Men, how do you react if your side chick sleeps with one of your best friends?

Guys the chances you have more than one side chick is pretty high so what do you care if she has more than one boy toy? How do you feel if she hooked up with one of your best buddies? Is that a deal breaker?
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Listen fellas... Honest there is no tone. Yes he's in a relationship and he and I hooked up a couple of times. Sometimes he says he can't do this anymore but there he is texting and looking for someone to talk to. (CONT)
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One of his friends is my coworker and his friend IMMEDIATELY let me know he was just my friend. As time went on his friend took me for a drink and is now trying to connect with me. I don't want to go there or I will lose my fwb.
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  • First off only the most disgusting human beings would have this situation even possible. But Bro Code prohibits your friend from touching anyone you even like much less someone your having sex with. I don't know what the "Kids" are doing nowadays... but your in my age range... and I am telling you what the Gen X'ers do.. If the guy touches you then he definitely is not a "friend" even if you break up bro code prohibits him from ever even so much as kissing you or holding your hand. so he would no longer ever be a friend. screw that POS. and as far as she goes... screw her.. boot that whore to the curb. Once a cheater always a cheater.

    • Yea my age range says that too. And I'm pretty sure his circle knows we are hooking up however his friend hit on me.

  • If it's someone I don't know I'm cool with it but if it's my best friend then i beat the crap out of that particular friend and tell him to stay the hell away.

    I'm then very rough with that side chick and give her a night of nothing but forcing her to give me head and doing her in the back door.

    • See you're mad at her but you don't want to be exclusive? What is that?

    • The thing is I don't want to be exclusive with a woman who has other boyfriends and doesn't have a loyal personality and especially not one who betrays me with one of my friends. I blame the friend less because he's probably desperate but I still punish him since he could've just exercised a bit of self control. To guys your friend's girlfriends are off limits.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If a woman is a man's"side chick"I'm assuming he has sex with her on the side of his relationship. Which means he's having sex with more than one person. So how can he be upset if his girlfriend or his side chick does the same

    • That's what I'm saying!

  • Lol o man, I mean u don't want ur side bitch to be a hood rat, homie hopper, etc. A side bitch is on the side, but doesn't mean u wanna share w/ ur best friend either.

    • Homie hopper... Yea! I'm guessing he would be upset if he knew his friend tried to take it there.

  • He'd think you're a ho. Hypocritical, yes... But guys with side chicks aren't known for fairness and compassion.

    • True

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  • Her life, her choice - she's free to do what she wants to as long as the intention is not malicious. Why would I bother with how she finds pleasure and with who?

    • Thank you Handsome Raj!

    • PS it's not malicious. We are in relationships that suck and we just click and whatever else happens, happens.

    • In which case it's cool by me :D :) I won't bother much even if the relationship between me and her didn't suck. As long as we can talk & be open to each other, she likes what she's doing it's all fair :) Your're welcome always with pleasure girl :)

  • i'd be pretty happy about it with my friend but my already non-existent respect for her would be even less. i'd just be glad that me and my best friend are now cock-brothers and i'd try to get more of the people i know to go in on her

  • If that happens you're no longer friends with benefits, just benefits. You can hook up with whoever you want, but after I find out, the friends part fades, and you're just a booty call.

  • hey if you wanna be a hoe thats your choice, what ever rocks ur boat. sleep with 10 boy toys if you want. im sure the guy you end up with as a life partner will enjoy your hoe stories

  • "She eyein my man, Go head bis rock it. We get it and split it I never could knock it"

    • You at the right age for that too. JS.

  • Two things.
    She instantly becomes not my chick.
    He instantly becomes not my friend.

  • Easily , give up on her

  • I'm completely loyal. No sides.

  • my friend will remain my friend
    but chick if she is not with me she can do what ever she wants

  • It won't bother me.

  • Most of us do not have side chicks.

    • Wait another 20 years then answer... Thanks though!

  • It's your choice. If you are fine being a side girl, then more power to you. But I'm picking up vindictive tones in your question. Sounds as if you don't want to be a side chick. So you are looking to try and hurt him by sleeping with his friend. You all sound like class acts.

    • Nope. No tones. His friend hit on me and I turned his friend down.

  • What is a side chick? If she is my girl, than there are no other guys for her. Period.
    If she wants to leave and be with someone else, it is her choice, but she can't come back to me after that.
    If we are done, we are done. She can choose to be mine or someone else's, but not drifting around between me and other man.

    • Somebody is a exclusive dater only.

  • I dont care. The best dicks and pussies need to be shared!!

  • Please STOP assuming that guys are only interested in sex, and would have more than one 'side chick'. Its an insult to the dignified men who value human emotions more than sex, and would rather be in a committed long term relationship than have several fuck buddies. This question is highly offensive, and people like you contribute a lot towards women's general perception today that men want nothing more than sex.

    • Haha! Yes it's MY fault... Lol! Do you watch tv? Listen to the radio? Sorry if you are offended but you don't have to read it. Scroll on my friend...

    • Your sarcasm doesn't affect me one bit. I know very well that I don't have to read this. But many other men WILL read this, and even if they're not interested in 'side chicks', they may get the impression that its a 'cool' thing because a woman is asking such a question. This kind of influence is very dangerous, and could reinforce the opinion that men want nothing more than sex. Hence, I read this and answered it so that my answer would be a counter-view, and might discourage at least SOME men who read my answer, to stop thinking that having fuck buddies is trendy. Got it?

    • Thanks you told me! Why are you on this site? You have 14 year olds asking questions about sex and married people asking about affairs but you harpoon me for asking about side chicks? Yea I got it bro...

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