Men, would you still respect a female friend if she blew you occasionally? Or would you just look at her as a slut? I’m really curious?

[Anonymous]

[chrissykerdock]

i've given head to friends... i don't know if they'd stop respecting i see it as they see you as someone who give blowjobs... i mean is that bad? they also will you see as someone to give them blowjobs and if you don't they get really pissy and angry if you don't so you wind up giving to them in those cases... so it's not so much they lose respect but they see you as a person to give them a blowjob when they need it.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Most guys would love that. And if they had the brains of a sea slug they would at least tell you they still respected you very much (anything to keep those occasional bjs coming...). As for whether they really would still respect you? Who knows? Guys are weird lol.

Seriously. If you wanna blow him go for it. If he stops respecting you for that he’s not much of a friend.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Anon guy makes a good point

[7771999]

He's not a friend if you go sexual with him. Lol That's just major awkwardness. Men lose respect for easy and loose women. They might say they still respect her (to get more out of her, or to not feel guilty)...

[Gwenhwyfar]

@7771999 and they shouldn’t!!!

[7771999]

Shouldn't or should. Reality is reality Same with your style of clothing. If men get an overly sexual vibe from you (dressing in short skirts and showing cleavage), then they will only see you as an object to fuck in their mind. If you have self respect (and want respect from men) you need to dress like a person. A person who believes her worth is not her body in the eyes of horny men. Dress modestly (doesn't mean you need to look like you're from the 1700s...)

[vald9inches]

@7771999 your retarded and an embarrassment to all men go live in the fucking middle east like the caveman you are

[7771999]

vald9inches 💀 You're not even a man, if you're such a sexual degenerate, go live in Thailand with the ladyboys. Nasty

[7771999]

Again, these guys never let me speak one on one. They're always so butthurt about my opinions 🤷🏻‍♂️💀 Actual stalkers

[vald9inches]

Oh please you wish i was your stalker to give it to you in your ass because thats the only action you will ever get in your pathetic insect existence

[7771999]

You want my ass?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@asker thanks 😊

[Bright_blue_eyes]

In my mind, the key to prevent getting tagged as a slut is to have that guy as a real friend. Do non-sexual things with him. If you know the guy, and you didn't just meet him for the first time, you can enjoy the act together without any shame. I would also suggest talking about it with him. Tell him you like it, but you're not a slut, you just enjoy giving him pleasure. That would be a huge complement. Next. if you just met the guy, and you blow him... he will not likely have respect for you. I love that you're honest about it, and that you're willing to give him a BJ, you just need to make sure your relationship with him is more that just BJs. If you're the girl in the Pic he is a lucky. Be smart. You'll get respect if you demand respect.

[HugoThe2nd]

I don't base my respect for others on their sexual behavior.
Not even if they charge for them blowjobs.

[OlderAndWiser]

That isn't the kind of woman that I would ever marry.

[TheorionMage]

Reciprocally,
women would YOU still 'respect' a platonic male friend
who casually teased YOUR breast's nipples, put their hand down your panties
fingered your ass and genitals
getting you 'wet' just to watch your aching and 'light you up'?
Or is he a 'Pervy groper'?

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah she’s a friend, it happens and of course you return the favour.

people often have needs and itches that need resolved and do not want to hook up with strangers, someone within their friend circle is often ideal.

just that something that takes the edge off.

definitely not a slut.

if it’s too regular then would be having a chat with them though, as may be some other issues.

[ohshee]

Are you talking about the girl in the picture woman she started giving me a blowjob the rest of my clothes and be coming up and the rest of hers because that girl there I would rather focus on getting her up and getting myself off I think she's a Hot Lover whoever she is

[TheCunningLinguist]

As long as she doesn't lose respect for me for giving her oral on the regular as well.

[TonyV]

Of course I would respect her.

[stevie123]

I would respect her of course.
As a friend she gave a service of devotion.
I would not consider her a slut at all.
Actually I had two girls years ago that did just that.
We are still close friends and still occasionally bring it up.
Those are memories worth keeping

[Leavesbound]

Anyone who blows me has my respect. Also, I'd be inclined to reciprocate.

[wankiam]

i have a lot of rspect for ''sluts'' so yeah ofcourse i would respect her and be very appreciative too

[jshm2]

Technically you're the groupie or side piece - not the friend - of the group you're being groomed to think you are.

Tread carefully, as you may end up out in the woods with no return ride - if you know what I mean.

[Kaneki05]

Obviously would respect her. Then again i have common sense and only see people who cheat as sluts.

[LiamSawyer]

That would depend on why she is willing to do that for me. If she's a close friend and we often hang out together without romantic feelings, watch movies together, I cook for her and we often eat together but neither of us has a romantic partner and she just occasionally blows me to help, I'd be fine with that and return the favor and would never think of her as a slut just a very close friend.

[Bricealan]

Had a really adventurous friends with benefits after college and she gave me several blow jobs before she would let me return the favor. No difference in how I felt about her. She was great

[DJB72]

My female friends aren't the type of person who would do that. I'm not sure how I'd react if any of them offered to once, never mind more than once.

[exitseven]

If we were really close friends and she let me eat her out once in a while to return the favor.

[Ripper_E]

If it is always with my consent, then yes I would still respect her. A friend is a friend, and if they blow me occasionally, that's between her an I.

[klpic]

for me it would be an absolute pleasure. and yes I would respect her

[FilmGuy93]

Of course I would respect her. Having my penis in her mouth doesn't make her any less of a person