Men, when you sexually desire a woman and objectify her, do you someone see her as less “human”?


Trying to understand exactly what goes through a man’s head when he desires a woman, as I suspect things are different from a woman’s perspective.
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  • If you hear that someone you don’t really know has died suddenly and unexpectedly, you might feel empathy for the people who are grieving. You might pause and appreciate your health and/or security or think to yourself that it could happen to you. But it doesn’t ruin your day.

    A random, sexually desirable person is no less human than anyone else. But like the person who died, you don’t necessarily have deep thoughts about their hopes and dreams, what they’ve been through, or who they love and who loves them. It doesn’t diminish their humanity, but it doesn’t really affect you, either.

    That all changes if you know the person. This is why—for me—I don’t want to have a sexual experience without first having closeness. Actual sex is deeply personal to me. So, without a human connection, a desirable woman may get noticed, but that’s about it.

    • I love the way you explained this. 🙌

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  • I don't think I "objectify" girls. I respect them and their wishes. If I can see they're uncomfortable with me looking at them, I don't. When I see a girl with a lot of skin showing andnshe has a nice ass or nice body proportions, I just think I'm attracted and would fuck her if she let me. But again... I don't think of that as objectifying because the girl clearly wants that kind of attention if they dress like that.

    • “ the girl clearly wants that kind of attention if they dress like that.” Hmm what if she’s young and just following the latest fashion trend?

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  • No but I'm very careful about that. I have found that the women I've been with like that kind of being lusted after.

  • Don’t objectify

    if anything I see her as elevated

  • I don't objectify women. I make it a point to see a woman as a whole package.

  • Nope. Just more complete.

  • Hell...
    No she is human..

    But when we have objectify girls.. We think she is not human and like Goddess

  • Yes, they surely are.
    Women connect emotionally.
    Guys connect physically.
    This isn't to say guys don't have emotions, it's just that they're not anything like yours.
    A man's sexual desire for you is his expression of love and desire. It's very basic, and all driven by the T.

  • Your answer is in your question. Sometimes a guy will objectify a woman and by definition that’s seeing her as not human. Is bet sometimes women feel the same about men.

    • Not really. Things that sexually arouses us in men are not always physical. Things like charisma, humor, confidence can turn us on. In other words, personality traits.

    • Really trying to understand this. Many women can not feel sexual attraction to a weak-minded but good-looking man. But I gather you can desire a woman regardless of what her personality is like? Trying to see it through your point of view. Can you be sexually attracted to non-physical things, or is it mostly physical?

    • So as I originally said both men and women can be sexually attracted to each other without ever saying a word. We both said the same thing: not always. This is how two drunk people at a bar can go bang it out in the parking lot within 10 minutes of meeting each other; it’s not his humor that caused her to get turned on it was his body. Yes women can watch Magic Mike and feel sexual desire. But I get your larger point and yes there obviously are differences between men and women. in my opinion women will within 30 seconds or less judge a man and either put him into the ‘friendship’ bucket or sexually potential bucket. If he’s in the sexual bucket then those attributes you described like humor and confidence will increase that sexual tension for her. But the classic example is if you meet a 600 pound smelly unkempt man no amount of humor or charisma is going to get him out of that friendship bucket upon initial impression. So I think women still judge based on looks initially as that’s all you can before he opens his mouth to speak.

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  • Just because you find someone sexually desirable doesn't mean you are objectifing them. And when a person is objectifing someone it doesn't mean that person is are sexually aroused.

    These to very different things. You can fine someone sexually attractive and respect there personhood. For example there is a model i follow and think is very sexy. She has very ample breasts and did a phoot shoot in a bra that was clearly too small for her. The whole time i was look at those photos i thought " I know this is trying to be sexy but there no way that is comfortable "

    Now objectification is the act of viewing a person as object instead a person.

  • if are asking if I think of her as piece of meat or an animal when I want to fuck her, then no. get turn on about banging in the most unexcepted random place.

  • I don't see her less human that's a little crazy. I don't really objectfy woman but if I did in someway I would not see youbas something else's than a person.

  • Well as a Dom, I see them as sex toys.

  • She is not less human Just because someone is hot doesn't mean someone is less human.

  • Never. Women are amazing

  • The word "objectify" is way overused by women when it comes to male sexuality.

    To answer your question, no, most men don't see women as "less human" when they desire her sexually and we don't see her as an object. We just desire to have sex with her. I don't get the "objectification" thing.

  • No, I don't view any of them as "human". The sexually attractive ones can be desirable but I know that they are all spawns of Satan and therefore must be avoided by all means necessary