Men: of you regularly sexy with a woman you know, do you generally have some romantic feelings for her or not?

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dac91 Xper 4
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No matter what the situation everyone catches some kind of feeling even if it's just sexual
There are definitely feelings involved but it depends on the circumstances and why it's just the way it is
You have to be able to keep things separate
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- Asker
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  Just sexual? How does that work?

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OlderAndWiser Editor
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I don't have sex with any women unless I feel some romantic affection for her.
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- Asker
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  It’s the most sensible option, I’m sure.
- OlderAndWiser
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  It leads to fewer regrets.

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boggboss Master
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No lol simply means he is getting he rocks off lol don't mean he likes her
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- Asker
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  How do you even get off to someone you don’t even like? That’s a turn off surely!
- boggboss
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  There is a difference between finding someone attractive and having feelings for them
- Asker
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  Not for me, or many women. It’s all the same. We don’t feel that attracted just because they’re good looking. We’re not going to be so vulnerable with someone who’s horrible but good looking - never!
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- boggboss
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  Then that good that you know that but it dont work that way for most guys
- boggboss
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  And many women actually as many these days do hookups which is purely based on lust
- Asker
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  Yeah they do because they go against their own natural instincts in hope of getting more with guys, only to feel depressed, guilty and used after. I’ve heard all the woe after those kinds of experiences from women.
- boggboss
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  Yet I have also heard from women that have said they enjoy the freedom of not being attached to a relationship so I don't think its something everyone feels
- Asker
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  I mean they say that and convince themselves of it, but when they meet someone they cruelly like that all changes. A lot of people have commitment issues that they bury in denial with excuses of other things too, I’m convinced that’s a lot more common than people would like to let on.
- Asker
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  *really like
- boggboss
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  Thats a fair enough though but I doubt thats how most are some people simply enjoy playing the field and not wanting anything long term but meh we can agree to disagree but yeah a guy sexting don't mean he wants more
- Asker
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  Fair enough
Skankhunt Xper 6
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No, I don't. I have to feel something for her, I want to feel connected before I have sex with someone, otherwise it's meaningless.
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pizzalovershouse Master
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For me its in a relationship i feel close to them
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jasco Guru
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depends if she's around my age her not, if not then no just fwbs if yes then maybe
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Twalli Master
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I won't 3sex without dating, so always
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andy530 Guru
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Not necessarily
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- Asker
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  How is it possible to get off to someone you don’t like? Would you really put effort into that when you could probably do it better yourself?
- andy530
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  I wouldn’t say it’s that you don’t like them it’s just that the connection you have is purely sexual and nothing really more
- Asker
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  So how does that work then, you mean just physically attracted? I have to like someone to the point that I see romantic potential with them to even feel sexually attracted to them? I’d honestly have a better time pleasuring myself than trying to get off with someone I’m not mentally and physically attracted to. Just physically attracted isn’t enough to create sexual attraction. And just mentally without physical attraction is just friendship. For me there has to be both.
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- andy530
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  I think many people feel the same way you do. I think it is just how we all experience attraction and sexual arousal a little differently
- Asker
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  Yeah. By “many” are you referring to mostly women, men or both?
- andy530
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  Both men and women
- Asker
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  Got you
- andy530
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  Yep 👍🏻 we are all just different
Valnac Guru
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It could happen!
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REDHOTLINE Yoda
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Of course yes...
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- Asker
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  Yeah that is the only thing that makes sense to me. So why do some guys say no? Do they have a deep seated denial of commitment issues etc?
- REDHOTLINE
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  I dont know that is theirs own decisions.