Men, what makes you want to have sex with a woman?

I’ve gone out with men and some of them looked at me lustfully and others seemed like they’ve just didn’t want sex at all.
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  • If I find her sufficiently attractive, we have good chemistry and, most importantly, I feel she is into me.
    I don't really get turned on by a woman unless I feel she is reciprocating, if we are flirting and she is responding and seems to want it to continue or in some other way indicates that she is ok with me being attracted to her or even desiring her sexually, then it's safe to say I would probably want her.

    This lack of reciprocity is the most likely to put me off.
    If she is giving me mixed signals, or is too shy/awkward then I may assume that she is just not that into me.

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  • Looks are obviously a factor, but you'd probably be surprised how low that bar can be for most men - not crazy low, but not as high as many women imagine. For some guys, looks is enough, but for me and for a lot of guys, looks is just a part - the other big part is her enthusiasm for being with me. She needs to have a positive attitude and we need to feel like she wants us. Between those two things, most guys will go for it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Every man is different. For me, women are like a magnificent dessert: I just want to indulge. I was a very young (under 18) man seduced by a much older woman. When I saw her naked, my head was spinning, never mind my dick- a young guys dick gets hard FAST. Nevertheless, from that moment on I've been obsessed with women: white, black, brown, Asian- it makes no difference.

  • Well pretty much if the girl I'm with starts licking any part of me above the neck that would pretty much do it for me. But I don't have sex until after a third date. This is because I only date women I consider worthy of marriage and if we have sex too soon she might get the impression I only want her for a booty call and I don't want her to think that.

  • Nature I guess?
    Reproduction is how humans survive and so I was made to want women no matter what.

  • The main sexual attraction is in the mind, and if I feel a connection, and she is friendly and caring, I will be sexually drawn to her. And not every guy who wants in your pants, will let you know.

  • There has to be an attraction. She has to be physically pretty and have a presence that makes me take notice of her.

  • your behaviour, your manners, and as a person with hosiery kink, tights

  • It depends if you fancy each other whether you want to have sex or not 😉

  • Love

  • When a woman is attractive to me. And I'm NOT just talking about her appearance.

  • Her looks and my level of hornyness

  • Her sexy body, nice smell, nice attractive voice, totally sex woman...

  • A sexy body

  • We find her attractive

  • guys wouldn't go out with you in the first place if they didn't want it. They just weren't good at conveying it I guess.

  • How she looks

    • depending on will they able to make u spread ur legs wider to bang u... if they think u r out of their league then they don't try otherwise would bang u

    • @ashish804 They will want to but know they won’t have a chance. That’s different.

    • yeahh... then they don't try and would try on girls they can bang easily and who is ready to get fucked

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