I know there are far more important things in life than getting laid. However, when you see almost every one around you getting sent to cloud 9, you wonder what it is that you are lacking.
Like a Mother bird sending her young off into the world, your boys stand with you in social settings rooting for you. They send you off, to explore the field. They're chanting for you!
They have hope that you will laid. Yes, tonight getting pussy is your goal!
You managed to catch a few girls attention but instead your efforts lead to you standing all alone in a corner, as you watch your boys disappear into the night with the women they intend to go home with.
Constantly being rejected, allows you to grow frustrated.
You eventually formulate a negative opinion about women inside of your mind.
"They're so stuck up"
"They're snobby"
"Perhaps, I have to be a rich man and then I'll get laid"
"Women are so superficial, If I were a knock out I'd be going home with women left and right".
These are all negative view points about women that do not fail to circulate in your mind.
Each and every time you face rejection, you add to the negativity in your mind about women, and your perception of them.
Please, allow me to look closely at your situation.
Women, aren't the problem it is you!
If almost every one around you, is able to pull the stunt off of being able to catch women and you aren't, you have to take a good look at yourself.
You are the common denominator of every situation.
The results always ends with you walking off by yourself.
It's easy to blame other people for not being able to get what you want and
far too difficult to admit that you need to work on yourself.
Men, who can't get laid,
If you're lacking in confidence level, trust me it shows in your demeanor.
Work on the energy you give off to others.
If you present yourself as unsure or insecure chances are the person
you are talking to will want nothing to do with you.
Work on the way you talk to women, and take care of your appearance so you can
look decent and presentable.
-Wear flattering clothes
-Get a haircut or fix your hair
-Work out to improve your self confidence level.
(Chances are when you feel better, you do better).
Stop attempting to take the easy way out by visiting brothels or seeing prostitutes.
It only makes you feel better temporarily but it never fixes the problem.
You'll still have trouble with women in general.
What Girls & Guys Said
2 23'Men, who can't get laid,
If you're lacking in confidence level, trust me it shows in your demeanor.
Work on the energy you give off to others.
If you present yourself as unsure or insecure chances are the person
you are talking to will want nothing to do with you.
Work on the way you talk to women, and take care of your appearance so you can
look decent and presentable.
-Wear flattering clothes
-Get a haircut or fix your hair
-Work out to improve your self confidence level.'
What about if you're doing all these things and you still can't get what you want?
Basically everything is the guy's fault
So what about guys with 0 experience in dating? How are we supposed to be confident?
Confidence comes with experience, but I can't get experience if all the girls seek someone that is already confident and has experience.
Actually, confidence comes from the way someone feels about themselves. If you look to others, for a boost in self esteem you'll be sadly disappointed. I personally know, that excelling my career, exercising, being productive, self grooming makes me feel good enough to approach others.
People can have years of experience and be the most un-confident person out there. Confidence has nothing to do with how many people you've approached in your life.
Experience can "enhance" confidence. It cannot "create" it.
@YourFutureEx You get it! The core of confidence comes from self. Everything after, only adds to it.
The thing is, I see all these guys who already have experience and that gives them an edge over me. Even when I do approach I can't help but think that some guy who isn't a virgin would have a higher chance of success simply because he already knows what to do in the bedroom. I give off this confident vibe but all the girls I've approached were either too shy, had boyfriends or were looking for a guy that's "6 feet 2 inches, muscular and with plenty of past experiences".