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“Life is divided into the horrible and the miserable.” – Woody Allen
Nobody would blame former pornstar Mia Rose if she embraced this cynical statement after the year she suffered through. Oh, think you had a rough year? Let’s compare notes, shall we?
In 2015, Mia’s home was robbed and her car was stolen, she suffered through a botched abortion, watched her fiancé walk out the door as she sat bleeding and crying in the tub, lost a devoted canine friend by the name of Alexander, and was the victim of identity theft. As the rotten cherry on this depressing parfait, don’t forget that Mia was also homeless at one point in her life.
However, at some point during my two-hour talk with Miss Mia Rose, I started to realize something vital: Life can be unforgiving and brutal but despite it all, smiles and laughter are in there…somewhere. Her brutal honesty and openness was not only refreshing, but it was bound to eradicate assumptions and pre-conceived notions concerning former pornstars. Amid her hard-hitting words and occasional tears, one spots a deep-rooted desire to survive; a hardness sheltering a vulnerable core that we all have.
A great human interest story can only be found when there's conflict and abundant emotion. It ain't no goddamn fairytale; it's life in all its despair and, ultimately, hope.
GaG: So, wow…tough year, huh?
Mia: “Actually, last year started out being the happiest of my life. I got engaged to my boyfriend, who I'd known for 10 years before we started dating, and everything was going great. I even got a $10,000 donation on my stream. But then just everything went to shit— My BMW got stolen, my house was broken into, and my fiancé left after he found out I was pregnant. Then my identity got stolen and my dog died and…it was just awful. It just turned into the worst fucking year and I was like, ‘Is this real life? It just can’t be, right?’”
GaG: Your fiancé left when he found out you were pregnant?
Mia: “Yeah, well, I got pregnant and got an abortion but something went wrong. I just remember seeing all this blood running out of me; they said there’d be some blood but I was thinking, ‘there shouldn’t be this much blood.’ I don’t know what went wrong but it was really bad. And then one night I was literally in the tub with all this blood pouring from me and then my fiancé…he just left. Walked right out. And I really loved this guy, you know? I’d known him for a long time and we were living together for a while and everything. But after he left I think things just got worse. As if they could possibly get any fucking worse.”
GaG: With all this going on, what have you been doing to keep your mind off the bad things? What do you like to do these days?
Mia: “Oh, I’ve just been playing a lot of games and streaming, though I find it hard to stream these days. I was really into WoW (World of Warcraft) but I burned myself out on that; now I’m into Rainbow Six Siege and I’ve been playing the shit out of it. I also loved The Division beta and that’s going to be my favorite game, I just know it. So yeah, I’ve been playing a lot and I think video games have been keeping me going, because I’m trying so hard not think about all the bad shit. I don’t think I’ve been handling it all quite as well as I have been, but my new dog has helped a lot, too. His name is Ben and I just hope he stays okay.
I’ve also spent a lot of time with my friend Emily. She’s a 13-year-old with leukemia and she’s always in the hospital and doesn’t have any family. We talk every day on Skype and I swear, what this girl has given me over the past year or so…it’s amazing. She’s just incredible. She even did this video for me and it makes me cry every time I see it:”
GaG: Moving on to happier things, what’s your take on the current dating scene? Is it easier for Millennials to meet people these days?
Mia: “You know, it’s just getting way too easy…which actually makes it harder, if that makes any sense. Now you have so many ways to weed out the people you don’t want, so many ways to try to find the perfect person that’s the exact right fit for you. But how the fuck do you even know that’s what you really want? I mean, I went on Match and those ended up being some of the most miserable dates of my life. I tried telling them about what I’d done [porn] and I tried not telling them; doesn’t matter, didn’t work either way. It just sucked. We don’t seem to have any idea what we really want, even though we’ve got all these ways to communicate with each other now.
Like with our phones. I know I’m addicted to my phone and it sucks. I remember growing up in Alaska in a town of like 300 people and then, yeah, you had to just walk over to a friend’s house and if nobody was there, that’s it; you’re shit out of luck. That’s when people talked to each other and did things together, you know? I just…I don’t know. I wish it was easier. I actually get really nervous with phone calls; I mean I actually get social anxiety sometimes and it’s just so stupid.
We’re all so lonely. We all just want to find someone who makes us happy, that’s all.”
GaG: How do you feel about marriage? The GaG community is pretty split on the issue…
Mia: “Oh, I would love to get married. It’s just so sad now, though, you know? I actually think the way marriage was in the ‘50s was great. That’s because then you had to work things out; you didn’t really have a choice. You had to actually try and make it work because not everyone got divorced all the time. I actually proposed to my boyfriend and he said yes (even though it ended badly). I just love the thought of marriage; I think it’d be amazing to have someone who’s your best friend, who will always be there to support you. But because it’s so easy to get divorced, people aren’t taking this shit seriously anymore. They’re not taking it seriously and nobody seems to be trying too hard, either.
Yes, I’d like to be a housewife. I really would.”
GaG: And feminism…?
Mia: “Such bullshit. These feminists don’t even know what feminism is. They think they know so much about the topic but they have no fucking idea what the actual dictionary term is. It’s just so disgusting…fuck them. I’m a feminist but that’s because I actually know what that word means.”
GaG: If you were to give any sex advice to young inexperienced girls, what would it be?
Mia: “Oh my gosh, I could say so much about this. I actually have a little segment on my stream called Love Line; if you’re young and you want to ask me a question, please ask the question. Let me just say this: If I knew then what I know now, I’d be a lot better off. For example, sex for the first time isn’t going to feel good. Not one girl I’ve ever spoken to has said their first time is good; the second and third time it gets better but the first time is just shit. I’m actually torn on the topic of who should be your first…on the one hand, I think you should do it with a friend or someone you love, but then I think you should just do it with a stranger to get it out of the way, because it’s going to suck anyway. You’ll probably end up hating their guts. ‘laughs’
I still remember doing it for the first time and coming home and telling my mom I’d lost my virginity. I just remember being in so much pain and then my mom started crying with me. It wasn’t easy.”
GaG: And how about porn? Do people learn things they shouldn’t?
Mia: “Yeah, you know, it’s not anywhere near as good as it looks in the porn movies. It’s not glamorous and weird shit happens. People don’t know it but you’re going to be introduced to some weird smells and noises. If you’re doing anal, for example, yeah, you don’t even want to know some of the shit you’ll hear and smell. Now, I just can’t watch pro porn anymore; I’m like, ‘oh god, these girls are overdoing it.’ All I have to say is, don’t watch porn. It’s not going to help. It’ll probably just screw you up.”
GaG: And how’s about the always thorny “size” issue? Do you have the definitive answer?
Mia: “Yeah, it’s another reason not to watch porn. Guys get this fucked up idea of size. Look, they have to understand that the guys who do porn grew up next to some factory where there was some chemical spill or some shit. Girls, please remember that’s not the way dicks are. And yeah, I’m okay with normal-sized dicks; 6-7 inches is perfect to me and that’s it. Let’s just admit that ladies parts are ugly and boy parts can be small or big but it’s no big deal. I actually kinda like them when they’re soft, believe it or not!”
End Interview
We’d like to thank Mia for her time and we appreciate the opportunity to deliver something with a little flavor. How many bland, boring Q&As exist? Reading them is kinda like eating dairy-free, fat-free vanilla ice cream without a single solitary sprinkle. This, however…well, this was something else entirely, was it not?
For more, follow her on Twitter and feel free to check her popular streaming activities on Twitch. Speaking of which, tune in tonight at 8 p.m. PST / 11 p.m. EST, when Mia and myself will be chatting about GirlsAskGuys (and other topics, I imagine). And don't forget to check out our most recent interview with lifestyle coach Cheyenne Bostock and stay tuned for more great chats in the very near future!
What Girls & Guys Said
15 78I have nothing against her, but I'm not particularly impressed or inspired by her, no. Her story is different yet still the same as some other ex-porn stars. Nothing particularly special about it for me.
I couldn't care less.
Sorry to hear any man wants to marry that,
If anyone in this world deserves to be alone it is sex workers.
Marry an ex sex worker? The most idiotic thing I can think of.
Sorry to hear about Emily and the dog dying. I wish Emily the best. I hope no guy ever wants to be with someone who did porn.
Lol, this is over a year old, why is it coming up in the feed.
Was on an episode of Catfish where she confront her troll that would make comments about the amount of Cleavage she showed during streams.
She's a gamer. All sins would be forgiven if I were a god. But mostly because of her view on feminism.
I like how they didn't ask for ANY clarification/specifics, there. What? LOL Like, we have no idea (1) what her definition is, OR (2) what definition (s) she's railing against. I mean, I can guess, but then I'd be... well... guessing.
@redeyemindtricks the perfect opinion no? She's avoiding any negative biasing by being so 'perfect'. Its like this interview was tailored to portray her in a benevolent manner.
TBF, that's just as likely (more likely, in fact) to be the editor's discretion.
@redeyemindtricks Maybe so, we might just be blocked for voicing controversial opinions G@G like how a pornstar has nothing dirty to say? This interview is too clean. You'd expect some hard hitting, gut wrenching facts but instead its just drizzled down. Maybe Mia is writing an autobiography (so many pornstar biographies) and this is just shoddy publicity.
The hell with biographies, she could make some decent $$ with a quickness just by sharing a Twitch link. MIA YOU HEAR ME GURL? Lol but srsly tho...
@redeyemindtricks it all started with Linda Lovelace, this autobiography craze amongst the pornstars. Though, You just might be right about that.
Watch her stream if you want hard hitting dirty things she says
@Needles_Kane we're talking about the G@G interview pal. Been there, done that.
Interesting life choices but not right or wrong... You are gutsy
"And yeah, I’m okay with normal-sized dicks; 6-7 inches is perfect to me and that’s it."
Statistically 6-7 inches is still above average.
I caught that, too.
@Bluemax yeah it kinda defeats the purpose of what she was trying to do
I think it's just because women can't really tell that well how many inches is what size. They tend to overestimate the number of inches because they put their face next to it and it looks bigger.
Nah bro. 7+ is above average. 6-7 inches is normal size.
@Jose_R LOL No 5 -6 Is average. 6-7 is well endowed.
This is another lie of Mia in the interview. Porn actresses only want big cocks and off camera not excite hers a normal or small cock. Porn raise the true average size of cock that is really 5-6 inch
You forgot to ask her where that chemical spill takes place, and if she's selling samples.
Well I had a read of this and it was interesting, while I can never agree with the porn industry or anything like that I find it wrong. I can relate to how life can be pretty awful sometimes and I am sorry you had to go through all that, especially the pregnancy that is something that no one should ever have to do alone.
It sounds like you got out of that industry for the better and hopefully your doing something you find more meaningful with your life, wish you luck.
Is that the dog that died in that photo? (S) He's so cute. Poor dog.
No that is Ben in the picture, I was going to link a picture of ALex for oyu, but I'm not on a high enough lvl or some shit.
Gonna play devils advocate here, but this greatly sounds like it is only half of the story:
“Yeah, well, I got pregnant and got an abortion but something went wrong. I just remember seeing all this blood running out of me; they said there’d be some blood but I was thinking, ‘there shouldn’t be this much blood.’ I don’t know what went wrong but it was really bad. And then one night I was literally in the tub with all this blood pouring from me and then my fiancé…he just left. Walked right out. And I really loved this guy, you know? I’d known him for a long time and we were living together for a while and everything. But after he left I think things just got worse. As if they could possibly get any fucking worse.”
I know exactly what happened. Just wasn't sure I really wanted to get into it? I knew him for ten years. He lived with me for one. Its was in Sept that I found out I was pregnant. 9 weeks 4 days. I can't exactly go into detail on the abortion, due to a lawsuit. I'm sorry
@missmiarose It's cool, Mia! I am praying and rooting for you! You are a gorgeous and very sweet young lady. I also play WoW. I hope we run into each other in game some time.
@ctillis Well what server you on? My battle tag is full. But if you are horde. I'll make some room for you
@missmiarose I play on both North American and EU realms. I play both factions. I am playing more on EU of late. One of my servers is Ravencrest US. Another server I am on is Bronzebeard EU.
Hardly seems like much of a roll model for young people. She's probably suffering from mental illness, she's doing pornography winding up in shit neighborhoods where her car is being stolen and her house broken into. She wants a 50's marriage but she can't have it because she's screwed her life up acting in porn. Why not pick someone who has succeed rather than failed at life?
That made my morning interesting. I feel ya girl! All the way (:!
Well gee, some common sense after all. I was expecting a self-victimized bimbo.
And check out that 'size' answer - what I've been saying for years here. DON'T WATCH PORN - it's all fake. Soon you'll be believing all that depravity.
no such thing as an ex porn star. i dont think many decent men would be willing to marry a women like that. date sure, sex sure but marry not so much.
Interesting article! Some people are really down to Earth and she is! 🙂
I knew a girl before she got into porn and she was into DBZ and Pokemon and I'm not joking either, porn stars are gamers!
"Men in porn grew up near a chemical spill...'
LOL
How did she ever get into the porn industry?
From the guy that left her for dead in the tub
@Needles_Kane her pimp?
@Righttobeararms83 She's not whore, so she doesn't have a pimp & it's illegal to have sex for money, dummy
@Needles_Kane but ok to have sex if a cameras filming got it. Pimp :Procuring or pandering is the facilitation or provision of a prostitute or sex worker in the arrangement of a sex act with a customer.[1] A procurer, colloquially called a pimp (if male) or a madam (if female), is an agent for prostitutes who collects part of their earnings. The procurer may receive this money in return for advertising services, physical protection, or for providing, and possibly monopolizing, a location where the prostitute may engage clients. Like prostitution, the legality of certain actions of a madam or a pimp vary from one region to the next.
Actually, I was found on MySpace. Asked to do a nude photoshoot, and was told I wouldn't be paid until I did a masturbation movie for 15 min. @needles_kane, it was my ex who got me into pc gaming
@missmiarose Ahh I see. How come you decided to continue?
Continue gaming or porn? I guess both the same answer, I enjoyed doing both.
@missmiarose what are you doing now since your no longer in porn?
I stream. Meaning I play video games on twitch. tv
@missmiarose This is very hypocrital. First she say in the interview don’t watch porn, It’ll probably just screw you up. And second she say that continue gaming and porn, she enjoyed doing porn. This is incoherent
@Nicol89 I did porn. I know the smoke and mirrors. Its very simple. So, please, try to keep up. I loved doing porn. Yes. Would I say that a virgin should watch porn to learn? No, not once. Its not the place to learn... You my friend, need to keep up.
@missmiarose I know that porn is not good to learn, I am not virgin. But, I mean that is incoherent when you say: "All I have to say is, don’t watch porn. It’s not going to help. It’ll probably just screw you up.” then you say loved doing porn and answer: "Continue gaming or porn? I guess both the same answer, I enjoyed doing both". This suggests that you tell lies in the interview. For example, I work as a nurse, I would be hypocritical if I speak shit of my work and I continue doing it.
I might have to check her out on twitch sometime.
@missmisrose will you be staying around on G@G to provide advice and stuff.
@mismiarose
@missmiarose
I thought about it. But, I feel as if my advice is not looked at in a serious manner by most readers. So, I will more than likely lurk.
@missmiarose I hope you change your mind on that. I understand people might have preconceived opinions because of your prior work, but I think everyone has good advice to offer on here.
This post infuriates me and I don't know why. Am I the only one who reads between the lines here. Not attacking this girl, but another general post that pisses me off. Firstly: First world problems: cute. But I will give that to you because everyone has problems. but in the context of gag, this illustrates again how ludicrously easy it is for a woman to choose her sexual path. She could have a boyfriend, be a porn star, then stop, believe in marrage and then say porn is bad because she tried it. What's worse is that she is a gamer. Fuckin gamer men are invisible to most women. This highlights exactly how reality works. Most men can NeVer get this. Yet alone gamer dudes. Why😭😭😭?
Mia doesn't think porn is bad, it just doesn't look good on the resume.
I never once said porn was bad as a whole. I meant, porn is a bad way for people who do not know anything about sex to learn.
@missmiarose and @needles_kane i don't really care whether porn is bad, or what she thinks of it or what pieces of porn are good or not. My issue is of CHOICE. This highlights it again (again and again and again) sex and their sexual path for women is so easy. They can choose whatever sex path they want and still have a normal life. Men can't. That's what infuriates me. I would love to be a gamer nerd/porn star. But women don't fuck gamers, they don't fuck introverts, not on the level of porn anyway. I'm doing my best to be my own porn star but it's coming at a severe price. My hobbies and everything is going down the shithole... I don't even have the time to get a dog lol. Women don't have this problem. This post highlights this to the nth degree.
Whoa whoa whoa. This is not true. women do date introverts. I prefer to see people like me. Gamers, streamers, etc. And Men can choose just as easily as women. And no, I can't have a normal life. If you would like proof of that, I have links and videos those show the discrimination I face EVERYDAY for a job I had 10 years ago. What EXACTLY is your issue with it? So I can try to help. From what I am gathering " from your last post" maybe you are just kidding? Can't tell. You are trying to start porn company? What do you mean by " I'm doing my best to be my own pornstar"
@missmiarose really? Men can choose just as easily as women? Bullshit. Let me specify it a little more: SOME men have that power, which a MAJORITY of women have. Why did Ron Jeremy say that for a man to get into porn, he needs to bring a girl? Why is that? I know why, I want to hear your answer. why do single men have to pay to get into swinger clubs? They are vetted and usually bounced unless they pay? Why is that? Why is there a massive demand for female prostitution and not male gigalos? Why? Men can't get their sexual path unless they are a certain type of man (fit, usually powerful, dominant assertive personality) the rest of the average joes have to pay for it unless: they get that girl on their arm. Which means attraction. But a nice introvert guy isn't going to attract a porn star, or a "bad girl" who wants this. Me... yes I'm proof of all this. I do want to start a porn company, but I need finances, in order to get disposable income to pay women. So I have to work in..
Vanilla world to be that rich to activate this company. (Copyright did destroy the porn industry lol) then I'm trying to find that porn girl. But again.., that's difficult, especially for a nice guy like me. I'm on fetlife trying to establish poly circles but all this work is taking a toll on me. Whereas my female counterparts in Fet just ask for their sexual wants and there is a row of like 20 guys willing to do it. So if you can give me an answer to getting that same power as my female counterparts, I'm all ears.
Why are you talking to her as if it is third person? You do realize missmiarose is the person in the mytake right?
@ikissedtheskyonce I spoke to her in first person and then went on with general topics. If I didn't know this, I wouldn't of called her by name on my original post. Lol any grammar mistakes is due to me being at work while typing this.
I just don't have any input. I'm sorry. Porn is dead / dying. Copyright fucked it over. So, you are mad that you can't get into porn? : l :: face palm :: its all a matter of meeting the right people and approaching it the proper way. And from the sounds of things, you are a bit pushy. Starting a full company inst as easy as it sounds. But, on the bright side, you are a male. Can you tell me how many females own porn companies? I can.. on one hand. so, you saying females have it so easy, makes me think " WHAT IN THE FUCK "
@missmiarose I know you don't have any in put. Most women can't answer those questions. Why? It's a world you never have to deal with. A guy cannot just get into porn like you say. If any girl on gag applied to a porn company, they would get it, men can't. Meet the right ppl? That's a slight possibility, but you have to offer that girl that Ron Jeremy speaks of. Then you prove my point: yes starting a business is hard. Porn is more of an expensive hobby for rich men. So if a man isn't born rich or makes it fast, he is denied. Women don't have this problem. Again: one by Pic and application to porn company and you in. I'm not saying a man can't do this, but you have to be a minute minority of men or work hard at it (which consumes that very life you trying to live) to actually, possibly, make it work. This happens outside porn too. Men just battle more than women in the sex game.
So you have done porn before, cause you seem to know more about it than the porndtsr herself
@Needles_Kane serious high suicide rates and drug abuse among porn stars means they must be very damaged people. If thats before thry got into porn or because of the soulessness of porn I dont know.
@Righttobeararms83 I heard thats true I have a lot of pity for pornstars.
@Spermdumster666 I watched a documentary by Louis Theroux where he interviewed some pornstars and came back years later some had killed themselves, or got married and divorced to other pornstars, the women now too old for main stream porn (age30) had these souless eyes as if life had beaten them down and the guys were so sad and lonely even though they had giant dicks. I just wanted to give all those poor pathetic wretches a big hug.
@Righttobeararms83 that sounds so sad I guess people go into porn have had a tough time growing up and not raised to know better.
@Spermdumster666 that about sums it up
@Needles_Kane yip I know a lot because guys get denied all the time, so I researched ways how to make it work. You see women in porn don't have this problem they just apply and they are in. It's as simple as "I want to do porn... send application". men either have to be in the social circle (obviously outsiders are discouraged) or be rich enough to use their disposable income on it (porn isn't a great financial investment anymore). So basically I've had to research the business. You can compare it to the acting business. Females merely need to show up and act, but men need to know the entire business and have the capital to fund it (unless again, you rich or connected).
@Spermdumster666 I'm sorry but I can't take you seriously with that user name lol Please spare me the pity party. I do what I do for my reasons. if a man could get porn style fantasies without paying for it, then it would be far simpler. But most can't, hence this route.
Wow I did not think anyone else could have gone through much the same as I have. Tommie waking on my first real home since losing everything I had in life to a March 12 event. I was then homeless in a wheelchair while it's still winter in Montreal. Robbed twice, and my youngest daughter of 4 died.
I did come out of this head held high and much happier on the past months.
I feel a MyTake coming on.