Men, is thrusting fast & hard during sex hard because?

[Anonymous]

You get tired or it makes you want to come sooner?

[SomeGuy37]

Biologically, it is the male's function to impregnate the female. We have developed a higher level of thinking, relationships, emotions, and so on. Biologically, a lot of guys orgasm too soon, for the woman's pleasure, because there is no biological, evolutionary need to prolong intercourse beyond the 'insemination'.
For women, just 'Gross' and their constant and continual ridicule, openly, in the media, in Sit-coms, commercials and so on, doesn't help!!
Biologically, we are 'PROGRAMMED' to get it in there, to reproduce!! Somewhere along the evolutionary line, women decided they wanted more, but you aren't going to get it, with ridicule, and derogatory comments about how long we last or size!! What's our motivation, if you just degrade, and tell us we are inadequate?

[Asker]

I think you misunderstood my question & intentions. I was just wondering if having sex fast was hard for men because they tired or because it get's hard to hold not to come. I've never even had sex, I just saw a guy in p*rn having sex fast & I wondered if that was difficult for men. You really misunderstood my intentions here, & was insulting or degrading anyone. Calm down.

[syd48]

I may get blackballed for this, but to be honest it;s the latter. Once a guy starts to be more focused on the girl being pleased first then it all changes. It's about maturity , experience and control.
Let's face it, once she is happy he can catch up really quick.
This is one race the woman should always win in my opinion.

Sex really does get better as you get older and if you are fit, don't smoke and drink in moderation it is not going to stop even well after you are taking your pension. So slow down.

[Anonymous]

Who told them to ever do this crap girls? Girls have different climax points. But I'm sure not all of us need this all the time. Sometimes in the heat oh yeah.. But every time I don't think so.

[Sixtus64]

Coming sooner, especially when one is young. The advantage of age is that it can take longer to come to one gets to enjoy the lovemaking all the longer, not to mention the gratitude of the partner who may take longer to come because women generally need more time. But, sometimes drugs, particularly many antidepressants, can make it harder to come, requiring harder and longer thrusting. Some antidepressants actually suppress orgasms, but not erections.

[OldDinosaur]

It's like an at home workout with the added benefit of...
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[kheserthorpe]

Latter. It's difficult to maintain because it leads to rapid orgasm.

[summiter]

There is a real difference between fucking and making love. There is a time and place for both. As a guy gets closer to orgasm he may speed up, but that is normal. Jackhammer sex is just that, I like it when the girl responds and lets me know how fast things should go.

[doireallyneedone]

For me its hard work on my part lol. I will come faster depending on the position.

[virginguru]

Haha ; this reminds me of when the neighbors above me to at it, it sounds like when clothes become unevenly distributed in a washing machine and it goes through spin cycle

[virginguru]

Ah damn autocorrect *go not to*

[joe_soapus]

It can be both. It often depends on what position you are in, how stable you are, and whether you have something solid to push off. Sometimes on a bed it can be difficult because you tend to slide on the sheets when you need a firm base to get some thrust

[BEatenyou]

I think so. Plus its this crazy idea that the harder men fuck, the easier women will cum... not the case in my opinion...

[aaa34pr]

I love to time myself with my partner, hard thrusting followed by some slow deep thrusts also. Mostly i make my partner come first then do it fast to reach my own orgasm.

[jacquesvol]

Jackhammering: www.urbandictionary.com/define.php
I would think the guy does it to make the girl feel a bit of pain so she thinks he has a p*rn penis.

[greycadillacs]

Can't control our sexual urges. It feels so good, it's really hard to stay slow and steady.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I want to come sooner.

[Anonymous]

Both. My gf only climaxes with penetration if it's hard and fast, but she's very tight so it's hard to go for a long time without finishing too soon. When we're drinking or if I use a condom I last longer but then I get tired from going fast and hard for a long time.

[Anonymous]

Just means he's really into it so it must feel good.