucked up in the head.

    And yes, there are males (usually the ones who are desperate to be loved or have someone pay attention to them because they have few options) that get emotionally invested as well and this is because they know it’s the only option they have.

    • I'm gonna have to disagree. All the women I've ever been with were really hot and I stayed in long relationships with most of them because I loved them. It isn't that I don't have options, I have what are called standards and I don't just fuck anything.

    • I disagree with this too, it’s too basic and people by nature are far more complex. Seems like you’ve bought into the simplicity that is broadcasted but doesn’t really reflect reality.

    • Plenty of women have resources, I know people who come from rich families, those already with their won money to live comfortable, those with male partners who earn less but are happily with them etc, and they still don’t enjoy casual sex. This just doesn’t support needing the resources argument.

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