Men, would you be turned off if your significant other asked to be fucked with lights off?

i would want to see their bodies so yeah, if i can't, it'd be a shame.

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here, your woman is telling you that if you want your relationship to escalate, if you want to get physical, then you can do so only in dark. no lights, no daylight either, it's her preference..
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  • It would be a definite concern. I'd wonder what was wrong with her.

    I think I would want to see her naked body before having sex the first time. It would be cute if she was shy about getting naked and self conscious once she was nude. It would be fun helping her to relax and get into it.
    If she was too self conscious to be seen nude, though, I'd figure she was too inhibited for me. I mean WTF? Will she get down to her bra and panties? Then why not take them off? I like women who know about sex and enjoy it.

    I'd really want to see her. For one thing, it's a super turn on. But also, I wouldn't want to start an intimate relationship only to discover later that she had some grotesque deformity or something.

    After that, we could do it in the dark. I've done it in the dark before. It's alright sometimes. But I prefer light, even if it's really dim like moonlight or a candle, because I want to be able to see her. The tactile sense is great, but I am also very visual.

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  • In that moment I'm not going to be turned on or turned off I'm going to be curious why and then I'm going to make her try to feel comfortable and confident about herself and her body and then in the morning time when it's daylight I'm going to start my hanky panky and I'm going to say you should have done it last night LOL now Let's Ride Hee-Haw giddy up girl LMAO no I'm more concerned about why she feels the way that she feels and then I would ask her what do you want to do about it let's fix it

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  • That would be more than a turn-off - it would probably mean that our relationship would DE-escalate.

    It's one thing to do it in the dark once in a while for fun, or because you're camping in the woods or something, but it would be a major turn-off if that's what she expected to do all the time.

  • sorry but this would be a turn off for me.

    i had a friend who was like that, she was not confident in her body, to the point that she wouldn't even get changed in front of her partner. most guys will not like this as its nice to see each other whilst having fun

  • Almost always have the lights off or very low. Not due to not wanting to see each other or self conciousness, just never really thought much about it.

  • Not for me. We do it occasionally, it's a bit mysterious an exotic.

  • I wouldn't like it as much but hopefully after we got more comfortable with each other the circumstances would change.

  • First several times, I would assume that her decision reflects some insecurities and I would indlge her wishes for several weeks before I started trying to get her to relax about me seeing her naked body.

  • It’s nice to have a little dim light but fucking in the dark is not a deal breaker for me. For example, fucking in a tent on a camping trip without electricity was a ton of fun!

  • It would be a turn off. Having sex is enjoying each other's bodies and that includes seeing it. Removing the ability to see it is taking away part of the enjoyment of sex. Even if you think you do not look great, a guy wants to be able to see the gal he is enjoying sex with.

  • We wouldn't last very long at all.

  • Absolutely not & if she wants the lights off & I want the lights on all I have to do is turn off the lights off to make her happy & I can wear night vision goggles.

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