Men, How do you react when after a long day you return home and your partner is horny?

Like, you just want someone to listen what a shitty day you had at work and they're having trouble concentrating on your words. Do you feel insignificant? Or would you appreciate a good shag?

Here, it can be your girlfriend, boyfriend or wife and likewise.
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Now when I think about it — I'd probably be more willing to talk if somebody offered me sex first. I'm usually quite closed off, guarded — a good fuck might be helpful. Then again, I'm not sure, I don't have experience. So nevermind.
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  • Ummm, almost always, I sex her up if she's down. I only turned my girl down once, because I had shoveled snow for 16hrs and was completely exhausted. IMHO, never turn down your lady if she's wanting to shag. Mostly, because women turn us down more than we want ( for lots of good, valid reasons) and I say take it when she's offering. Of course, I'm a pretty randy guy and love getting down anytime.

  • No matter whether I was tired not in the mood she would definitely get me in the mood and I would never say no to my partner unless I was with a severe headache or my back was out or some shit like that which never happens nor do I ever get sick either so I would always be up for pleasuring my partner and taking care of her

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  • Sounds good to me. That said, I don't go home after a stressful day looking to talk about it. The last thing I usually want to do is talk about it (that would make me more stressed out, not less). I want to forget about it. So doing something fun and exciting together is usually what I want to do above all else when I'm stressed out, and sex would definitely be fun. If I just arrived home though, maybe she can give me a few minutes to freshen up and get in the zone.

    • On what you mentioned about coming home from a hard day at work and wanting someone to listen to us speak about it, that's a curious difference I've noted between many men and women. I do find talking therapeutic about things that are still bothering me at times like lifting a weight off my shoulders, but a rough day at work isn't the type of thing that tends to still be "bothering" me. It's more like it "bothered" me. The weight is already off my shoulders. Now I'm looking to relax and have fun and laugh. So sometimes with women I've been with, they find me not wanting to talk about such things and thinking I'm holding back or something when I'm just looking to relax and have fun. I do find it therapeutic to talk about things still bothering me, like if a loved one died and I'm not finding ways to get over it. But not so much a hard day at work.

  • If I get home and my girl is horny then I want sex... hell I want it anyway even if she in not horny. We can save all the talk until after while we cuddle and snuggle. But Sex is best stress reliever. If a guy is so stressed he cannot perform then he has some type of anxiety issue in general and work is only one factor of it.

  • I am not a guy who says "no."

  • Oh wow I'm single so I guess I'm going to have to go with likewise. So now that I have a partner I guess I would get undressed and say eat me I'm a cookie then laugh and say that was fun. And go take a shower

  • Why would I want to talk about my day instead of sex? That's not even a contest.

  • "Waaait.. what long day?" 😳

  • We play Ginuwine and then get to it...

  • Wish I had a partner.🤡

    • I don't have long days either, it's mostly boring ones.

    • So answer hypothetically

    • Yeah, anyone would. Expect when someone is stressed and mentally exhausted about work or an upcoming project. They'd become a pressure cooker waiting to release steam.

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  • Fuck talking, a good hard fuck is a much better way to blow off the pressure and stress of the day.

  • Sounds like a nice way to unwind a hectic day.

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