"Men used to get sex easily long long time ago" let's say this is true statement, then what would be your theory to prove it?

I am talking about the time before we became civilized or maybe at the start of of the civilization. Your answer could be just a theory or your understanding based on whatever knowledge you have about it.
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  • I don't think that quote is "true" at all, but let's look at a few examples.

    The vast majority of human existence on the Earth predated organized societies as we would think of them today, which only go back roughly 10,000 years. Humans have been a distinct species for 500,000-750,000 years or so, and there were humaniod species (that predated homo sapiens) for 2M or so years, according to the best scientific knowledge we currently have.

    Prior to civilization, humans were hunter-gatherers, and had to follow the food to survive, which meant migrating with the changes in seasons for most. Only the strong survived - weak men (either physically or mentally) simply couldn't survive, and the group/tribe usually couldn't afford to coddle them, as they lived too close to the edge of survival themselves. Women during these times were important to survival, and most men had one or two (women would sometimes be stolen, or would be gained if two groups had a battle and one group's men was wiped out). In this case, yes, men could "get sex easily" because they had a woman (or perhaps a couple) and sex was a normal part of life.

    Civilization became possible around 10,000 years ago, when agriculture was beginning to be mastered, allowing people to stay in the same place year-round. All cities formed around rivers, because clean, fresh water was vital to civilization. Languages began to expand, written languages were created, and rules were created to keep society running more smoothly. Women played a role in the creation of those rules even if they didn't have direct "voting power" - they would convince their men to implement rules make sure the women were protected. Marriage was created to formalize relationships, and the vast majority of men and women were married (not always formally, but came together to partner to get through life). Again, yes, men could "easily" get sex from their woman. SOME men - such as sailors who often didn't marry or soldiers who might have married but spent years away from home - certainly would get sex from other women in the places they were - prostitution was a common way for unpaired women to survive. There weren't a lot of singles bars, though.

    Prior to the Dark Ages that followed the collapse of the Roman Empire, you had a few strong civilizations in Europe, Asia, and north Africa, but much of the rest of the world was uncivilized. If you happened to live in one of these civilizations, though, you'd recognize some societal rules and hierarchies that would seem familiar today. There would be more choices available for partners, and so there would be more competition. Then, as now, men near the top of this competition would have little trouble getting sex from women (with or without marriage), and the other men would either have to attract a wife or would have to go to prostitutes - "single women" knew they needed marriage to survive, so they rarely had sex outside of marriage (by choice), and most didn't make enough money to visit prostitutes - the vast majority of people were very poor. These same rules were largely reestablished with the Renaissance as law and order was reestablished after 600 years of chaos.

    Things didn't change significantly until the Industrial Revolution in the 19th Century, which allowed the population to expand greatly, and drew far more people into the cities. This was the beginning of our modern way of living, though much of it would still seem quite primitive to most of us today. With so many people living it cities, it was possible for poor people to see how rich people lived (which wasn't nearly as common in rural areas), and this really caused competition and class warfare - keep in mind there was no middle class.

    • Even still, most men had to be married to get sex. A small percentage of the working class could afford prostitutes, and the ruling elite could afford mistresses, but the vast majority of men would only have access to their own wives, IF they could attract one - though most could because, again, it was so difficult that most women could not survive alone. The next big change was post-WWII - the technological age. We had massive breakthroughs in technology and medicine and industry and many other areas all in a very short amount of time. We also had Radical Feminism starting in the 1960s, which encouraged women to be sexually free. The main result of this was that hypergamy kicked into overdrive, and the top men could get all the sex they wanted from nearly any girl they wanted without ever having to commit, while the bottom half of men (growing to closer to 70% today) were largely ignored by women, with nearly a third of all 25-year-odl men being virgins today. The top 10% of men win big, and pretty much everyone else loses big-time because of this.

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  • Well for me I can't think back that far LOL I can only think back as far as when I started doing it
    When I was seventeen I can get into clubs and that means there is a lot of older women there
    Not every time but most of every time that I would go into a club I can leave with a woman

    And I know for a fact that if I was still that same person I could do the same thing and believe me I thought about it many times here in the last past year year-and-a-half
    Because I'm not in a relationship and I'm fucking hornier than fuck I have a lot of passion and desire that I want to share because it is good and I can take somebody to the moon and back at least a couple times and I enjoy doing that
    The downside of it is is I don't want to hurt anybody by walking away and I don't want to use anybody not message on a mutual agreement and we both know understand what the rules are
    And they are we're here to fuck each other's brains out no more no less for the whole night until the next morning until we both say it's time to go
    And if we both agree on other arrangements more power to it I love it did I forget what happened at the beginning of time LOL I just remember what happened when on the 17 years old to this day

    So I know for a fact that if I want a great great sex you could be just like long long time ago all I got to do is put myself out there and I will make it happen but like I said there's rules and you have to respect those rules

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  • My theory is that men fight a lot and died from it.
    So there were more women for the remaining guys.
    I guess this is why some cultures allow polygamy.

    • So someone understood the meaning of "let's say it's a true statement" 😂

    • After the Titanic disaster, you imagine if they all landed on an isolated island. Many guys would have been lucky then... The "save women first" policy is good for the guys yelling it from a safe boat :)

  • My boyfriend gets it pretty easily considering time etc. but how long ago are u talking

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  • Jordan peterson said in one of his podcast that,
    "This might be the time when we witness the maximum population"
    He is a psychologist and he is a popular one

    • I don't understand how is that related to what i asked

    • He stated some facts... but I think you should search for them on YT because they can be harsh...

    • And I don't want to state them here because he is actually against feminism... please dont judge me on this one

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  • That's totally untrue, there was extreme reproductive bias throughout human history, particularly thousands of years ago in some oldest societies.
    The top men, on average, had children with approximately 20 different women, whereas most of the other males didn't get to mate at all.

  • read Clan of the Cave Bear it's all laid out there, men just took sex whenever they wanted it

  • Because rape didn't exist before we was civilised I guess

  • Well look how many of us humans are running around in the world, it's obvious both genders thrived with sexual intercourse before, I'm sure women looked for men and men looked for women, now men gotta be the ones looking for women lol

  • The 70s and 80s were a great time.
    The time of free love.
    It was a lot less work getting laid then than now.
    For me it was more uncommon not to come home with someone vs coming home alone.
    It was the same for women, since it took two people.

  • When you don't know what causes diseases, and you aren't forced into rearing or paying for a child you create, its a lot less scary to have sex. So of course sex would have come way easier. I'm not sure though how far back that was, best we can do is guess.

  • The continually increasing population over time is a pretty good hint.

  • i can "assume this was true". i can't make up aguments for a thing that is wrong that i'm just assuming to be true xD

    • Why not. Sometimes when you are fighting with someone and you know you are wrong still you try to agrue somehow 😂

    • well then i'd say men earn money. they can afford prostitutes xD so men can have sex easier. there's almost no male prostitutes.

    • or maybe cause there was no law enforement on rape xD

  • I don't think this has ever been true at any point in history. Certainly not of all men. What has happened is that there were times when specific groups of men would get sex easily. And it was always very small groups of men, while there were simultaneously large groups who couldn't get it at all.

  • According to old Indian story a very very very long time ago women were not used to cover their breasts just as men as it was hot perhaps maybe like the temperature lol.

    And a women could freely have sex with whomsoever she wish to..

    And this was after civilisations were built if you see any temple or architecture of those days it's never shown women covering their breasts.


    And women would need not explain as well.

    So the story continues the lady has sex with a guy becomes mom and the kid used to see his mom with his dad as he grew and was becoming a saint/ Rishi ..

    Once he saw his mom having sex with someone else and it baffled him so days past by then he saw her with another man.

    He got frustrated then he came up with concept of monogamy and the holly marraige

    The end

  • Maybe before the whole civilization thing. Women were actually used as war loot for both reproduction and slavery. and I can imagine how women would have died to fuck with the alpha male of their pack, it would have provided the best protection from other males of the pack

  • You mean back when it was socially acceptable. To whack you in head with my club and drag you off to my cave bye your hair for some long hours eating your sweet sex?

  • Social standards were much much different and the way people were treated was also way way different.

    Compared to today a lot of it was probably more forced socially. Not all but a lot of sexual encounters were probably much less acceptable

  • probably a lot more rape or more horny girls that want to have babies. Either of those could be factors, depending on how far back we are going

  • Men still get sex easy. Most guys just don’t know what they are doing and overthink or make it super awkward…but at the end of the day women want to fuck as much as men they just want to be pursued and respected.

  • Less male population

  • Absolutely poppycock

  • Yeah it used to be as easy as walking up to a girl naked. as i understand it.

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