Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I'm 24 and none of my past relationships worked out because I couldn't have sex (due to a health issue). My most recent relationship lasted for 3 years (almost 4), but it was not without pressure & coercion to have sex with him. In the end he realized the reality of my health issue and said he could wait, but I could always sense his frustration with me. It's not like we didn't do anything, we would do everything except for penetration, but I guess that's not enough for some people.
I plan to see a doctor to fix my issue once COVID settles down because I know I need surgery. However, I also expect sex to be painful even after my attempt to fix my health issue.
I know that sex is not a huge part of the relationship, and it's definitely something that I can live without since it has caused me so much pain. I would much rather enjoy other aspects of life with a long-term partner, without the pressures and anxieties around having sex. With that said, do you guys think there's anyone out there who is willing to wait (a VERY long time) to have penetrative sex or who doesn't care about sex at all?
Men, would you consider spending the rest of your life with a woman who doesn't have sex with you?
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0 31Yes, because I’m interested in having my penis cut off
May I ask why?
My super high libido is sometimes extremely difficult to live with
Probably not
Some might be able to get by with out it. Many probably not
never
That would be No
Thank you for your input :(
yes, if we loved each other.
Love without sex is not love
I believe that sex is an extension of love, where love still exists even if sex doesn’t… if your partner gets into an accident and can no longer have sex, does that mean you no longer love them?
That's a different case. If one is healthy and doesn't have sexual feelings, that's not love.
Are they out there? Sure. Most guys are going to want to have sex though. Maybe you should try checking out the asexuality website? There are people who don’t want to have sex but still want to be in a loving relationship. Maybe it’s an option for you? Good luck. I hope you find the right guy for you and he makes you happy.
Thank you so much :(
I don’t think things are as hopeless as you think. I’m sure you’ll find someone. Don’t lose heart.
Ya I would