Men wearing bras and wearing feminine clothes?

[mwkalp]

what do women think about men wearing bras and more feminine clothes? I am a man age 31 who likes to where bras and other pieces of women's clothes and make up in the privacy of my house and without my wife knowing which she has caught me a couple times and threatens to divorce me. but it's really hard for me to stop thinking about it and doing it. she already lets me where mens bikini underwear so why can't she understand or be okay with it

[Anonymous]

I don't care if a guy wants to wear a bra and wear girl clothes. That is totally fine.
But I wouldn't date a guy like that, simply because I'm not attracted to it.
It's possible your wife is afraid that your desire to wear a bra means that you want to be a crossdresser or want to be transgendered - and again, if you do want to change genders or crossdress, that is totally fine, but if it's something she's not attracted to, it's not going to work out.
She's also probably upset that you are keeping some sort of secret from her - did you tell her of this desire to wear bras before you married her? or is the desire recent?

[ClassyB_tch]

Do what makes you happy :) I honestly don't see why it matters. What you do with your own time is your own business. It isn't hurting anyone. Ignore any comments on this that are negative. You don't live to please these idiots on this site. If you're happy doing it, I don't see a problem!

[harakiri]

That is a huge secret to keep... I would be furious if my spouse deceived me that way. You should do whatever you want- but you cannot lie about what you're into, get caught, and then expect everyone to be okay with it. A divorce seems apt.

[Plato]

I don't know if you're doing drag style, but I think it's ballsy and awesome if you're confident in it. I always saw confident drag-queens as masculine, yet something new, alien, but exotic and awesome. They're stronger than me when I come to think of it, because they can do it without shame. That's ballsy.

[Adenn]

Talk to her and ask her why she has a problem with it. I asked my wife, hypothetically, what she would do if she came in and saw me wearing her bra or panties. She said she would laugh her ass off but wouldn't care.

[MysteryPerson70]

so you own an ass? do you live like in the middle east? do you rife it much?

[menina]

Don't get me wrong, but she's not comfortable with this idea. Maybe, she wants you to stop. I understand why she's upset.

[hottchristity]

Im sure she well understand if u tell her (:

[AdamThomas]

Women like men who are masculine. If they wanted someone who wore bras and make up they'd be lesbian.

[MysteryPerson70]

wrong, that would be a sodomite

[billmunch]

I love wearing women's clothes: hose panites, dresses, skirts bras. I own more women's clothes than men's. In public, i dress as a man but at home, as a woman. i also shave all my body hair.

[TheCanuck]

If you want to do such things, that's your prerogative!

[Anonymous]

sounds like you're a transvestite (crossdresser). The bra thing bothers me a little, like if they have cups why would you want to wear that? They're so uncomfortable, men are lucky not to have to wear them. I can see why she has a problem with it, but it's a pretty common thing. But I think you should do what you want to do. Maybe talk to someone about it.

[humanearth]

I tried a bra for a gag a few times. They are truly uncomfortable, hot and bothersome. I don't see a reason for even a woman to wear them stupid things. They had to be invented by a man

[Anonymous]

Lol.. That's very weird. I don't like it when men do that, I can't consider someone a 'man' who does that to be honest. You must be going trough something right now, otherwise I'd see a therapist or talk to someone about it.

[Anonymous]

I don't mean to be rude, but I'd probably be weirded out if I walked in my guy's apartment and he was wearing a bra and make-up. I mean, he tried on my yoga pants once for his own entertainment because I kept saying how comfortable they were, but it was different because we were both laughing.

Your wife probably doesn't understand that you're a cross dresser and wants you to stop...