Mid-30’s nudist virgin... is this a turn off?

I’ve grown up a nudist (parents are nudists) and wasn’t into dating much, so sex never happened but now I’m open to the idea of it happening in a relationship. The person I would date doesn’t have to be a nudist but will have to be okay with me and my family being nudists.

Also, would it be a turn off that I’ve still never had sex?
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  • There are so many horror stories going around about what nudists actually do when they are out there in their most simple clothing that a great number of people would probably be put off by the fact that a person is a nudist and walks around without any decent clothing on.

    Also, I hear that there are so many lewd movies about what is really going on in nudist camps that I am a not a fan about them in general.

    The fact that you are a virgin at your age actually speaks for you and I am convinced that there are men (or women) that have no issues being in a relation with a person that has your quality.

    I believe a lot of stories about nudists and their freedom are exaggerated but personally I would not feel comfortable with someone that has a great experience being nude around others, mainly in view that nowadays, you have a great number of perverts that go to nudist camps and resorts to look at and film the girls.

    I would certainly not want to be a victim of those lewd guys should I have to accompany my partner to one of those retreats and would probably never agree to join my partner to one of the camps.

  • No why should it be?

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  • 34? at this age you should not worry about just sex, you should worry about children, it's more important. No, female virginity is never a turn off, if anything it's a turn on, even at your age, it means that a is a girl wife material by default, okay maybe if you was antisexual it was a turn off but you not antisexual.

    I don't think that your guy would have a problem with you being naked all day, seeing your family naked would likely be more odd for him. A virgin nudist, it's a rare combination, especially in those ages, well that means that insecurity about a guy seeing you naked is not one of the reasons for why you are still a virgin girl. :)

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  • I wouldn’t have a issue with it

    • Thank you for MHO

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  • I really don't think being a virgin matters, although not everyone would feel comfortable being a nudist, well not in public settings anyhow.

  • I think it's a turn on to many that you haven't had sex as many males will find it as a challenge I think being a nudest is a fantastic way to be Be so close to nature Benefitting from the elements of the earth and living much closer to how it should be So in answer to your question it's a big no no Warning Though There will be so many wanting to be your first and use you for this Virginity is a very special thing to give and any truthful and caring person is who you should be seeking Who ever you choose remember this should not be given lightly

  • The virgin part wouldn’t faze me but the nudism would be a dealbreaker

  • The body is beautiful no matter what! I am a nudist for life!

  • Being a nudist is something your potential partner would have to accept for sure. I know nudists and while in not a nudist myself, I have give with them to nudist beaches and resorts and gone nude. I see no problem with it at all, and would date a nudist. As for being a virgin it wouldn't be a turn off. If he's truly I to you it wouldn't matter at all. Doesn't for me anyways.

  • Now you should have sex. And nude life is surely excellent.

  • i say focus on the relationship aspect first and then bring nudity into the mix.

  • Not really. My biggest concern dating a nudist would be erections. I will probably get hard far more often, and if I live with them I may choose to go nude as well.

  • If i wasn't already off the market i would ask where can i sign up.

  • I‘m sure there are many guys out there who see no problem with any of the points you mentioned.

  • Not necessarily, I do like a girl with experience.
    As far as the nudist thing, I’m rather well endowed and am afraid I’d be walking around with a boner all day!

    • This actually doesn’t happen as often as people think it would. I’ve introduced several newbies into nudism throughout my life and only a few times was a boner an issue.

    • Good to know!

  • Hello. I don't consider it a turn off. I just think that in this situation you should have a little more responsibility, a woman should be respected, desired and feel totally fulfilled, especially in your first time. the man must be very calm and not be quick to penetrate, especially if he is very well endowed as thick as I am, in this case I always use a lot of affection. I had the pleasure of being the first of some women, including some friends of mine. be happy

  • Wouldn't turn me off at all.

    • And maybe fun dating someone like that.

  • R u hairy or shaved

  • Not at all, it might even be a turn on

  • Do u want sex

  • I want to take a girls virginity kind of a turn on for me...

  • I prefer virgins as I am one too. The nudist scene concerns me as I often get random erections throughout the day.

  • I am sure that you can find men willing to accept you for who you are. I am surprised that no men approached you while you were nude