Men just look at this photo. Those piercing green eyes, her soft full red lips, that silky straight healthy ginger hair, her smooth skin and the cute freckles. Within seconds many men viewing this picture love her very existence. She is her skin, lips, hair, eyes and overall body. She is NOT her car, money, height, social status or job.
Depending on a woman fertility cycle and her status (If poor or wealthy) it can determine her choice in mates. For example most females like tall, musclebound guys with thug personalities and bling if they are from the ghetto. Keep in mind women like the FEELING they get from the guys muscles and height. THEY don't truly care about it like how we men truly love boobs and ass.
Highter status wealthy women that are in heat or have a higher sex drive also go for the alpha male primal badboy. Keep in mind women like the FEELING they get from the guys muscles and height. THEY don't truly care about it like how we men truly love boobs and ass.
Women that aren't in heat but are well off go for high ranking beta males that emotionally turn them on. This male needs materials such as money, a car and a nice job along with social status in order to attract the female.
Even every Gag guy on this site got their girlfriends by being a solid beta male provider or a rare alpha male. The omega males (scrawny short guys with no friends or social status on this site have no girlfriend) So what is the take away? Women as you can see literally only like the feeling they get from a guys muscles and height. The love his social status, wealth, car, house, social status and actions.
We males can NOT be loved simply for exist like women. Women just have to exist and BOOM a few guys love them. Now women will try to debate this by saying they love a man's personality. WEll guess what ladies? I'm not my personality or social status. I am my blood and flesh and you ladies don't love my blood and flesh. You love that which surrounds me.
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49 59Brother you have chosen some really strange words for this mytake like "Heat" man Humanoid bitches have menstrual cycle instead of Esterous-cycle and they don't have concept of standing heat.
You can't say personality isn't part of you loll it literally defines who you are as a person! Older men with good hands are a turn on, but I'm not dating him unless he's got a nice personality.
It does defined the person, but I think he meant it doesn't define a person's sex though. Like its the physical, and our bodies that differentiate with the sexes. And why he feels male attraction is more direct because it's the physical of women, which biology is the main difference and essence. Status, wealth and behviour can overlap with the sexes. But what doesn't is the born, features, sex organs, secondary body parts that show female compared to male and how men are crazy for them while he feels women less so toward the physical that makes a male, a male. There are feminine men right? They are still male though, because biology. But regardless, his writing was weird and I think he misses the point of women are quite attracted to men physically, there's just more to it than the physical.
Hahaha love this cop out s#*t. The reason why those people were successful is not cause they're "alpha" or whatever its probably cause they didn't allow stupid pseudo psychology to define them. Seriously dude believing this garbage is toxic for society.
"I'm not my personality"
You just sound angry at women. I can’t take this seriously. Sorry.
Congratulations, this is the stupidest thing I've read on here today. Quite an accolade!
More like men love superficial things, and women are looking out for their own best interests.
Anyways, women don't really care about looks. I'm tall and that does nothing at all for me. Women primarily want a guy who makes them feel special, and secondary to that, a guy who's stability an dependability indicate he could be a strong provider. Short of that, nothing else about you really matters that much.
Men look for eye candy, they're attracted to any semblance of beauty at first sight. Their instinct is to try to screw and run, or land an attractive long-term partner who can bare his children and hold down a fort. Nothing else really matters about a woman that much to men.
The cruelty of the human dating ritual cuts in both directions. We are basically evolved primates, what do you expect.
Most couple i see men look better
So... Your personality isn’t who you are?
That doesn’t make sense to me but okay.
The last paragraph was the nail in the coffin for me. Nicely written mytake, but I can’t take you seriously 😂😂😂
I hope you catch all the women you want in life. You might sound a little less butthurt.
Someone PLEASE throw Mister @Jennifer_32 some pussy!!!
For the culture!!!
"for the culture" 💀💀💀
It’s easy to give yourself reasons as to why you shouldn’t pursue a woman versus doing it no matter what the odds are.
Women are just people. Some will like you. Some won’t. That’s life.
In some contexts this is true. Women who were not educated in character or spirituality - and when I say this I do not necessarily mean it in a religious sense - and especially women who were left to their own devices (not literally technology, although that certainly can and does play a part in it) while they were growing up, largely match the repeat offender profile you describe, yes.
Women are often emptier than men and are constantly looking for what they perceive will fill the void in themselves and give their lives any kind of excitement or joy, which is why many go after those kinds of things in men that you detailed. And is also why women complain the most about needing "a change" in their lives. Why they end relationships the most. Why they divorce the most. Why they cut people out the most. Why they get bored the most. Lose interest the most. And change temperatures the most. Many women are not content inside themselves because they lack self-education and spiritual satisfaction. So they go after all these kinds of things for men until even that isn't enough anymore.
Women of pure happiness, intentions, and sincere passion for men are few I believe.
It’s called biology and natural selection. Women want a strong partner that can protect and provide for her and their offspring as he raises them.
Women in childbearing years are biologically more valuable than men.
True. But at 40 years of age of man's accumulated wealth he is way more valuable
Do you really think all that is going in in dating, in your own selections, is Darwinism, natural selection, etc? If so, it's a rather sad indictment of humanity.
But at that point what's the difference between you and a prostitute? And maybe you should consider the very distinct possibility that some men don't wanna spend the better half of their lives babysitting dead weight? Protect and provide? Is that all you care about? What a load of bullshit. What self respecting man would ever want to be with a woman who only sees him as a glorified guard dog/ATM machine? Seriously all this mentality shows is that, you're the type of woman that's only looking out for herself. And i'm pretty sure the men you find attractive can do much better then someone with a mentality like that.
@up_64 like I said women in child bearing years are biologically more valuable. Men don’t lose their biological value like women do.
@Levin I don’t, but this take was so simplistic this was the best answer I could give.
@Malik00 what does a prostitute have to do with it? I was talking about basic biology. This was such a simplified my take I had to give such a simplified answer. Strong and being able to provide has many meanings, you seem triggered by it. I’m not talking about a six pack dude with a yacht and castle. Strong is someone genetically compatible and healthy aka your genes and hers would make healthy offspring, and being able to provide means the same as for some animals whilst the woman is birthing and taking care of the young the male guards her and brings her food. Funny how people always jump to conclusion without asking anymore questions. I’m always the first to stand up for men and their issues. I’m just stating simplified biological facts and I get jumped. I’m suprised no woman has said anything about the biological value in childbearing years yet 😂
Because that issue can easily be repaired with modern tech. A 60 year old woman can still have a child very reliably these days
No she can't you moron
@up_64 people.com/.../
Bite me ya dumb ass prick.
@Malik00 it’s still uncommon. But yes science and technology will change the way we reproduce even more in the future.
@Malik00 you are right trust me, she’s a fool don’t even waste your time.
@Aphrodite801 so you don’t think there is such a thing as biology and natural selection?
Which is just a fancy way of saying survival of the fittest which is a rather barbaric mindset to have
I think that what you said is ignorant and false. Who tf refers to reproduction as “biological value”. You are wording everything wrong and dumb.
Like seriously you don’t know what you’re talking about. “Childbearing years” never ends with age. 100 y. o women have birthed babies. The production of eggs ends at a certain age, which is different for all women.
@Aphrodite801 oh boy time for you to redo high school biology. Being attracted to someone has everything to do with genetics and biology.
No it doesn’t, but from the dumb shit you said to me on that other post, I’m not surprised you think this dumb shit about biology either. Never again will I communicate with you or see your comments.
@Aphrodite801 okay kiddo 👌
So you basically just admitted to being a shallow tool who only cares about physical appearances and what people can provide you. Good to know.
@Malik00 physical attraction is always shallow. Few people have no preferences whatsoever. The way someone looks is important. I could not be attracted to an obese smoking man that is my dads age.
@Malik00 by the way I didn’t make it past the first couple of sentences of this mytake. He is victimizing himself, this answer is just directed at that. Biology doesn’t predispose women to go after millionaires or supermodels. If a man is healthy and seems fit (doesn’t equal a 6 pack) that is considered attractive by the majority of women. No men don’t need a lot of money, but a man showing stability in his life, such as having a stable job is unconsciously attractive because that shows he is dependable. For women that would translate into women that have stable relationships and friendships, it indicates she is mentally stable enough and most likely a decent person.
Then why is it that when men expect women to not be mired in baggage and personal issues it's all of a sudden considered sexist to expect a woman to be a partner and not a princess?
I get he sounds really whiny but he's not wrong. Why is it ok for women to completely forgo traditional societal roles, but when men try to do the same suddenly we aren't considered manly?
Start meeting women somewhere else or at least just looking for that perfect one with the perfect huge ass tits and JLo ass!
She is beautiful on her exterior. I wonder what her personality is like as for me I go for that too
Accurate post
Please get therapy.
Good Irish girl.
Was there a question in there somewhere?
Geez. I keep seeing her. She's tugging at my loins. Sexual Harassment!!!
Haha you’re trying to pass off your shallow appreciation of only one part of a human being (their physical body) as more sincere and complete, than others’ appreciation for whole human beings with all of the multifaceted complexities that they entail! That’s just not very rational. 😄
because men are "visual creatures" du-uh!
Sad but true
This is interesting because I was just thinking about this. I'm conflicted I'm highly attracted to one guys looks, but when I get to know him , I start to see things that don't turn me on. I was thinking a lot of people especially guys tell me physical attraction is important. You have to be attracted to the looks. This leaves me confused as to what I'm really looking for or what I need. It's very confusing to be a woman to know what really makes you happy. I've been in the dating scene for long now and I still don't know what it is that I need. I'll find one guys personality is good we connect on a level but the looks are not attracting me. This was much easier when I was younger , where I fell in love with a guy solely based on looks.
This take was garbage tbh. As I said, you can't generalize half of the earth. Yeah, some girls are exactly like that, but have you ever met a woman before? Listen, they're practically just dudes with pussies. That's it. I know that you have a "nice guy" mentality, but if you're living life without money, fame, good looks, rippling muscles, sick tats, but have a great personality, your personality might not be as good as you may think. This post truly shows that.
What if you were arguing with a chick that was saying shit like "guys just want girls with big tits, are a 8+/10, big ass, hourglass figure, big lips, tight pussy" and you would obviously refute that, right? I mean, all men have preferences right? There are guys that might even PREFER a flat chested girl? Or someone more on the curvy side (aka. THICC as FUCK dawg!)? Don't care about how fair their skin is. Someone that truly loves them on the inside. They exist right? WELL GUESS WHAT FUCKO? IT WORKS THE OTHER WAY ROUND TOO! As I said, women are (generally) just people with a pussy plug, or a penis pocket. All women want different things. They aren't a puzzling alien race that you "figured out" they're just like everyone else. The problem is that you obviously don't see women as an equal in human behavior to you.
Shitty women that only value those things you listed exist, but so do people that are sexually aroused by being mugged. They exist, but really control a very small percent of the human population of 7 billion. I think you're overcomplicating things a bit. Just treat them the way you want yourself to be treated, and if they don't treat you right, be a grownup and talk to them and improve the relationship or move on.