Men over 30, have you ever taken a grown woman’s virginity (as a grown man)?

I ask because if I ever do lose it, I’ll probably be around 30 or older. If you have taken a grown woman’s virginity while you were also a grown man (nothing creepy here), what was it like? Were you accepting? Did you believe her? Were you gentle?

Also, this isn't religiously related at all.
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  • Took the following women’s virginity in the last 2 years. I don’t like doing it with girls that are young.

    She was 29, it was a Halloween party Met her there and sort of hit it off at the club we were at, she said she was still virgin during foreplay, I didn’t really say anything to her about it, I gave her the chance to be the one on top but she didn’t want, I tried 2 attempts at a gentler one but between her being very nervous and mine being big sized it didn’t happen, then as I got into position for the 3rd I decided she just will need to feel some pain and I put more strength to it. The first stroke was quite deep and I only did a full insert into her twice after that it was thrust till it was over. I did cuddle her after that for a short while.

    The second woman was 36, met her off tinder, she is a bigger sized girl and she was waiting for marriage but had changed her mind, it was the 5th date and we had gone on an overnight trip. I did a longer foreplay with her and the first stroke into her was gentler and very shallow but the second stroke was a bit harder where most of mine went into her. I didn’t fully insert into her though.

    The third, she is 32, never had a boyfriend, she kind of like the 2nd is a big sized girl, however the difference is she was already my girlfriend when we first did it and the foreplay was twice as long and she wanted me to put it into her and used her feet and arms to pull me into her, it still went in gentler into her but with her because she is a girlfriend I did a full insert. She enjoyed her first time.

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  • No - the two virgins I was with were teenagers. But even then, I knew that it was in both of our best interests if I made it a good experience for her. I'm a strategic thinker - I don't just focus exclusively in the moment as many people do - so I'm less likely to do things selfishly.

    Sex is definitely something that can bring out the selfishness in men, even to men who aren't very selfish in everyday life, so it's also important that your guy has good morals and values and shows that he cares about your experience and feelings. He should be able to communicate those things to do, on his own, before it happens. If you don't choose a guy like that, then the chances that he's going to put your needs ahead of his your first time will be much lower.

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  • I have not, no.

    The last time I took a woman's virginity, I was much younger. Never after the age of 20, let alone 30.

    • Ok but if you're single rn, and a woman said she was a virgin, how would you react?

    • I am single, right now, actually. I really don't place a lot of importance on virginity, so if she told me, then I may be slightly surprised, but not overly so. If she said she wanted to lose it to me, then I would certainly be flattered, but only slightly more so than when any woman I care for wanted to sleep with me.

    • No offense but that last part makes you sound super jaded. I get you’ve done it all but where is the excitement when sleeping or dating someone new? Id feel like sh*t if the guy I lost my v too didn't really care. I feel like you should care in healthy way.

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  • Never anyone over 30. Several 18, 19, and in 20s.

    • I meant when you were a grown man though. And if you're implying that you're super creepy, please keep that bs away from me

    • Was not trying to be creepy. Was merely saying that I've had sex with several virgins but none were, as you asked, over the age of 30.

  • Never ever! sure would like to try one, at least once.

  • no i have not. but it's not a problem. i'm not religious. i really don't care about virginity. i just don't want a partner who already has children. if she's a virgin, obviously i'm gonna be careful. it's a bit hard to believe if she's 30 and hot. but when i decide to be with a woman, i decide to trust her. because without trust, i have no interest in doing anything with her. so i trust untill she demonstrates that she can't be trusted.

  • I've taken the virginity of several partners. They were all adults. What do you consider to be a grown woman?

    • Why are men having a hard time figuring our what a grown woman is?….

    • Because it's arbitrary.

  • I'm still a virgin.

  • I was accepting and very gentle, I took a woman virginity like almost a year now, she was actually gorgeous and never understood while she was still a virgin

  • I took my wife's virginity when I was 30, she was 20. I took It real slow but still got my penis covered in blood. after that I brought her and me to a fantastic orgasm. Then I sucked her pussy clean. Her first time was the best.

    • If you reas my post, you know her being 20 doesn't count. You were too busy gettjng off on the thought of you fucking a 20 yr old

    • True, fucking a young pussy like that is the best feeling ever.

  • No I haven't

  • No, and you will have problems unless the guy you find is through God. I don't mean through religion or Churches, but through seeking his assistance and discernment. There are new dangers out there few are even aware about too and most of the collective is ego driven and lost. The few that aren't are only likely to be found through God.

  • I guess it depends on what you’d consider a grown woman. I’ve taken the virginity of a 26 year old and a 24 year old. I absolutely believed her, as I don’t think she’d have a reason to lie about that.

    • I meant 30+ for grown woman. Since I said thats the age I might lose it if I do at all. And I also meant you taking it as a grown man

    • Gotcha. I was 30 when I took both of those virginities, but never a woman in her 30’s.. at least not yet.